Wit & Nipples šŸ’

Well in that case… if people are around and willing to play?

Something a little different…

A QUESTION OF TASTE

Answer one. Answer them all. No wrong answers here and no judgment! Also absolutely no pressure to reply at all… thus comes from a place of pure curiosity.

• Do you have a type when it comes to sexual partners? What is it?

• Has your ā€œtypeā€ changed with age and experience?

• Is attraction for you mostly physical or mostly mental?

• Does mystery heighten attraction for you, or do you prefer someone open and readable?

• Do you have a favourite kink or fetish that you come back to repeatedly. What is it?

• Have you any sexual scenarios which you enjoy reading about/ or watching that you wouldn’t partake in, in real life?

• What turns you on more: being in control, giving up control, or switching? If it’s either one or the other why?

• Do your fantasies usually involve people from your real life, the internet (porn stars/social media/here?)

• Have you discovered a new kink from spending time here?

• What’s one fantasy you’ve had for years that you know may never come to fruition?
 
A QUESTION OF TASTE

• Is attraction for you mostly physical or mostly mental?
Initially it’s some what physical but once you crack that mental side and learn how the other one ticks, game over. The combo is incredible!
• What turns you on more: being in control, giving up control, or switching? If it’s either one or the other why?

• Have you discovered a new kink from spending time here?

• What’s one fantasy you’ve had for years that you know may never come to fruition?
These three blend together for me. Lit has opened my eyes to a dominant side that I never knew I had. I enjoy the control and the mental connection. I know that I’ll never get to experience it in real life.
 
Well in that case… if people are around and willing to play?

Something a little different…

A QUESTION OF TASTE

Answer one. Answer them all. No wrong answers here and no judgment! Also absolutely no pressure to reply at all… thus comes from a place of pure curiosity.

• Do you have a type when it comes to sexual partners? What is it?

• Has your ā€œtypeā€ changed with age and experience?

• Is attraction for you mostly physical or mostly mental?

• Does mystery heighten attraction for you, or do you prefer someone open and readable?

• Do you have a favourite kink or fetish that you come back to repeatedly. What is it?

• Have you any sexual scenarios which you enjoy reading about/ or watching that you wouldn’t partake in, in real life?

• What turns you on more: being in control, giving up control, or switching? If it’s either one or the other why?

• Do your fantasies usually involve people from your real life, the internet (porn stars/social media/here?)

• Have you discovered a new kink from spending time here?

• What’s one fantasy you’ve had for years that you know may never come to fruition?
My biggest kink/fetish is women in swimwear, preferably with wet bodies. I don’t know why but that has always done it for me and since I was a teenager most my fantasies revolve around this
 
Well in that case… if people are around and willing to play?

Something a little different…

A QUESTION OF TASTE

Answer one. Answer them all. No wrong answers here and no judgment! Also absolutely no pressure to reply at all… thus comes from a place of pure curiosity.

• Do you have a type when it comes to sexual partners? What is it?

• Has your ā€œtypeā€ changed with age and experience?

• Is attraction for you mostly physical or mostly mental?

• Does mystery heighten attraction for you, or do you prefer someone open and readable?

• Do you have a favourite kink or fetish that you come back to repeatedly. What is it?

• Have you any sexual scenarios which you enjoy reading about/ or watching that you wouldn’t partake in, in real life?

• What turns you on more: being in control, giving up control, or switching? If it’s either one or the other why?

• Do your fantasies usually involve people from your real life, the internet (porn stars/social media/here?)

• Have you discovered a new kink from spending time here?

• What’s one fantasy you’ve had for years that you know may never come to fruition?
1. Mature mentally not physically curvy like your sexy ass (not to be confused with extreme shit so I like hips and an ass and breasts that can fill my hands but not squash me
2. I used to like blondes with extensions and fake everything (the faker the better was mt type) when I was a teen an into my late 20s now I prefer darker hair and a more mature manner
5. Lesbian porn is a kink u guess. Cream pies and anal porn. I dont have a fetish tbh tho I like pretty feet if it counts
 
A lot here but I’ll do my bit!
Well in that case… if people are around and willing to play?

Something a little different…

A QUESTION OF TASTE

Answer one. Answer them all. No wrong answers here and no judgment! Also absolutely no pressure to reply at all… thus comes from a place of pure curiosity.

