Your Married, What do you miss most about being single?

I can't remember the last time he kissed me.

Kissing was the first thing to pop in my head as well. Other then the occasional peck on the forehead it's been 7yrs. I miss being french kissed with passion. I miss hands roaming all over my body, the slow breathing lust causes, and how captivating and focused sex seemed.
Nowadays I know he just feels obligated to fuck me after it's been a while without. What a turn off!
 
Kissing was the first thing to pop in my head as well. Other then the occasional peck on the forehead it's been 7yrs. I miss being french kissed with passion. I miss hands roaming all over my body, the slow breathing lust causes, and how captivating and focused sex seemed.
Nowadays I know he just feels obligated to fuck me after it's been a while without. What a turn off!

That mercy sex is just the worse. :( No lust, no passion, and just going through the motions.
 
That mercy sex is just the worse. :( No lust, no passion, and just going through the motions.

Agreed! Afterwards you just feel worse. I also miss 69ing and drunk/buzzed sex. He's a gentlemen... He's never taken a piece when I'm feeling sexy on a few glasses of wine, although it would be fine with me!
 
Agreed! Afterwards you just feel worse. I also miss 69ing and drunk/buzzed sex. He's a gentlemen... He's never taken a piece when I'm feeling sexy on a few glasses of wine, although it would be fine with me!

Oh I'm so sorry, but I do know just how you feel.

Sounds like he doesn't know how to step up and take it. Yes, a man should always be a gentleman but he also need to know just when to take it. No woman wants a nice guy all the time.
 
Oh I'm so sorry, but I do know just how you feel.

Sounds like he doesn't know how to step up and take it. Yes, a man should always be a gentleman but he also need to know just when to take it. No woman wants a nice guy all the time.

I was watching Woman We Love on Esquire and a female pick up artist was explaining what to do if she says "I have a boyfriend." Reply back with "I bet he's a great guy. He must buy you flowers, rub your feet, open the door for you, breakfest in bed... A woman like you... He must treat you good!" A pause to allow her to think. Then lean in with a wink... "I wouldn't!"
Mmmm... That line would work on me, fo sho!
 
I was watching Woman We Love on Esquire and a female pick up artist was explaining what to do if she says "I have a boyfriend." Reply back with "I bet he's a great guy. He must buy you flowers, rub your feet, open the door for you, breakfest in bed... A woman like you... He must treat you good!" A pause to allow her to think. Then lean in with a wink... "I wouldn't!"
Mmmm... That line would work on me, fo sho!

:D I need to meet you in person so I could try that line on you.
 
I used to miss the freedom of not having to report back to someone if I decided to deviate from the expected daily plan. However, now that I'm in my mid 30's, a father and a career man; I'm really happy being married. My wife is like one of the guys, with awesome tits and a beautiful face...but just as girly as you could want. Plus, my daughter is my world, so everything I want and need is at home waiting for me.

In my 20's, I would've been able to list you many reasons I would want to stay single. Now, I love my life the way it is.
 
I miss "the chase" the most...I didn't really care for dating but that emotion where you're sitting on the edge of your seat, holding your breath just a bit, she says "yes" and you go a step farther kind of chase. Sometimes it was the prideful walk where the other party would chase, you know they felt what you felt...you saw it in their eyes, heard it in the staggered breathing and felt it in their heart beat (yea...I'm THAT guy) and she was always "leaning forward" to my direction. It seemed effortless.

Yep, that's it...I miss the chase.
 
You're married...miss most

Hmm. That is a rather good question. I suppose spending a few hours at the pub with a few of my close mates. Now days if I do venture into the pub I do take my mobile to check in every twenty minuts or so.
 
For me, it would be more relevant to ask ... "I'm single, what do I miss about being married?"
 
Not answering to anyone. I eat when I want, what I want, watch what I want on TV, the thermostat is set on what I want...need I go on????
 
Nothing at all..
Cuckolding your husband is better than being single!!! :devil:

L:rose:
 
lol - i think i'm more flirty married than i ever was single - its not that i'm out to cheat just like to know i've still got it - i miss being able to do what i want whenver but really i so wouldnt change it for anything
 
Well for that intimate, no BS, knows how & where to push your buttons...that's what FWB's are for ;)

I have FWB's. I enjoy them a lot. I get a lot of pleasure from them. But there is more to happiness in life than getting laid on Saturday night.

The joy that comes from the intimacy and love of your own family cannot be matched by all the FWB's on Earth. It's the difference between eating a candy bar and having a full Thanksgiving dinner. I guess I'll stop there ... don't want to get too sappy.

I cherish my FWB's. They make me feel very good. But they will never make me as happy as I was living with the love of my life, and our two gorgeous children.
 
I'd say the newness of things - that rush of passion, that desire to please, discovering new personality quirks, first kisses, exploring every inch of his body for the first time.

However, what's new eventually gets old... There is also pleasure and comfort in the familiarity and partnership of marriage. You sometimes just have to work harder for it.
 
I'd say the newness of things - that rush of passion, that desire to please, discovering new personality quirks, first kisses, exploring every inch of his body for the first time.

However, what's new eventually gets old... There is also pleasure and comfort in the familiarity and partnership of marriage. You sometimes just have to work harder for it.

This.

This is a fantastic post.
 
Not a huge amount if I'm honest, probably the freedom and most importantly spending my money on me first rather than last in the family pecking order lol
 
I'd have to say freedom as well. Unfortunately, I never got to know what it's like to have that freedom. From when I was younger I was in a serious relationship, then engaged, and then came marriage. Now that I have a family, I occasionally wish I had that "me" time. You know how it goes though, the grass isn't always greener on the other side!
 
F R E E D O M to hang out with and talk to who i want come home when i want.........
 
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