Your Xenophilia or Race Fetish

I've been accused of having a race fetish for Indian girls and even been scolded for it (idk why it's seen as a bad thing). But I don't think I do/did, becauase a fetish is something you can't live without and MUST have, and it doesn't simply go away. It was more of an infatuation/kink. But now it's FRENCH girls, but IDK if I'm at the point of calling it a "fetish". But in both cases for a relationship, she has to have other traits too, besides her race/ethnicity, which is why I don't think I have a fetish.

On the flip side, I've met many brown girls who specifically wanted a WHITE man and even a Slavic man. They might've had a fetish. I personally find it flattering, and I'm happy I'm their type of guy, but of course I want them to like other qualities in me too.
 
I’m very attracted to black women. And I have a type. As a lover of big breasts, the type of black woman that I am most attracted to is very busty, with a trim waist, round hips, and a generally fit physique. Porn star Ebony Ayes and model Sylvia MacFarland are two examples you can search for. For me, a black woman with that kind of physique projects a sexuality and power that I’d love to feel coming from a woman. I don’t have a preference when it comes to overall skin tone, but I love very dark aureole and nipples.
 
I’m very attracted to black women. And I have a type. As a lover of big breasts, the type of black woman that I am most attracted to is very busty, with a trim waist, round hips, and a generally fit physique. Porn star Ebony Ayes and model Sylvia MacFarland are two examples you can search for. For me, a black woman with that kind of physique projects a sexuality and power that I’d love to feel coming from a woman. I don’t have a preference when it comes to overall skin tone, but I love very dark aureole and nipples.
You would like Ellie Ensley if you want dark-skinned and very busty on a fit physique. I especially like it that she's got a face card to match the endless body.


instagram.com/_ellietheempress_/reel/DJMaKNLxkhD/

My other top black girls (no lightskins):
Effiong Itoro John
Dulce Moon
Lexi Williams
Elinda San
Nyla Lueeth
Lilian Lew
🥴
 
OK, so this thread got me started thinking about combining my fantasy interest in my wife cuckqueaning me with my interest in fit, busty, black women. I want sex so much more than my wife that she provides me with women to my specifications and watches me fuck them. I’d love to do everything that my wife has refused to do over the years all at once in front of her. And she can see how aroused I am by the black woman.
 
OK, so this thread got me started thinking about combining my fantasy interest in my wife cuckqueaning me with my interest in fit, busty, black women. I want sex so much more than my wife that she provides me with women to my specifications and watches me fuck them. I’d love to do everything that my wife has refused to do over the years all at once in front of her. And she can see how aroused I am by the black woman.
If your wife is game, this would be an experience.
 
What about them does it for you? How'd this start?
When I was a college freshman, I met a Jewish girl and crushed hard on her. I made it clear I wanted get with her. She said "Okay...but you do know Jewish women are circumcised, right?"

I was just confused and horrified and had no idea what I might have stumbled into, until she laughed and we fucked all night.

So, I'll say sense of humor.
 
You remind me of a former buddy who I convinced to come stay in Korea for a year, young White guy. He spent the first couple months with no luck but once he got how to meet locals he was off on a marathon of Asian women. When he got back to the US he spoke like he was having withdrawal symptoms.
lol! No withdrawal symptoms! But the ones we ended up with were just so hot and uninhibited. It’s quite a contrast from when you see them on the street with their heads covered. 🤣
 
Being a white hotwife from a location with a white majority, I would say it is definitely an extra turn on when my lover is a big black man.
Especially for my cuck husband, I think if it were up to him I would only have Black lovers haha.
If you're both fans.

When/how did this start?
 
Please be specific miss. Maybe all are exciting, but some more than others.
I don't know how much of this counts, but I'm different and have different things to offer, and just find sexual partners who are different than me a massive turn-on. I really don't have the words to describe it and hate feeding into dumb stereotypes, but...

My first lesbian experience was with a black girl in college. She was a couple of years older and our "relationship" was just sex, but I loved stuff like the contrast of her dark skin against my paleness when our bodies were together, and just the idea that this magnificent African American beauty would deign to touch a piece of ugly poor white trash like me. I loved her.

