a question for sadists...

[Brinnie]

i have to ask. What is on your lower lip in your AV?

Ease away slowly folks, it's Expect NO mercy time.

It's a 16 gauge, what's it look like?
no mercy... the fuck r u talking about?

 

[rosco rathbone]

AHRIJINAL ROOD BWOI GANGSTA IN DA 'OUSE, MAKE WAY FOR DA BOSSMAN!

*aims finger in the air like a gun*
BUP! BUP!

 

[graceanne]

Yeah, but there's dancin' and there's dancin'. And bitches LOVE to pull up right in front of me and practice that cooch pop they saw on MTV. And I'm supposed to do what exactly? Slowly approach her so she can back away from the hot boy and look cool in front of her friends?

Fuck that shit, I grab asses. If she wanted to dance with me that's not gonna put her off.

True enough. When I'm dancing I sure don't make eye contact with any of the guys on the floor (unless I know them), and I definately don't go right up to them and dance. As far as I'm concerned that's an invite for more attention. And if they're just teases, a pinch on the ass isn't gonna kill em.

 

[Marquis]

Btw, I was referring to the casual encounters part......I don't generally mind if a guy grabs my ass at a club, as long as he's hot

The defense rests.

 

[graceanne]

I agree with you Graceanne .

I adore to dance , and I love to dance in the way I like more , dressed as I like more ( no matter if one is single or not cause isn't that the issue ) . But I like to dance alone . And if some not clearly even silently welcomed man should grab or pinch me while I 'm dancing or just staying in a club , in my opinion that's just harassment , and the above man should pay lot of attention about the possible consequences such a gesture could have .

One can be submissive or not , single or not , provocative or not , but without a clear signal of go , men ( or women , i'm not making gender discriminations here ) should keep hands well locked in their pockets .

Only my 2 cents ..but ... uh ..i'm ranting now ! soz

I don't think Marquis was talking about people who are looking just interested in dancing. He's talking about those who dress like sluts and act like sluts. I'm not saying that that makes that person a slut, but if you're (general you) gonna advertise yourself as a slut, don't be surprised when you get treated like one. On the other hand, if a woman dresses like that and is being deliberately . . . provacative, then don't be surprised when she's a tease.

That said, I dont' like dancing by myself, but I generally end up doing it anyway, since K hates to dance. And I only have one friend who likes to dance as much as me.

 

[graceanne]

Btw, I was referring to the casual encounters part......I don't generally mind if a guy grabs my ass at a club, as long as he's hot.

I don't care how good looking they are (or aren't). If they're not K I don't want them touching me.

 

[Marquis]

I agree with you Graceanne .

I adore to dance , and I love to dance in the way I like more , dressed as I like more ( no matter if one is single or not cause isn't that the issue ) . But I like to dance alone . And if some not clearly even silently welcomed man should grab or pinch me while I 'm dancing or just staying in a club , in my opinion that's just harassment , and the above man should pay lot of attention about the possible consequences such a gesture could have .

One can be submissive or not , single or not , provocative or not , but without a clear signal of go , men ( or women , i'm not making gender discriminations here ) should keep hands well locked in their pockets .

Only my 2 cents ..but ... uh ..i'm ranting now ! soz

I have agreed to let one of my gay friends take me to a gay club one day. Am I going to freak out if while on the dance floor some man tries to run up on me?

No, because I'm in a club where drunken men who like men party. I probably won't dance at all, unless I can find a hot faghag. Can you imagine how retarded I would look running up to the bouncer "I just come here because I prefer the music at gay clubs, I just wanna dance in my own world and be at peace. What is this shit?"

He would probably say "Invest in a stereo system for your house, don't come to the beach and call foul when you get a little sand in your hair."

 

[dolf]

True enough. When I'm dancing I sure don't make eye contact with any of the guys on the floor (unless I know them), and I definately don't go right up to them and dance. As far as I'm concerned that's an invite for more attention. And if they're just teases, a pinch on the ass isn't gonna kill em.

yup, i NEVER make eye contact, i keep out of range as much as i can but guys still do the grabbing...i don't actually go clubbing with the girls anymore because i'd spend the entire night fending of arseholes.

 

[Marquis]

yup, i NEVER make eye contact, i keep out of range as much as i can but guys still do the grabbing...i don't actually go clubbing with the girls anymore because i'd spend the entire night fending of arseholes.

Great! We don't want you there!

