Women in Sexless Marriages: What can be Done?

[Liberia]

Wrong thread, sorry.

 

[Abeona1]

In some fairly recent experiences. I must be giving out something. In a sexless marriage, talking to people interested in me. It's an amazing feeling. You know when you are ready. And something will help you propel yourself to the right time at the right place . If not just shag the next fanciable person you see.

 

[daddysbadgrl728]

Any woman in decent shape or better
1) Should be getting fucked often
2) Good quality, sometimes awesome
3) by a good guy
(note: neither "model" nor "billionaire" on the list

Ladies, these goals within easy reach, just GET IT DONE
To repeat, don't blame anyone else, you're not a toddler
Be available, a little open and good guys with hard cocks will be on you like corporate welfare on an oil company

Oh well now I know why I'm in a sexless marriage!!! Wow! So glad a random stranger on the internet told me only women in decent shape or better deserve sex.

Silly me, here I was thinking it was my chronic illness and depression. Nope, I'm just not deserving. Got it.

 

[VamPal1]

This feels very judgey…you don’t know why people are here or why they choose to take something out to the real world. Maybe their husband is abusive so actually leaving is dangerous? Maybe financially it’s not something that makes any sense? Maybe it’s just that they want something else?

I feel like when we start judging for one thing someone here does then it leads to all kinds of judgements that could be made…like why any of us - single or married are here? Sometimes people need to do what they need to do to keep themselves sane and able to carry on in a crazy world…

It wasn't intended to be judgy.

 

[Mo_Bandy]

Keep getting those gas station boner pill weiners ladies.

 

[kreemi_pi]

I can't speak to this, i'm more of a Marriageless Sex girl

 

[lacandy]

I can't speak to this, i'm more of a Marriageless Sex girl

This sounds like a much better deal! I wanna trade!

 

[latecomer91364]

Women in sexless marriages?

Fuck 'em.

 

[ericalauren]

I was in a sexless marriage for a long time, but we kept at it because of the kids. On a serious note - marriage isn’t about hedonism, it’s about children. The culture has forgotten that for some reason. Now that they’ve grown up, we’ve gone out own ways. He’s free to play golf and bang his students and I’m free to sit on Literotica and finger myself.

Marriage is only for having children? Yikes.

 

[daddysbadgrl728]

I was in a sexless marriage for a long time, but we kept at it because of the kids. On a serious note - marriage isn’t about hedonism, it’s about children. The culture has forgotten that for some reason. Now that they’ve grown up, we’ve gone out own ways. He’s free to play golf and bang his students and I’m free to sit on Literotica and finger myself.

I know a few couples intentionally childless. They are happy and in good places. There is absolutely no reason marriage has to equal children. Just like getting pregnant does not equal getting married.
Some people stay married out of respect, because they're best friends, or because its simply less expensive to pay for two households. Just my two cents. Every one has a different culture, so to hold that standard against others, is not fair.

 

[milfylata]

I know a few couples intentionally childless. They are happy and in good places. There is absolutely no reason marriage has to equal children. Just like getting pregnant does not equal getting married.
Some people stay married out of respect, because they're best friends, or because its simply less expensive to pay for two households. Just my two cents. Every one has a different culture, so to hold that standard against others, is not fair.

My comment was in a certain context. Marriage doesn't have to equal children, but once there are children involved, it would be prudent to stay in such a marriage for their sake. Of course, people can have their own ideas and standards; all of our two cents.

 

[haha_on_me]

I quoted your exact words - “any woman in decent shape or better should be getting fucked often” - how are you not implying that the reason women are in sexless marriages and our husbands aren’t fucking is is because we aren’t in “decent shape or better” and that if that were the case than it wouldn’t be a problem?

I'm going to chime in here, "decent shape or better", doesn't necessarily mean buff for me. I happen to find many, many absolutely gorgeous women that have decent shapes or better that don't fit the fashion magazine standards. Big butt? That's a pretty decent shape or better to me. Big belly? Mhmmm, pretty decent shape or better to me. Stretch marks? Well you got me, not a shape, but it's pretty decent or better to me.
That wasn't a complete comment earlier, stating that women only should get banged that are in pretty decent shape or better. Ya'll look amazing and should all be getting banged.

Chime over.

 

[latecomer91364]

I've done my best, bit there's just not enough time to fuck all of them.