Will my story be rejected if I write a spanking punishment that a character accepts from an authority figure, but doesn’t sexually enjoy?

[EmilyMiller]

I went to a burlesque show where they had a professional dominatrix spank anyone who wanted a turn. SO many men lined up, and tons of them enjoyed it, it was hilarious.

Sounds like a great plot…

 

[YmaOHyd]

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[Britva415]

@Britva415 , my apologies. I had you and someone called @ronde confused. I should not have been lazy and tried to go off memory. In fact, you were extremely helpful and it was @ronde who accused me of being a pedophile. Again, thank you for the original help and my apologies for the confusion.

What specifically is it you're apologizing for? "Getting me mixed up with ronde" doesn't tell me anything, because ronde isn't even in this thread.

The things I'd appreciate apology for in THIS thread are:

Projecting pedophilia onto me

Repeatedly

Repeatedly repeatedly

And making my response to somebody else's question your business just because you and I butted heads in a different thread today.

Following me around to different threads to escalate conflict is creepy and toxic and got you ignored. The only reason I'm even aware of any of your backpedaling at all is I saw someone else giving you credit for having a little class and making an apology, so I had to "show ignored content" to see how specific and sincere it seemed.

I don't doubt your sincerity, but I can't tell what it applies to.

 

[metropolinational]

What specifically is it you're apologizing for? "Getting me mixed up with ronde" doesn't tell me anything, because ronde isn't even in this thread.

I was apologizing for confusing you with @ronde and accusing you of being unhelpful six months ago. In fact, @ronde was unhelpful and you were extremely helpful.

Sadly, I cannot apologize for the other things you mention, as I am not sorry about them or believe I was in the wrong. I do, indeed, believe your obsession with this issue is weird and your condescending warnings are unnecessary.

But, I was wrong to claim you were unhelpful six months ago. You were extremely helpful, and for that I continue to be thankful.

 

[Britva415]

I was apologizing for confusing you with @ronde and accusing you of being unhelpful six months ago. In fact, @ronde was unhelpful and you were extremely helpful.

Sadly, I cannot apologize for the other things you mention, as I am not sorry about them or believe I was in the wrong. I do, indeed, believe your obsession with this issue is weird and your condescending warnings are unnecessary.

But, I was wrong to claim you were unhelpful six months ago. You were extremely helpful, and for that I continue to be thankful.

ronde might have been unhelpful but you doubled way down:

it was @ronde who accused me of being a pedophile

Bring the receipts and show where ronde accused you of being a pedophile. Because it sounds like you're making shit up, and continuing to project both pedophilia and obsession onto me as a "no u" kind of nyah-nyah, all because of some weird months-old resentment and spite you have against a completely different person for a reason which isn't even about pedophilia at all (I looked it up).

Even if ronde did accuse you somewhere else of being a pedophile (again, bring the receipts), it doesn't excuse or explain your behavior toward me. With that in mind you're just going back on ignore again because even if you were to bring receipts it wouldn't make any difference regarding what you've been saying to me.

Have a great writing career

 

[metropolinational]

Have a great writing career

Appreciate that. I did not want to restart our little flame war. You asked, and so I wanted to reply and provide clarity. Since you've blocked my messages, then even more reason to end the discussion here.

 

[OddLove]

Just for context of how far you can stretch the consent vs emjoyment thing... I have scenes in my femdom story where the male character is not enjoying what's happening to him, but he takes pride in being the chick's *personal stress ball, so he suffers through it until she's happy.

The trick is making sure it's consensual, not necessarily enjoyable. If consent starts to land in the gray zone, then to me, it feels too risky for Lit. But I know there's a while reluctance category which might prove me wrong. But I'm not sure, I just read bdsm category mostly.

 

[metropolinational]

If consent starts to land in the gray zone, then to me, it feels too risky for Lit.

Many of the cuckold stories on LW blow right past those lines. No consent, no enjoyment.

 

[OddLove]

Many of the cuckold stories on LW blow right past those lines. No consent, no enjoyment.

With elements like violence, intimidation, or blackmail, I'd agree. But in a scenario where cuck doesnt enjoy it but is too insecure or and doesn't have the confidence to leave, I'd say *no consent was violated. *Just disrespect/emotional abuse which I'm not sure where that line is in the rules here.

 

[ADirtyPerv]

Sounds like a great plot…

I need more hands-on research before I can write such a story. I didn't go get spanked that day, for I am a coward.