a woman’s ORGASM on her man’s cock

[earth7913]

I am one of the lucky guys since my girl gets off pretty easily. That is good for me since I love the feeling of being inside of her and watching the pleasure on her face as she cums......that's what it is all about!!

Her knees are not all that cooperative so her on top and doggie cannot happen as much as we would like. Missionary seems to be the position we end up in the most. Although it is pretty basic I find that there is a lot of variety to be found. From holding her close with a loving embrace to holding myself up on stiff arms to get a nice long thrust. Even the trusts can vary, slide my knees low to have a thrust that sends me up into her g-spot or get myself what almost feels like I am too high but the top of my cock rubs her sensitive little nub all the way in.

Whatever the position the outcome of having her cum on my cock is usually the goal. It is a great feeling knowing that I am the one that is making her feel so good, it doesn't hurt that she calls out my name like I am some god or something either

 

[frictional]

Hey thanks for a great tip and technique. That sounds wonderful. I used to do a similar technique with oral. I would have her lay on the bed face up her ass on the
edge of the bed, her knees to her chest. I would kneel off the side of the bed and give her cunnilingus. Once I was in position she could rest her legs on my shoulders to get more comfortable. It would take about 10 to 15 min but eventually she would start to cum. As soon as she started cumming, I would stand up and enter her, fucking fast and furiously. That would cause her orgasm to intensify and I would have a great orgasm myself.

Your way sounds great as well. With the added bonus, I imagine, that after being eaten out for 15 minutes she's got to be sopping wet. Her pussy must feel amazing when you finally penetrate her.

 

[suckonsimon]

Hey reading posts from men whose aim is to pleasure their women to the utmost - wow does it have me solid! A kind of 'solid solidarity' I enjoy with you. Thanks guys!

earth, I like alot what you say about all the subtleties of variety in missionary, with changing the angle and poise of penetration and attending to different parts of her face and body meanwhile. ooh gorgeous!

With what you say about her knees and doggie. How is stand up doggie for her? We do that round the back of our sofa with her either gripping the back with her hands or resting her belly on it with her hands down to the seat. We also do it at the end of our bed which is on the higher side with no bedstead. There she supporting herself with her hands and usually collapses onto her face at some stage. I mention that not only with what you say about her knees but also I find, standing at her like that, I can do all sorts with angle and position and it drives her crazy! My personal favourite with standing doggie is to go at her with my legs wide apart, my hands on the back of my waist and my torso and head leaning right back - and it's kinda 'up' into her with such a wet slapping goin' on! Then I'll get one foot onto the bed such that my leg hooks onto the front of her thigh and I'm pulling her back onto me with my leg as I thrust into her ... that tends to be when she collapses her face into the duvet and my sweet cultured girl says things which she's embarrassed about afterwards!

Oops I said nothing about orgasm. For us in missionary, one of the triggers from a good build into the actual flooding burst of the orgasm is me grasping her hands with mine above her head on the pillows and she feels pinned down with my palms on hers, my mouth on hers, the fucks full length slower out and shocking rapid in over and over - then when she bursts I feel like I'm on waves of the sea with her whole body arching and rippling ...

 

[eroticspank]

Whatever the position the outcome of having her cum on my cock is usually the goal. It is a great feeling knowing that I am the one that is making her feel so good, it doesn't hurt that she calls out my name like I am some god or something either

This last part gave me a smile. It is wonderful when my lady calls out my name during her orgasm. I like to call out her name too just prior to my own orgasm but it is usually only when it is my turn to cum and she is focusing on me. During intercourse it is kind of confusing if we both yell out each others names at the same time.

ES

 

[suckonsimon]

This last part gave me a smile. It is wonderful when my lady calls out my name during her orgasm. I like to call out her name too just prior to my own orgasm but it is usually only when it is my turn to cum and she is focusing on me. During intercourse it is kind of confusing if we both yell out each others names at the same time.

ES

I can't resist sharing a couple of particular delights from my woman-in-orgasm:

Sometimes when I'm on my back and she's riding me facing me and goes into orbit, I actually get a fine spray of spit all over my face and chest from her. To this day she has never noticed and I love that too! If I mentioned it she'd be mortified so I don't!

