yeah so..... this is some interesting stuff.

[winkydarabidelf]

Lookit,

I'm a dude, 36 years old and feel like I'm missing something in my life. so, this whole dom/master thing.... I thought I should see what it's like. But..... herein lies the crux.... I'm not sure if I want to dominate or BE dominated.

anyone wanna teach me. or expand my horizons?

 

[Ldy_Sea]

When I got started in BDSM it was online and even though I was sure I was a Domme, I became a sub to learn hw to be a Domme. IRL I an still a Domme, but occasionally online I sub t someone I trust implicitly.

Try both, then decide. You may not be Dom or sub you may be switch.

IMHO the best Dom's learned how to be a top by being a bottom. Start safely and be careful, a lot of people claiming to be Dom's/Dommes are inexperienced and just sadists.

 

[Pj2424143]

When I got started in BDSM it was online and even though I was sure I was a Domme, I became a sub to learn hw to be a Domme. IRL I an still a Domme, but occasionally online I sub t someone I trust implicitly.

Try both, then decide. You may not be Dom or sub you may be switch.

IMHO the best Dom's learned how to be a top by being a bottom. Start safely and be careful, a lot of people claiming to be Dom's/Dommes are inexperienced and just sadists.

Defiantly agree..