• Do you have a type when it comes to sexual partners? What is it?
I generally do … but over time it’s changed.
When young: older, buxom
30-40: definitely Asian
Now: someone confident enough but also willing to try new things.
• Has your ā€œtypeā€ changed with age and experience?
Wow reading as I go but answered above
• Is attraction for you mostly physical or mostly mental?
Physical to create a spark, mental to keep the fire burning
• Does mystery heighten attraction for you, or do you prefer someone open and readable?
Need mystery, but not to the point of keeping secrets
• Do you have a favourite kink or fetish that you come back to repeatedly. What is it?
I have and may not add on here right now
• Have you any sexual scenarios which you enjoy reading about/ or watching that you wouldn’t partake in, in real life?
I do. I think we all have
• What turns you on more: being in control, giving up control, or switching? If it’s either one or the other why?
I like switch. I think there are moments that I like to be in control, but there are also time when life sucks and I just need to be driven to do stuff
• Do your fantasies usually involve people from your real life, the internet (porn stars/social media/here?)
100% real life
• Have you discovered a new kink from spending time here?
Yes, definitely
• What’s one fantasy you’ve had for years that you know may never come to fruition?
Hmm tough one this one. I think the biggest fantasy I’ve not lived is to wine, dine and have a very public session. The idea of watching a woman orgasm in public without being noticed (and vice versa)
 
Well in that case… if people are around and willing to play?

Something a little different…

A QUESTION OF TASTE

Answer one. Answer them all. No wrong answers here and no judgment! Also absolutely no pressure to reply at all… thus comes from a place of pure curiosity.

• Do you have a type when it comes to sexual partners? What is it?

• Has your ā€œtypeā€ changed with age and experience?

• Is attraction for you mostly physical or mostly mental?

• Does mystery heighten attraction for you, or do you prefer someone open and readable?

• Do you have a favourite kink or fetish that you come back to repeatedly. What is it?

• Have you any sexual scenarios which you enjoy reading about/ or watching that you wouldn’t partake in, in real life?

• What turns you on more: being in control, giving up control, or switching? If it’s either one or the other why?

• Do your fantasies usually involve people from your real life, the internet (porn stars/social media/here?)

• Have you discovered a new kink from spending time here?

• What’s one fantasy you’ve had for years that you know may never come to fruition?
Thankyou to those that answered/sent in DMs 🄰

I’ll answer a few myself:

1) Men: beards (hairy men āœ…), preferably a bigger build (bonus points for beer bellies and strong shoulders), funny (I love dry, sarcastic humour, laughing is so key to me being turned on.) if you look like a pirate I’ll probably fancy the fuck out of you. Moustaches also do something to me. Intelligence obviously. Women: all women. I like curvier bodies anyone that doesn’t look ā€œwomanlyā€ is immediately a turn off for me I’m not into the super super 2000s skinny look… I prefer Greek goddess esque types… I also love androgynous and more butch women; short hair, masculine style….

2) My type in men has changed drastically. I used to be into tall, dark and handsome with muscles and 6 packs… I grew out of that very quickly when I realised I appreciate a man who can cook me a good meal and sit and eat shit and drink with me over someone who wants to make me rice and chicken and go for runs at 5am…. Fuck me at 5am instead pls and thankyou.

3) mental. But I need some level of physical attraction too…

4) open and readable. I can understand someone being guarded but I don’t like secretive and sly behaviour.

5) n/a

6) Yes. Something about a mask…a van…. A ā€œkidnappingā€ā€¦house break in….🫠 (consensual and planned of course.)
 
A lot here but I’ll do my bit!

I generally do … but over time it’s changed.
When young: older, buxom
30-40: definitely Asian
Now: someone confident enough but also willing to try new things.

Wow reading as I go but answered above

Physical to create a spark, mental to keep the fire burning

Need mystery, but not to the point of keeping secrets

I have and may not add on here right now

I do. I think we all have

I like switch. I think there are moments that I like to be in control, but there are also time when life sucks and I just need to be driven to do stuff

100% real life

Yes, definitely

Hmm tough one this one. I think the biggest fantasy I’ve not lived is to wine, dine and have a very public session. The idea of watching a woman orgasm in public without being noticed (and vice versa)
Agree with the secrets. I think especially when regarding sexual partners privacy is important and as much as people are allowed to be guarded… when it leaks into devious behaviour/hiding things/not quiet being able to tell truth from deceit it can be a difficult situation.

Snap on the switch side 🄰 (all the best people are switches. And doms 😈)

I like your fantasy and it’s very doable šŸ˜
 
Well in that case… if people are around and willing to play?

Something a little different…

A QUESTION OF TASTE

Answer one. Answer them all. No wrong answers here and no judgment! Also absolutely no pressure to reply at all… thus comes from a place of pure curiosity.