Then there was this time when she didn't lose her ability to speak in English words and she managed to say, all staccato and high pitched, "You - Ab - So -Lutely - Fuck - Me - To - Hea - Ven ...!" Now, that ... made me smile, inside and out.

 

[earth7913]

earth, I like alot what you say about all the subtleties of variety in missionary, with changing the angle and poise of penetration and attending to different parts of her face and body meanwhile. ooh gorgeous!

With what you say about her knees and doggie. How is stand up doggie for her? We do that round the back of our sofa with her either gripping the back with her hands or resting her belly on it with her hands down to the seat. We also do it at the end of our bed which is on the higher side with no bedstead. There she supporting herself with her hands and usually collapses onto her face at some stage. I mention that not only with what you say about her knees but also I find, standing at her like that, I can do all sorts with angle and position and it drives her crazy! My personal favourite with standing doggie is to go at her with my legs wide apart, my hands on the back of my waist and my torso and head leaning right back - and it's kinda 'up' into her with such a wet slapping goin' on! Then I'll get one foot onto the bed such that my leg hooks onto the front of her thigh and I'm pulling her back onto me with my leg as I thrust into her ... that tends to be when she collapses her face into the duvet and my sweet cultured girl says things which she's embarrassed about afterwards!

its funny that you mention that, doing doggie standing up, excellent idea!! This past weekend we tried to have her be on top but it only lasted a few minutes and we were right back to missionary because of her knees. Later as we discussed her knees she said 'why don't we just stand up to do doggie?' It was like a revelation, something old that was brand new, yet we both felt dumb since it is such a simple solution. Sometimes you cannot see the nose on your own face.

Usually when we get to doggie we are in a raw sex kind of mood, I grab her hips and start thrusting away!! You are right about the subtleties though and I am going to have to slow my roll and explore next time. I will see if there are new spots to hit and new angles to explore.

Thanks Simon!!

 

[eroticspank]

This is a bump to revive this thread that I really enjoy.

I just recently saw a video where the woman was on top of the man. She was teasing and kissing him at first to get him very hard. She then used the tip of his dick to rub on her clit. She just rubbed it back and forth until she was very wet and close to orgasm. Then when she was ready to cum, she slipped him inside and road out her orgasm on top of him Cowgirl style.

It was very erotic watching her cum on his dick and seeing him eventually catch up in his own orgasm. What a great way for the woman to orgasm on her man's cock.

ES

 

[talkeasy5813]

I have never had an orgasm during sex. All of my orgasms have been through either my husband touching pussy or through masturbation. The thought of having an orgasm while during vaginal sex is really turning me on.

 

[jason28053]

I have never had an orgasm during sex. All of my orgasms have been through either my husband touching pussy or through masturbation. The thought of having an orgasm while during vaginal sex is really turning me on.

wow... and your hubby doesn't lick your pussy either... you poor girl

 

[suckonsimon]

I have never had an orgasm during sex. All of my orgasms have been through either my husband touching pussy or through masturbation. The thought of having an orgasm while during vaginal sex is really turning me on.

Great to see this discussion opened again. Talkeasy, I regret that Jason got in with nil help reply.There might be something earlier on this thread which gives you a next step. Keep us posted here please if there is!

 

[talkeasy5813]

Great to see this discussion opened again. Talkeasy, I regret that Jason got in with nil help reply.There might be something earlier on this thread which gives you a next step. Keep us posted here please if there is!

The main reason why I can't have an orgasm on my husband's cock is because he can't maintain an erection anymore. Please don't take this as an invitation to advise me on how to get him an erection again. Please don't PM me about this. Thank you.

 

[suckonsimon]

The main reason why I can't have an orgasm on my husband's cock because he can't maintain an erection anymore. Please don't take this as an invitation to advise me on how to get him an erection again. Please don't PM me about this. Thank you.

Very much respected, talkeasy.

 

[eroticspank]

The main reason why I can't have an orgasm on my husband's cock is because he can't maintain an erection anymore. Please don't take this as an invitation to advise me on how to get him an erection again. Please don't PM me about this. Thank you.