I'd rather have a sausage fest than have to deal with a room full of hot alluring women I can't touch. If I wanted that I would just go to the strip club where at least the bitches are naked and you can objectify them openly.

 

[dolf]

Great! We don't want you there!

I'd rather have a sausage fest than have to deal with a room full of hot alluring women I can't touch. If I wanted that I would just go to the strip club where at least the bitches are naked and you can objectify them openly.

lol, you're such a cunt

*trying to remember why we're friends*

y'know that the last time i went to a club there was one guy who was actually respectful, polite and talked to me like a person. he got a date.
i don't mind people touching me. i'm just fussy about who does it.

 

[TaintedB]

Aren't there any dance clubs you can go to anymore and not get pawed? I stopped going to the het places a long time ago. Instead I dance at leather bars (male) not because I find leathermen very interesting but to lessen the liklihood of someone trying to pick me up. And they do have the best tunes. I don't get bugged there, except by the occasional gynophobe who thinks I don't belong. Watch out for the women at gay male bars, Marquis, we aren't all faghags, some of us are allofyouleavemethefuckalone hags.

 

[dolf]

Aren't there any dance clubs you can go to anymore and not get pawed? I stopped going to the het places a long time ago. Instead I dance at leather bars (male) not because I find leathermen very interesting but to lessen the liklihood of someone trying to pick me up. And they do have the best tunes. I don't get bugged there, except by the occasional gynophobe who thinks I don't belong. Watch out for the women at gay male bars, Marquis, we aren't all faghags, some of us are allofyouleavemethefuckalone hags.

there is one gay pub, no gay clubs...i live in a very rural area.
i think i'll go to the cinema instead.

 

[Marquis]

lol, you're such a cunt

*trying to remember why we're friends*

y'know that the last time i went to a club there was one guy who was actually respectful, polite and talked to me like a person. he got a date.
i don't mind people touching me. i'm just fussy about who does it.

I don't want a date, I want my dick sucked in the parking lot.

And I love you too sweetums.

Aren't there any dance clubs you can go to anymore and not get pawed? I stopped going to the het places a long time ago. Instead I dance at leather bars (male) not because I find leathermen very interesting but to lessen the liklihood of someone trying to pick me up. And they do have the best tunes. I don't get bugged there, except by the occasional gynophobe who thinks I don't belong. Watch out for the women at gay male bars, Marquis, we aren't all faghags, some of us are allofyouleavemethefuckalone hags.

I imagine I would adjust my game in a homo joint. I'd probably already get points for being straight in the gay club, I'd just have to play up my sweet sensitive side and I'll have yo mama cuffed to my bedpost in three vodka-redbulls.

 

[graceanne]

yup, i NEVER make eye contact, i keep out of range as much as i can but guys still do the grabbing...i don't actually go clubbing with the girls anymore because i'd spend the entire night fending of arseholes.

Well that's cause you're so gorgous. We could dress you like frump, put a huge sign around your neck saying 'Leave me alone', and guys would still hit on you. You need to get a great big daddy to scare them all off.

 

[babiesmiles]

I adore to dance , and I love to dance in the way I like more , dressed as I like more ( no matter if one is single or not cause isn't that the issue ) . But I like to dance alone . And if some not clearly even silently welcomed man should grab or pinch me while I 'm dancing or just staying in a club , in my opinion that's just harassment , and the above man should pay lot of attention about the possible consequences such a gesture could have .

Quoting myself wow ... how sad ..lol !

Back on topic .... I'm sorry if I was not able to express me properly . English language is tricksy sometimes

First with the word "club " ( big discoteques or discobar ) I meant , as here where I live they are that way , about places where you go mainly for dance for friendly talk and for drink , usually not to chat up people if not occasionally , and the fact of being there dancing in itself , doesn't mean you are looking for men /women attentions no matters how provocative you are dancing but obviously, and my fault I was not clear , in limit of not acting as a so called " hard cock teasing " .

In fact if I start to place half naked boobs under a guy's nose, rubbing against him and staring at him with continue eye contact ,so shortening in somehow the distances I'm clearly inviting him to act , and I cant complain after ....but I said above the premise of my talking was the guy should have been not clearly even if silently welcomed .

Moreover if I go in a place I know its openly deputated to chat up people , like some kind of well known bar or clubs on here ( I prefer not make the gay club exemple was made before cause I know some gay's club in my area where people are quiet and fully respectful of each others ).

