xxx theatres

[njcouple27]

anyone have any experiences or knowledge about xxx theatres? i recently discovered that my girlfriend likes the idea of going to one so we can fool around in a public area. she likes to watch pornos w/ a theme to it and loves the idea of being in a dark room w/ the possibility of strangers feeling her up and being taken advantage of, in an anonymous setting. i know the guys can be pretty "greasy" in these sorts of places so i would be concerned for her safety. she would prefer this over a swing club since you really can't see who is around you or talk to anyone. she does not want to have sex w/ a bunch of strangers but she likes the idea of being molested by strangers and having them watch us have sex. she loves to watch porn as a means of foreplay and i love to show her off and watch her w/ other guys. we live in nj, right next to nyc. i know there used to be some theatres in nj but not sure if they still exist. there is one or two in downtown newark but it's all derelicts who go there. i would never bring her there. we also like to go to regular dance clubs or latin clubs where i can watch her dance and flirt w/ other guys. also,if anyone knows of any dance clubs/bars in our area that would be to our liking where i can count on the guys to be more aggressive w/ her, that would help too. please share anything you have to offer, wisdom, ideas, etc...

 

[iioopp]

Oh my... And I just thought people went to theatres to watch a good play not have a good play... No wonder so many old guys like theatres... It isn't Shakespeare there after... It's the women!

 

[sirmed]

The locals shut them all down.. here.. have no clue where there are others.... I have to drive 150 miles to a strip club.. to get any entertaiment....

we just rent them and fool around in the bed.. not near as much fun.. but what do you do???

 

[iioopp]

The locals shut them all down.. here.. have no clue where there are others.... I have to drive 150 miles to a strip club.. to get any entertaiment....

we just rent them and fool around in the bed.. not near as much fun.. but what do you do???

I sleep in my bed, and it's right next to me.

 

[njcouple27]

xxx theatre

damn, that sucks that you have to go so far for a strip club. there are tons in jersey. all kinds...bikini bars, all nude where you can bring your own beer, peep shows etc. since i live next to nyc, we can take advantage of those too. my girl and i would always go to some nice raunchy go-go bars w/ my buddies. the dancers love you when you bring a girl, especially a hot one. they dont see you as a perv or threat and they think that it's cool. they always come up to us and talk to us. i even managed to talk my girl into go-go dancing at one place we always go to. she did it for two nights and it was great but tiring for her. she got groped, felt up all night while i watched from a distance. some guys even got to finger her when sticking dollars in her g-string. i was happy she even danced for me. the money wasn't good enough for her to keep dancing. she really had to work for each dollar at a time. no lap dances at this place. she was so so scared on her first night & i admire her for braving it. her feet hurt so bad from dancing all night & i felt bad so i didn't mind if she stopped of course. i'll take her to the porn shops in the city late at night now and then. all the guys and owners love to see a sexy-dressed girl come in and be comfortable looking at all of the porn. it would get both of us worked up so we would park somewhere, or go home and fuck.

 

[Bobmi357]

she does not want to have sex w/ a bunch of strangers but she likes the idea of being molested by strangers and having them watch us have sex.

This is such a bad idea I'm not even sure where to begin.

Unless you manage to find a place where the people and the establishment is fairly upscale, you'll end up exposing yourself and your girlfriend to all sorts bad possibilities.

Most of these places are only slightly cleaner than a portapotty which has just been used for a rock concert. The possibility of diseases can't be discounted.

Find another way to fufill your girlfriend's fantasy that doesn't involve less than perfect strangers in less than perfect surroundings.

 

[njcouple27]

thanks for the insight. that is very helpfull and will definitely impact our decision on where we go. we will have to be wary. that's the kind of advice we're looking for but were hoping we would not hear. definitely don't want any of that!

 

[Dstorage]

I'm all for living on the edge at times too, but I'll agree with bobmi here. Rest assured that if you are caught by the police doing ANYTHING improper, and your girlfriend is even remotely photogenic, you can count on her mug shot making the papers.

I really don't like telling peole not to experiment, but the only XXX theatre I was in was both depressing and disgusting.

Oh, and google PeeWee Herman while you're at it.

I'm not saying don't have fun! Just don't have fun there!

 

[nycphoto]

What you can do is frequent a strip club. If you are going to bring your wife you will be treated better and you will always make friends with the establishment. At some point in time ask if your wife can do a private show. I can tell you that this club “club phenomenon” in Queens has a private room. It is usually used for bachelor parities or parities in general. Last time I was there at a private party there was a bouncer, horny guys and two strippers.
Why don’t you ask if your wife can be included in the next private party? I can guarantee you she will get completely fondled by all the guys. It is a good situation because there is a bouncer. It is worth a shot. PM me if you want more details.

 

[tomboy58]

Questions too?...

Hello all,
I was wondering if I could ask a question along the same lines in your thread njcouple?

I am the female and would love to explore going to a Swingers club - But does Anyone have experience or Advice?
I am interested in this because:
I want a safe environment where If we want it can be just the 2 of us having sex w/ us but others watching.
We can touch on Bi-exploring if it leads there

I have heard and seen alot on the web about the differences in clubs - we live in MD and there is a club in Pittsburgh called Swingers-palace.com that Looks safe and comfortable with what appears to be good rules

Anyone got any advice. NJcouple would this be a possibility for you two to explore -or is it not secret enough? Just a thought...

 

[njcouple27]

i really appreciate all of the advice and it really helped us to realize that a xxx theatre is not a good idea. i think we will seriously consider a swing club that we can feel relaxed in. i really like the idea of her at a bachelor party. we will have to discuss that one.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I have been in a xxx theatre where I gave my partner at the time a blowjob in the front row. It was appreciated by him, and by those who found it more interesting to watch than the movie, and no-one intruded or felt inclined to think they were entitled to the same. It was a good experience all round, but it also was in Oz and I am not sure how it would be in the US.

Catalina

 

[nycphoto]

You know I have that address for that club in queens for you. Only thing is that your mail box is full. Email me.

 

[nycphoto]

We talked about Queens and a strip club. Email me at nycphoto@yahoo.com I would send you info but your PM mailbox is always full.

 

[NDeep]

Does Pee Wee Herman have an opinion about this?