• Do you have a type when it comes to sexual partners? What is it?

• Has your ā€œtypeā€ changed with age and experience?

• Is attraction for you mostly physical or mostly mental?

• Does mystery heighten attraction for you, or do you prefer someone open and readable?

• Do you have a favourite kink or fetish that you come back to repeatedly. What is it?

• Have you any sexual scenarios which you enjoy reading about/ or watching that you wouldn’t partake in, in real life?

• What turns you on more: being in control, giving up control, or switching? If it’s either one or the other why?

• Do your fantasies usually involve people from your real life, the internet (porn stars/social media/here?)

• Have you discovered a new kink from spending time here?

• What’s one fantasy you’ve had for years that you know may never come to fruition?
Do I have a type? No. I think I used to prefer white women as a young man. But that died off quickly.

Is attraction mostly physical or mental? 40 percent physical 60 percent mental. I have been absolutely seduced by some wordsmiths out there ...

Do you have a favourite kink or fetish you keep coming back to? Two actually...mind control/hypnosis stories. And affairs.

Have you any sexual scenarios you wouldn't partake in in real life? MMM CNC in public. It gets me going online but I could never do that in public

What's one fantasy you've had for years that may never come to fruition: anal sadly
 
Do I have a type? No. I think I used to prefer white women as a young man. But that died off quickly.

Is attraction mostly physical or mental? 40 percent physical 60 percent mental. I have been absolutely seduced by some wordsmiths out there ...

Do you have a favourite kink or fetish you keep coming back to? Two actually...mind control/hypnosis stories. And affairs.

Have you any sexual scenarios you wouldn't partake in in real life? MMM CNC in public. It gets me going online but I could never do that in public

What's one fantasy you've had for years that may never come to fruition: anal sadly
What’s wrong with white women ;) (I’m joking, preference is preference…)

As I often say, with sexual partners it can sometimes start with intense physical attraction that over time can lead to a deeper emotional attraction once you’ve spent time talking instead of communicating with your bodies. As I’ve gotten older I appreciate a mental connection alongside the physical but this can be harder to manage when wanting something… not so serious?

I’m interested in the mind control Hypnosis… tell me more?

Cnc in public? I’m wondering what this entails… 🫣

I am sorry to hear about your anal fantasy tho… that is a big shame indeed šŸ‘ šŸ‘…
 
What’s wrong with white women ;) (I’m joking, preference is preference…)

As I often say, with sexual partners it can sometimes start with intense physical attraction that over time can lead to a deeper emotional attraction once you’ve spent time talking instead of communicating with your bodies. As I’ve gotten older I appreciate a mental connection alongside the physical but this can be harder to manage when wanting something… not so serious?

I’m interested in the mind control Hypnosis… tell me more?

Cnc in public? I’m wondering what this entails… 🫣

I am sorry to hear about your anal fantasy tho… that is a big shame indeed šŸ‘ šŸ‘…
Nothing wrong with white women. But variety is the spice of life! Sometimes I have different appetites....different flavours of the same beauty 🤤

I feel the same about wanting something not so serious and balancing the mental attraction. It's a fine balance between wanting a fine man woman or other to just be physical with. Raw lust. But at the same time, I've had one or two friends who we could each play one another like a fiddle. We all admittedly weren't the most conventionally sexy but my god the attraction was like opposibn ends of a magnet...

Hypnosis/Mind control is a tag on literotica. Admittedly when I was getting into literotica I read a few posts. Where a woman's body was so seductive - her chest so large and beautiful - that she hypnotized her lovers and began to control them. It isn't always that pornographic but sometimes the idea of having a submissive under my control, giggling as I wipe their mind, and they relinquish control of their full soul into mine...it's intoxicating for me. Alternatively! Being trapped and trying to fight for control from my mistress/master as they bring me under the spell?? Delicious...

It's quite alright. I've eaten ass and am dying for more. I just love šŸ‘ I must confess.

I hope these answers provided some light. Yourself or anyone is always welcome to ask more. I like the attention šŸ˜‰
 
What’s wrong with white women ;) (I’m joking, preference is preference…)

As I often say, with sexual partners it can sometimes start with intense physical attraction that over time can lead to a deeper emotional attraction once you’ve spent time talking instead of communicating with your bodies. As I’ve gotten older I appreciate a mental connection alongside the physical but this can be harder to manage when wanting something… not so serious?

I’m interested in the mind control Hypnosis… tell me more?