Second point , maybe my statement about dressing was not clear as well , cause for me just a short light skirt and a low necked bluse or a black tight dress may be provocative but not surely in itself able to justify a pinch on ass .

It not passed even for a nano second in my mind of half naked or exagerating slutty clothes , as I usually dont dress that way to go out neither alone nor in company ( I prefer to reserve my "sluttish allure" for other more private occasions ).

Last but not least I was not talking about Marquis' right to deal as he best prefers with girls he consider advertising like sluts . Maybe I misunderstood the development of his thought , I was mainly thinking about the very first post on the item he made .

Soz being so involute

 

[graceanne]

Quoting myself wow ... how sad ..lol !

Back on topic .... I'm sorry if I was not able to express me properly . English language is tricksy sometimes

First with the word "club " ( big discoteques or discobar ) I meant , as here where I live they are that way , about places where you go mainly for dance for friendly talk and for drink , usually not to chat up people if not occasionally , and the fact of being there dancing in itself , doesn't mean you are looking for men /women attentions no matters how provocative you are dancing but obviously, and my fault I was not clear , in limit of not acting as a so called " hard cock teasing " .

In fact if I start to place half naked boobs under a guy's nose, rubbing against him and staring at him with continue eye contact ,so shortening in somehow the distances I'm clearly inviting him to act , and I cant complain after ....but I said above the premise of my talking was the guy should have been not clearly even if silently welcomed .

Moreover if I go in a place I know its openly deputated to chat up people , like some kind of well known bar or clubs on here ( I prefer not make the gay club exemple was made before cause I know some gay's club in my area where people are quiet and fully respectful of each others ).

Second point , maybe my statement about dressing was not clear as well , cause for me just a short light skirt and a low necked bluse or a black tight dress may be provocative but not surely in itself able to justify a pinch on ass .

It not passed even for a nano second in my mind of half naked or exagerating slutty clothes , as I usually dont dress that way to go out neither alone nor in company ( I prefer to reserve my "sluttish allure" for other more private occasions ).

Last but not least I was not talking about Marquis' right to deal as he best prefers with girls he consider advertising like sluts . Maybe I misunderstood the development of his thought , I was mainly thinking about the very first post on the item he made .

Soz being so involute

Ah! Well, I don't know about other parts of the US, but here in Oregon if you want to get decent dancing you have to go to what my husband refers to as 'meat markets'. In other words, you have to deal with the people who are looking to get laid. It seriously sucks, I wish we had more choices, but that's life.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

It's a 16 gauge, what's it look like?

No clue, that's why i asked.

... the fuck r u talking about?

Exactly.

 

[babiesmiles]

Ah! Well, I don't know about other parts of the US, but here in Oregon if you want to get decent dancing you have to go to what my husband refers to as 'meat markets'. In other words, you have to deal with the people who are looking to get laid. It seriously sucks, I wish we had more choices, but that's life.

I'm not in US Graceanne I'm in Europe . So I guess here there are different dancing club habits !

 

[Betticus]

Run into that situation a lot?

Most men just avoid being very close to me in the first place.

 

[graceanne]

I'm not in US Graceanne I'm in Europe .

Back on topic .... I'm sorry if I was not able to express me properly . English language is tricksy sometimes

I figured you weren't American. That's why I was telling you.

 

[Marquis]

Most men just avoid being very close to me in the first place.

Really? I'd LOVE to get together with you sometime.

 

[Deadly Guardian]

Ah! Well, I don't know about other parts of the US, but here in Oregon if you want to get decent dancing you have to go to what my husband refers to as 'meat markets'. In other words, you have to deal with the people who are looking to get laid. It seriously sucks, I wish we had more choices, but that's life.

Grace Do not feel alone This state sits in the bible blet and most all of the clubs are the same as yours. My problem is they are not that many of them. They are "meat markets" no originality makes one want to go vanila.

 

[Never]

I was dancing in a club once when a gentleman decided I wanted to be French kissed while my belly was humped. Imagine his surprise when two Hispanic lesbians and a goth girl threw themselves at him in rage.

I just sort of stood there and wondered why all my friends are insane.

 

[Aeroil]

Really? I'd LOVE to get together with you sometime.

umm, Betticus, May I ask your gender?

 

[Never]

umm, Betticus, May I ask your gender?

From the look of the penis.. it's a boy.