I met a gentleman on a rape fantasy board years ago. He replied in a forum about the eroticism of violence and how he liked seeing women hurt. I asked him if he'd like to hurt me in a flirty kind of way and he said that yes, he would, that he would never hurt his "sisters" but that he loved seeing white women in pain. He was a 79-year-old Vietnam vet and chef from Chicago, a very smart and sophisticated guy and he intrigued me. He told me stories about horrors that he'd suffered as a youth and throughout his life. He really touched my heart and as a white woman I wanted in my small, insignificant way to give him pleasure, ease his pain or whatever, to take his mind off his misery if for just an hour in a week. And it was just an online Master/slave fling but we talked a lot and he had me do things to hurt myself, including tortures he'd used in Vietnam. He hadn't been around for weeks when he finally showed up and said he was really sick. And I never heard from him again. This was 2020-ish. He was almost 80. I'm positive that he died from covid. And I miss him.

And there have been others, as well as experiences that I really can't talk about here. But, is that specific enough? :)
 
I don't know how much of this counts, but I'm different and have different things to offer, and just find sexual partners who are different than me a massive turn-on. I really don't have the words to describe it and hate feeding into dumb stereotypes, but...

My first lesbian experience was with a black girl in college. She was a couple of years older and our "relationship" was just sex, but I loved stuff like the contrast of her dark skin against my paleness when our bodies were together, and just the idea that this magnificent African American beauty would deign to touch a piece of ugly poor white trash like me. I loved her.

I met a gentleman on a rape fantasy board years ago. He replied in a forum about the eroticism of violence and how he liked seeing women hurt. I asked him if he'd like to hurt me in a flirty kind of way and he said that yes, he would, that he would never hurt his "sisters" but that he loved seeing white women in pain. He was a 79-year-old Vietnam vet and chef from Chicago, a very smart and sophisticated guy and he intrigued me. He told me stories about horrors that he'd suffered as a youth and throughout his life. He really touched my heart and as a white woman I wanted in my small, insignificant way to give him pleasure, ease his pain or whatever, to take his mind off his misery if for just an hour in a week. And it was just an online Master/slave fling but we talked a lot and he had me do things to hurt myself, including tortures he'd used in Vietnam. He hadn't been around for weeks when he finally showed up and said he was really sick. And I never heard from him again. This was 2020-ish. He was almost 80. I'm positive that he died from covid. And I miss him.

And there have been others, as well as experiences that I really can't talk about here. But, is that specific enough? :)
You've got a novel of a life.

The skin contrast is a recurring fixation and I've felt it myself, mutually conscious of the hair & eye color contrast as well. The late actor Paul Walker spoke of it on camera when flirting with a pretty Latina interviewer, relating how he prefers brown women.

But the skin contrast is just one facet, when it's layered over with foreign accent and mannerisms (even in the foreign sounds they make during sex), foreign clothing styles, another religious background, a totally different culture... it's a whole meal really.
 
I have an attraction to East Asian women. It is not a race thing, but rather my preference for long straight hair, petite bodies and pretty faces. I have never dated an East Asian women but I have been with several that were married over the years. I also find they are very passionate lovers.
 
I'm Mexican American and have mostly been attracted to and dated Latina women however it doesn't mean I don't find other groups of women attractive because I really do. I have seen hot Italian women, Asian women, Indian women, Mulato so on.
 
I don't know that I've ever narrowed it down to a particular race, but as a white dude I do find something enthralling about women of other races. Had a FWB who was Peurto Rican, and that was a damn good time.

I will admit I've always wanted to fuck an East Asian girl. Probably just because I knew a few who were real babes. Now that I live in a place with a fairly large Pacific Idlander population, I'd love a whirl with one of them sexy things.
 
I'm not one to knock anyone for their fetish ... okay, most fetishes. But generally speaking this one is kinda "on the fence for me."

I don't like the idea of finding anyone attractive because of their race, ethnicity, or culture. I think there are people you find attractive, and they just so happen to be black, Uyghur, or Wahhabi, etc. Likewise, there are people you find unattractive, and they just so happen to be white, Persian, or Khasi, etc.

I think coming at it from this side actually allows for you to like the person instead of viewing them as an avatar/vessel of what you think you know, or expect of that group.
 
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Hey,


I’m in the middle of writing a short story that centers largely on Asian fetish, and it’s had me reflecting a lot on the whole world of race fetish and xenophilia (love of the foreign; sometimes applied to sexuality).

It made me wonder about how readers and writers here think about it too. Have you ever found yourself drawn to someone because of their cultural background, nationality, skin color, or accent? Maybe you’ve had a thing for Asian women/men, French lovers, Black people, Latinos/Latinas, Celtic redheads, Muslims, or any other exoticized trait? Or maybe you're not White and you have a thing for White people? Maybe you're hooked on JAV, Blacks-on-blondes, foreigners-takes-the-woman erotic novels? Have you yourself ever been the subject of a such a fascination?

