Would you sleep with a married person?

Admittedly I used to think this was the most simple black and white clear cut idea. Having experienced a sexless marriage for thirteen years now I can honestly say I'm seeing shades of grey. If I found a woman in similar situation, in a medically sexless marriage that's not going to change. Yes I think theirs a real chance I would.
 
Admittedly I used to think this was the most simple black and white clear cut idea. Having experienced a sexless marriage for thirteen years now I can honestly say I'm seeing shades of grey. If I found a woman in similar situation, in a medically sexless marriage that's not going to change. Yes I think theirs a real chance I would.
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I have slept with a few married women but it's been a very long time since that has happened. I was only called a home wrecker one time but that home was wrecked well before I came along.
 
Admittedly I used to think this was the most simple black and white clear cut idea. Having experienced a sexless marriage for thirteen years now I can honestly say I'm seeing shades of grey. If I found a woman in similar situation, in a medically sexless marriage that's not going to change. Yes I think theirs a real chance I would.
I was in the exact same boat!

Sexless/loveless marriage for 13 years. I met a woman (here on Lit) who was in a sexless/loveless marriage for the past 3 years. She realized that she never really loved him and had 1 affair about a year ago.

She lives 2,000 miles from me. We quickly began our relationship and I flew out to see her. It was emotionally and sexually fulfilling for both of us!

She asked her husband for a divorce and he moved out. I’ve got a few loose ends to tie up, then I’m leaving my wife (not for her, but for me). It’s been part of my plan for about a year.

She plans to move out here, but not until my wife and I split. She does not want her to be the reason that I’m leaving my wife and I assure her, that she’s not.
 
I have and while at the time it was fun,. in hindsight it was a lot of stress I didn't need with her baggage that could have filled a tractor trailer. You live x you learn
 
I was only called a home wrecker one time but that home was wrecked well before I came along.
That's 100% how I see these things, too. It isn't me wrecking the home. Their business is their business. If she's Madame de Tourvel, I'm not pursuing anything with her.
 
I have with married women (2 different ones) and now have a FWB with a married male friend of mine.
 
I am married, but in a perfect world it’d be a “absolutely” from me. Many years ago, pre-marriage, I did have a long term online fling with a married woman online. We’re still in rare contact, but not in that way. If it would somehow come up, I would certainly be willing to go down that road again.
 
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