Hi @SpicyBean99 wishing you the best in life and school, go do what you have to do! Your photos have always been amazing along with the audios and stories you shared. I pop in and out because real life calls and this is for fun. I hope you at least keep writing your stories and posting them when you can; on the website and off the forums.View attachment 2584645
Hey people.
Weāve been here before and this probably feels like dĆ©jĆ vu, and I apologise for that. However, Iām finally, stepping back from posting in this thread.if you offend easily, and donāt want your ego being hurt I wouldnāt read ahead
Iāve realised that the way this side of the site functions doesnāt align with how I want to spend my time or energy.I genuinely donāt understand how some people manage to run their threads, post from the moment they wake up until the evening, reply to every DM, and remain constantly present alongside full-time jobs and real lives. It makes me question what kind of life that actually leaves outside of Lit. (I used to post most of the day and I can promise you it takes up a lot of freaking time.)
Iāve spent hours, creating genuinely new content for you guys. Not just rolling out of bed and snapping a quick pic, Iām talking doing my hair, makeup, lingerie shoots in the forest, etc etcā¦. Fresh photos, audios, short pieces of writing that actually take time. Meanwhile, in other threads, I see the same thirty or forty images reposted month after month (that seem like pictures taken originally for private use), in MAYBE, slightly different formats, usually gettingā¦. the same predictable responsesā¦..Usually from one or two ānewā lurkers who havenāt seen the same pictures recycled yet. It just makes me feel⦠for want of a better phrase: not good enough. And umm⦠whilst I know thatās not true because self love and all, i just seem to be misunderstood here.
Iāve watched people try new things, (such as ASMR audios and attempts at stories), watched them fail, and then return to whatever reliably keeps attention. (Recycled nudes, F1 talk, very minimal sexual content aside from a comment or two⦠on a SEX site.) You can see that clearly over the last week in several threads. When audio worked on my thread, it worked because it was new and the moment there wasnāt something immediately consumable, engagement dropped off completely. Yet like Iāve said, others seem to repeat the same crap over and over again and the engagement never stops.
Iāve also come to understand the difference between the few men here who engage in good faith, and they know who they are, and the majority who do the whole friendly act, while waiting for something to masturbate to.
Yes, I know what site this is.
What I find strange is how many people convince themselves the attention is genuine rather than purely consumptive. It isnāt. If you think Iām talking absolute nonsense, look at the threads in AM Pics and note what actually sustains interest.
Iāll wait.
Iām not talking about everyone. Scarlet Daisy, for example, clearly isnāt posting for likes, numbers, or leaderboard placement. Someone once actually said; quote on quote; āThere are a few popular threads in the amateur pic section, mine being one of the top 10 or whatever. ā) wnd that to me SCREAMS youāre only here for numbers and racking up likes, not the actual engagement others are here for.
Trying to pretend this space runs on anything other than sexual availability is wilful denial, and Iām no longer interested in participating in it.
Interest flopped the moment I wasnāt constantly available. Nothing about my content changed, only my presence. As soon as I wasnāt replying instantly or posting nonstop, engagement dried up. At the same time, thereās endless enthusiasm for empty, baseless āwould you ratherā games and shock-value hypotheticals that lead absolutely nowhere. Yes, it might be mildly entertaining, but on a sex site it seems far easier to debate something deliberately stupid than to read smut, engage with women about real things, or contribute anything that requires more than minimal effort.
Thatās it. I just didnāt want anyone wondering why there are no new videos, Audios or posts here.
Urgh that felt good getting all of that outrant over.
I wish you all the best, have a lovely Christmas, and a beautiful, abundant new year.
SpicyBean![]()