I invite you to really get into the nature of your xenophlilia or race fetish. Or oppositely, that you've had or have intimate relations with someone of another race or culture without it being about that really.

Thanks!

(please keep it respectful to people of various backgrounds, at least not intentionally insulting)
I find women of color to be incredibly sexy.
 
Doesn't look like the OP is still participating here, but I'll bite anyway.
I am a Latin male who grew up in an area that was primarily white with a small community of other Latinos. My dating population consisted entirely of white women at school and Latinas in our community. At 17 I attended a program for minority students, and for the first time I found myself attracted to black women. Nothing came of it - not even a kiss, but my horizons expanded, slightly.
I went away to college, and found myself in a fully integrated community. By my third year a number of black women were attracted to me, and I returned the interest. I dated a few black women, had sexual relations with a few others, and generally became quite open to the experience. After I graduated I returned home for a while, and spent some time with my cousin who only dated black women. Hanging out with him led to me also pursuing exclusively black women for a while.
Eventually I moved to South Florida. The diversity of beautiful women here of all races is staggering. I opened myself to all of them. I have enjoyed the company of women from all over the world, including more Latin American countries than I can count, as well as Jamaica, Trinidad, the Bahamas, and others I do not recall. My point here is I became open to and enjoyed women of all colors and ethnicities.
So, why was I so into black women for a while? For one thing, the contrasting skin tones are a huge turn on. I love the sight of my cock disappearing inside her black body. One of my favorite views is a slender black hand wrapped around my cock. Just thinking of that image gets me hard every time.
But more than that, it is also an ego boost. I grew up in a time when interracial relationships were less common, and generally consisted of black men with white women. Black women and non-black men were very rare. So when a woman was so attracted to me that she would step outside the box and go against the grain, it excited me to no end. At one time I pursued black women, but more often they pursued me. And that boosted my ego immensely.
 
I am totally inti Middle Eastern women. They are the most beautiful in the world. I totally get off on the muslim/christian taboo factor. It is a huge turn on.
 
Hey,


I’m in the middle of writing a short story that centers largely on Asian fetish, and it’s had me reflecting a lot on the whole world of race fetish and xenophilia (love of the foreign; sometimes applied to sexuality).

It made me wonder about how readers and writers here think about it too. Have you ever found yourself drawn to someone because of their cultural background, nationality, skin color, or accent? Maybe you’ve had a thing for Asian women/men, French lovers, Black people, Latinos/Latinas, Celtic redheads, Muslims, or any other exoticized trait? Or maybe you're not White and you have a thing for White people? Maybe you're hooked on JAV, Blacks-on-blondes, foreigners-takes-the-woman erotic novels? Have you yourself ever been the subject of a such a fascination?

I invite you to really get into the nature of your xenophlilia or race fetish. Or oppositely, that you've had or have intimate relations with someone of another race or culture without it being about that really.

Thanks!

(please keep it respectful to people of various backgrounds, at least not intentionally insulting)
Both my husband and I have race fetishes. I have always found black men to be very attractive and he has a thing for Asian women. Not meaning we both don't see people outside of those races but there is that attraction there.
 
Hey,


I’m in the middle of writing a short story that centers largely on Asian fetish, and it’s had me reflecting a lot on the whole world of race fetish and xenophilia (love of the foreign; sometimes applied to sexuality).

It made me wonder about how readers and writers here think about it too. Have you ever found yourself drawn to someone because of their cultural background, nationality, skin color, or accent? Maybe you’ve had a thing for Asian women/men, French lovers, Black people, Latinos/Latinas, Celtic redheads, Muslims, or any other exoticized trait? Or maybe you're not White and you have a thing for White people? Maybe you're hooked on JAV, Blacks-on-blondes, foreigners-takes-the-woman erotic novels? Have you yourself ever been the subject of a such a fascination?

I invite you to really get into the nature of your xenophlilia or race fetish. Or oppositely, that you've had or have intimate relations with someone of another race or culture without it being about that really.

Thanks!

(please keep it respectful to people of various backgrounds, at least not intentionally insulting)
I've admired (and fucked) many Latino women over the years, but I wouldn't call it a fetish, or even a preference for that matter. Even though there are plenty of other races with similar traits, Latino women just happen have more of the traits that I find arousing- wider hips, bigger asses, girlish figures, thicker legs and calves, fuller lips. But at the end of the day if I notice girls of other races with these similar traits, I'll get just as hard for them as I do the Latinas. It's more of a body preference thing than it is racial in my case.
 
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