This happened to me years ago and one of the things we did was she got on top of me and I reached around and played with her pussy. I had just enough length in my arm so I could put my finger in her pussy, while touching her nice ass, and press on her clit from behind. While I was doing that she rubbed her crotch back and forth over the area just above my dick. My pubic bone area. At the same time we french kissed and held each other tight.

It took a while but eventually she could cum that way and it was very hot holding her as she released on top of me. I was not inside her but it felt almost as good. After she was done and got her breath back she would give me a handjob and I would cum quickly. Sometimes I would cum with her and I did not really get a full erection.

ES

 

[Eva_Star]

Oops I said nothing about orgasm. For us in missionary, one of the triggers from a good build into the actual flooding burst of the orgasm is me grasping her hands with mine above her head on the pillows and she feels pinned down with my palms on hers, my mouth on hers, the fucks full length slower out and shocking rapid in over and over - then when she bursts I feel like I'm on waves of the sea with her whole body arching and rippling ...

Oh my. Um...did it just get warm in here? *fans self* Lucky Mrs. Simon!


I always orgasm the hardest in missionary. I am not sure why. I think its because I love being kissed so much and the penetration + kissing just drives me over the edge everytime. It's so sexy and intimate. I feel loved and desired.

 

[eroticspank]

Oh my. Um...did it just get warm in here? *fans self* Lucky Mrs. Simon!


I always orgasm the hardest in missionary. I am not sure why. I think its because I love being kissed so much and the penetration + kissing just drives me over the edge everytime. It's so sexy and intimate. I feel loved and desired.

I love this part too, the kissing and being inside of her. It is really wonderful when we both cum that way while we are kissing. We kind of moan into each others mouth and hold each other tight so close and connected. There is like a circle of fluid transfer, from our mouths to our crotches and back again.

ES

 

[suckonsimon]

Oh my. Um...did it just get warm in here? *fans self* Lucky Mrs. Simon!


I always orgasm the hardest in missionary. I am not sure why. I think its because I love being kissed so much and the penetration + kissing just drives me over the edge everytime. It's so sexy and intimate. I feel loved and desired.

I really enjoyed your response to what I wrote, Eva. Thank you.

What I have highlighted in your post: there's a great deal in that.
Plenty of sex is about desire.
Plenty of sex is about love.
When the sex really is about both, in the heart and energy of the man and in the undoubted perception of the woman, a magic formula is at work.

 

[Karhukissa]

My experience of the female orgasm is pretty limited, as I've only had intercourse with three women in my life (heavy petting in my early teens doesn't count). My first couldn't achieve an orgasm at all. She enjoyed sex for the intimacy of it, but it still felt incomplete.

Next out was the woman who became my partner for many years. She couldn't come unless I rubbed her while we fucked, and she frequently complained about my technique (try to use your hand when it's squashed between the two of you). She refused to let me go oral on her, even when I indicated that I would gladly do it. As we became parents and she suffered from depressions, sex became infrequent, like a few times a year.

After that relationship ended, I hooked up with my first girlfriend again. By then, she had at least experienced a few orgasms on her own, using a dildo, but she thought that her problem stemmed from suppressed memories of sexual abuse when she was a kid. This second round failed, but the last time we fucked, she said she actually experienced a slight tingling down there. Yay me.

Then an old friend came along. Kissa and I had been friends for many years when she confessed that she was in love with me. Her marriage was unhappy, her husband not wanting to touch her. He wasn't much of a lover anyway, usually letting her do all the work. By the time we got together, she hadn't had sex for at least seven years, and thought she might be asexual. She had been sexually active since her teens, and had been with 25 men through the years. A few had been good lovers, but others had trouble finishing, which left her feeling inadequate as they had to finish themselves off. All of her previous guys had been circumcised, and she guess that impaired their ability to come inside her.

Anyway, we had our first night together after a few weeks of cybersex. To begin with, I went oral on her, which we both enjoyed a lot. Then I found her g-spot, something the previous bozos hadn't bothered to look for - she wasn't even really aware of it herself. The result was highly enjoyable. When I finally entered her, we had a great time and came simultaneously. At last I was with a woman who could achieve vaginal orgasms!

