A Mature Woman's View On Getting Bombed in Lit Chat!

[ToPleaseHim]

I’ve been visiting chat more frequently. Every single time I’m on for even a few minutes, I get a few PMs. Most just say “hey” or “hi” and I have replied to almost every PM with something like “Thanks for the message, but I’m not looking to PM with anyone right now” and all have replied respectfully. I have gotten a few really undesirable messages that I just disregarded. Today, one person just PMd me: “Are you home alone or is your family around.” I can’t help but wonder why he thought that was the message to send to a woman he doesn’t know, has never interacted with; it’s just to assumptive (is that a word?) and he assumed wrong.

 

[hulmule]

I enjoy chatting with women. My English isn't the best . I'm a talker not a writer. I'm Italian so my hands are flying around and its hard to type. . But i enjoy chatting, meeting new friends on here. Great conversations, where they live, how things in their lives are going. Some lead to other things and some not . I'm ok with that. You can never have to many friends. It might change that persons day, maybe they really needed just to vent. Have a great one ladies, hope you find a person to share a good conversation. Just wish mind was in person so i could throw my hands around and show my emotions.

 

[StaciRay79]

I enjoy chatting with people and always try to reply and be polite. But I don’t like crass comments as an opening line and I hate getting overwhelmed by chat requests

 

[Nerdgasm_]

I enjoy chatting with people and always try to reply and be polite. But I don’t like crass comments as an opening line and I hate getting overwhelmed by chat requests

Trying to be polite to every random stranger online is an ambition task.