Cnc in public? I’m wondering what this entails… 🫣

I am sorry to hear about your anal fantasy tho… that is a big shame indeed šŸ‘ šŸ‘…
The anal thing seems easiest to fulfil … perhaps. I also interested in the hypnosis/mind control…
 
What about pegging?
I find it can be a weird one to bring up. Some of my exs have been kinky fuckers and slide a finger or tongue near to test the waters but other times ive been too nervy to ask. Pegging for me is a big one. Ass stretching I enjoy too at times with the right toy.
 
I find it can be a weird one to bring up. Some of my exs have been kinky fuckers and slide a finger or tongue near to test the waters but other times ive been too nervy to ask. Pegging for me is a big one. Ass stretching I enjoy too at times with the right toy.
Without over sharing some of the people I get get along with worst love the idea of playing with my prostate including pegging. But they're not people I should have in my life

Alternatively the people I do have...are quite vanilla
 
Nothing wrong with white women. But variety is the spice of life! Sometimes I have different appetites....different flavours of the same beauty 🤤

I feel the same about wanting something not so serious and balancing the mental attraction. It's a fine balance between wanting a fine man woman or other to just be physical with. Raw lust. But at the same time, I've had one or two friends who we could each play one another like a fiddle. We all admittedly weren't the most conventionally sexy but my god the attraction was like opposibn ends of a magnet...

Hypnosis/Mind control is a tag on literotica. Admittedly when I was getting into literotica I read a few posts. Where a woman's body was so seductive - her chest so large and beautiful - that she hypnotized her lovers and began to control them. It isn't always that pornographic but sometimes the idea of having a submissive under my control, giggling as I wipe their mind, and they relinquish control of their full soul into mine...it's intoxicating for me. Alternatively! Being trapped and trying to fight for control from my mistress/master as they bring me under the spell?? Delicious...

It's quite alright. I've eaten ass and am dying for more. I just love šŸ‘ I must confess.

I hope these answers provided some light. Yourself or anyone is always welcome to ask more. I like the attention šŸ˜‰
I totally agree šŸ˜šŸ¤ I could never ever just have one type of partner. Theys/hes/shes are all welcome as long as, like I’ve said, you can make me laugh and hold a good conversation…. šŸ˜

Lust on its own, for me, can feel shallow. Not all the time of course but I’m not reallly into one night stands… I really relish in the building of tension, eye contact, flirting, over a dinner date or drinks date…. Having a really intense makeout session but knowing when to draw the line and leaving more for next time…That magnetism you’re talking about rarely has anything to do with conventionally ā€œsexyā€ anyway. It’s mostly all about rhythm, timing, the feeling you have when they say the most heinously sexy thing…

When you talk about hypnosis, what’s the actual ā€œdrawā€ for you? Is it the control she has over you? (With her hypnotic breasts?) the trust (does that exist in this scenario or are you totally unawares? Would you like to hypnotise a partner?
 
I totally agree šŸ˜šŸ¤ I could never ever just have one type of partner. Theys/hes/shes are all welcome as long as, like I’ve said, you can make me laugh and hold a good conversation…. šŸ˜

Lust on its own, for me, can feel shallow. Not all the time of course but I’m not reallly into one night stands… I really relish in the building of tension, eye contact, flirting, over a dinner date or drinks date…. Having a really intense makeout session but knowing when to draw the line and leaving more for next time…That magnetism you’re talking about rarely has anything to do with conventionally ā€œsexyā€ anyway. It’s mostly all about rhythm, timing, the feeling you have when they say the most heinously sexy thing…

When you talk about hypnosis, what’s the actual ā€œdrawā€ for you? Is it the control she has over you? (With her hypnotic breasts?) the trust (does that exist in this scenario or are you totally unawares? Would you like to hypnotise a partner?
I am fully on board about the conversation! When someone makes me feel like they want to talk to me and vice versa? It's the biggest plus in a person!

There's so many ways to describe the magnetism and the the dynamics of lust and desire but even exhausting the dictionary I don't think I could do it justice. Sometimes that connection and want it just feels *right* for me. and I agree about sometimes the lust feeling shallow. Particularly if they can't hold a conversation and then I just feel like I'm being discarded.

I think the draw to me is the power dynamic. Similar to CNC the lack of control in hypnosis is drawing. Except rather than the sub not being able to escape their Dom/abuser (if that's the right word) physically, they can't escape them physically or mentally either. Like they're powerless to another person. Though yes seeing a beautiful posterior or boobs hypnotize me is admittedly fucking awesome! And to your last question I have hypnotized someone sort of. It was an open relationship hypno sub and he entrusted me with some trigger words. It was fun but it was kind of pre set up if that makes sense
 
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