She is multiorgasmic, but I guess I have to work on my technique in order to get the best out of that. We usually have some foreplay (oral, vibrators, wand), and then sex in some version of the missionary position, usually with one or both of her legs over my shoulders. That allows for deeper thrusts, and the angle appears to increase stimulation of the g-spot. Sometimes I take her from behind, and that makes me hit her spot to the extent that she has to bury her face in a pillow to silence her cries of passion. She likes bondage, which we indulge in when the mood is right. We turned 50 a couple of years ago, and we are both having the best sex of our lives.

Having read up on the subject, I've found that we are fortunate in many ways, but perhaps a change in technique, position, methods and toys for foreplay can improve a lacklustre love life. I don't know; if I had had sex with more women, I might be able to tell. As it is, we are happy that we are finally together, having years before us to explore our kinks.

 

[eroticspank]

My experience of the female orgasm is pretty limited, as I've only had intercourse with three women in my life (heavy petting in my early teens doesn't count).

... When I finally entered her, we had a great time and came simultaneously. At last I was with a woman who could achieve vaginal orgasms!

She is multiorgasmic, but I guess I have to work on my technique in order to get the best out of that. We usually have some foreplay (oral, vibrators, wand), and then sex in some version of the missionary position, usually with one or both of her legs over my shoulders. That allows for deeper thrusts, and the angle appears to increase stimulation of the g-spot. Sometimes I take her from behind, and that makes me hit her spot to the extent that she has to bury her face in a pillow to silence her cries of passion. She likes bondage, which we indulge in when the mood is right. We turned 50 a couple of years ago, and we are both having the best sex of our lives.

Having read up on the subject, I've found that we are fortunate in many ways, but perhaps a change in technique, position, methods and toys for foreplay can improve a lacklustre love life. I don't know; if I had had sex with more women, I might be able to tell. As it is, we are happy that we are finally together, having years before us to explore our kinks.

Nice post and I am happy for you that you found Kissa. I have been with a few more women than you have indicated and I learned that technique is important. It does seem in your case you had a deep emotional connection before you had sex which I am sure was very helpful in cumming together.

In my limited experience I have found that all women are different on how they get turned on and achieve orgasm. But usually the way they get turned on is very similar. It can take longer for a woman to get turned on and wet than a man to get an erection for example. But once the woman is turned on she stays turned on longer and comes down slower than a guy. Why is this important? Well if you are having intercourse and you are getting close to orgasm you can pull out for a minute or so. That rest period keeps you from cumming too soon and when you enter her again she will be about the same place when you pulled out. Your arousal goes down so you can continue and hers stays about the same. So for some the pull out technique done several times works to get the woman to orgasm with the man.

This is just one technique. The fun part is to have a partner that is willing to try to techniques and wants to cum together with you.

ES

 

[suckonsimon]

... But once the woman is turned on she stays turned on longer and comes down slower than a guy. Why is this important? Well if you are having intercourse and you are getting close to orgasm you can pull out for a minute or so. That rest period keeps you from cumming too soon and when you enter her again she will be about the same place when you pulled out. Your arousal goes down so you can continue and hers stays about the same. So for some the pull out technique done several times works to get the woman to orgasm with the man.

This is just one technique. The fun part is to have a partner that is willing to try to techniques and wants to cum together with you.

ES

I like your description of that technique. A variation of that which perhaps calls for a greater discipline by the guy but has an intensity about it which I adore: He stays in, but completely ceases any movement at all in terms of cock-in-pussy, and gives his focus to movement elsewhere: his hands caressing her outstretched arms, or a really deep french kiss session, massaging breasts with hands and chest - whatever. Something delicious enough to cause him to 'forget' his cock in her for a minute. and then when the 'edge' has passed and gone, gradually to get back to first a grind and then deep plunging again. If he can do that in such a way as to effectively put back his rise to ejaculation, he's meanwhile building his woman into a whole-body climax to his whole-body attentions - an orgasm she's gonna feel to her toes and fingers.

