Would you rather your partner…

[AnnyMouse28]

Updated question :
Would you rather your partner always fake her orgasm or know that you can not bring her to orgasm?

Updated/edited because I realized the way I worded the original question wasn’t quite what I had intended.

 

[hulmule]

Would you rather your partner fake her orgasm or be honest and let you know it didn’t happen?

Rather know the truth. Want to give pleasure. Tell me or show me what you enjoy !! Menopause no orgasms , havent even been inside in years

 

[Mr_Soup]

Honesty, always. Without it, things cannot improve. Be that orgasms or otherwise.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

Rather know the truth. Want to give pleasure. Tell me or show me what you enjoy !! Menopause no orgasms , havent even been inside in years

As some going through the change herself it sucks. Thankfully I still want sex but definitely not as frequently.

 

[Shenanigans90]

Would you rather your partner always fake her orgasm or be honest and let you know it never happens?

You need to find a more attentive partner.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

I realize the way I worded the original question wasn’t quite what I had intended so how about this.

Would you rather your partner always fake her orgasm or know that you can not bring her to orgasm?

 

[AnnyMouse28]

You need to find a more attentive partner.

Not necessarily the case. I reworded the question because I realized it wasn’t quite what I was meaning to ask.

 

[Lucien_Al]

For me I would like her to be truthful. I would far rather she says that she really doesnt feel its going to happen today so dont hold back.

My wife has complained in the past that I am too fixated on her orgasm and she would prefer not to have the pressure. It would be far easier for her to fake one but for me that would be dishonest and a break in our trust.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

For me I would like her to be truthful. I would far rather she says that she really doesnt feel its going to happen today so dont hold back.

My wife has complained in the past that I am too fixated on her orgasm and she would prefer not to have the pressure. It would be far easier for her to fake one but for me that would be dishonest and a break in our trust.

What if it wasn’t just an occasional thing but that you could never bring her to climax?

I totally get the feeling pressure to climax from a partner. The harder a partner tries the less likely it seems it will happen.

 

[Lucien_Al]

What if it wasn’t just an occasional thing but that you could never bring her to climax?

I totally get the feeling pressure to climax from a partner. The harder a partner tries the less likely it seems it will happen.

Thankfully not something I can give a conclusive answer to as the reality is that I dont believe any man can say for sure that she hasnt faked it. (Yes I know there will be many who will tell me Im wrong but just my opinion)

For me the inability to give her an orgasm ever would be a real issue in my mind but guess people don't choose to suffer from this infliction but either way I would rather know so that we can work on it together.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

Thankfully not something I can give a conclusive answer to as the reality is that I dont believe any man can say for sure that she hasnt faked it. (Yes I know there will be many who will tell me Im wrong but just my opinion)

I am pretty sure it happens with great frequency. I am sure I would be in that camp if had even known orgasm existed when I started having sex. But since it didn’t learn of it for over a year into my sex life I have never considered faking it. Not even really sure I would successfully be able to fake an orgasm.

 

[Lucien_Al]

I am pretty sure it happens with great frequency. I am sure I would be in that camp if had even known orgasm existed when I started having sex. But since it didn’t learn of it for over a year into my sex life I have never considered faking it. Not even really sure I would successfully be able to fake an orgasm.

Yes that is the other perspective. If you never have you wont know what it feels like.

My wife had never experienced an orgasm from anything apart from her own hand until she was 57 and we got together. Never had oral etc etc. Do these guys live under a rock!

 

[luvclassics]

I most certainly would want to know. If a woman would share my inabilities, it would give me a goal to work on to fix my inadequacy. I always focus on my partners pleasure and consider it more important than my own. Don’t get wrong, I ultimate goal is for it to be amazing for both of us. The truth may hurt but in the end a lie would hurt more!

 

[kevinj3636]

I’d prefer to know the truth. Plus, I’d love the challenge to get her off

 

[Swuq]

I want to know if she doesn’t get off with me. Opens the door to being a cuckold and bringing in another man to meet her needs.

 

[hairball18]

I would want to know the truth.

 

[Handydan]

Updated question :
Would you rather your partner always fake her orgasm or know that you can not bring her to orgasm?

Updated/edited because I realized the way I worded the original question wasn’t quite what I had intended.

Id rather know I cannot bring her to orgasm. I might not make her cum, but I can make her feel really really good for a long time.

 

[masterslave00]

Updated question :
Would you rather your partner always fake her orgasm or know that you can not bring her to orgasm?

Updated/edited because I realized the way I worded the original question wasn’t quite what I had intended.

I'd rather know and would then love to work with her towards making it work...