PS to Karhu - thanks so much for your beautiful and honest write-up of how it is for you two. Superb contribution to the thread.

 

[eroticspank]

I like your description of that technique. A variation of that which perhaps calls for a greater discipline by the guy but has an intensity about it which I adore: He stays in, but completely ceases any movement at all in terms of cock-in-pussy, and gives his focus to movement elsewhere: his hands caressing her outstretched arms, or a really deep french kiss session, massaging breasts with hands and chest - whatever. Something delicious enough to cause him to 'forget' his cock in her for a minute. and then when the 'edge' has passed and gone, gradually to get back to first a grind and then deep plunging again. If he can do that in such a way as to effectively put back his rise to ejaculation, he's meanwhile building his woman into a whole-body climax to his whole-body attentions - an orgasm she's gonna feel to her toes and fingers.

PS to Karhu - thanks so much for your beautiful and honest write-up of how it is for you two. Superb contribution to the thread.

That is a very good point. Talking to your woman and telling her how beautiful she is, along with caressing, kissing, and touching her is also helpful. Changing positions is another way to stop the rise to ejaculation, which I see a lot in X rated videos.

Instead of telling your partner you have to stop because you are about to cum, do some of the things described above and the focus stays on her and her pleasure. She may worry too much about you and not focus on her own pleasure if she knows you are about to cum.

I hope these come off as fun tips to try in the bedroom that may work not anything else.

ES

 

[suckonsimon]

...
I hope these come off as fun tips to try in the bedroom that may work not anything else.

ES

They do pal! Appreciated always!

 

[tentree]

Liked your frank and honest write up about your sexuality.
It encourages me to find my own sexual sensations and delights.
Thanks babe.

 

[suckonsimon]

Hey gals and guys, this is just a bump. I was reading through some of the superb contributions on this thread and noticed it was 'off the list' of visible pages in this forum. So here it is back for inspired and aspiring lovers all.

 

[bikesnbooks]

Oops I said nothing about orgasm. For us in missionary, one of the triggers from a good build into the actual flooding burst of the orgasm is me grasping her hands with mine above her head on the pillows and she feels pinned down with my palms on hers, my mouth on hers, the fucks full length slower out and shocking rapid in over and over - then when she bursts I feel like I'm on waves of the sea with her whole body arching and rippling ...

Oh my, this so much. I love finishing like this too, though I want him to be sucking my nipple so I can throw my head back. Sometimes after we finish it takes a while for the blood to return to his fingers though ... oops.

 

[eroticspank]

I am glad this thread has been bumped. I miss reading comments from here.

I see this thread as more than just a woman having an orgasm during intercourse. I think it is more about sharing the intimate moment of orgasm with your partner.

Sometimes it is nice to have an orgasm together, holding each other, the man deep inside his woman. But that can be very rare and there are times when I prefer her to cum first while I am holding her. And I am sure that some women like to feel their man cum when they are not having an orgasm. There is a lot to see, feel, and hear when your partner is having an orgasm and you are not. You can really focus on her pleasure--like sucking her nipple--and enjoy making her feel good.

So when a woman has an orgasm on her man's cock, her pussy contracts on his dick. These contractions sometimes strong, help to bring the sperm out of him if he has not already cum and deposit it deep into her womb. It is like her whole body is saying, "Cum in me now!" and giving his dick kisses over and over again. (Acceptance, Love) I am told that it feels great for the woman to orgasm and contract on her man's cock. The full feeling and orgasm are a great combo I am told. As a man, I know it feels great too.

More than the physical, I feel there is a spiritual connection during orgasm on cock. There is no special position, missionary, cowgirl, etc. No specific technique, fingers, vibrator, pubic bone, or thrusting movements. It is just the result of a woman having an orgasm with a cock inside her that causes the emotional/spiritual connection. But to feel the euphoria beyond the physical the two people must have an emotional connection, love, and be open to each other. That is why it can be hard for some women to orgasm during intercourse or on their man's cock. It involves opening up from deep inside, trusting, caring and feeling. Of course it is a two way street...but when that environment is set up. Then the inner kisses or contractions on the man's dick cum easier.

ES