a woman’s ORGASM on her man’s cock

[eroticspank]

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=896895193

I hope this is okay to post this video. In my opinion even though this is a professional video, I feel there are several scenes that are very realistic and relate to the discussion of this group.

Around the 2:25 min mark to about 4:00 min there is a couple doing a scene that is very realistic. The guy helps his partner orgasm by rubbing her clit during intercourse. That works great in the scene and I love the tender kissing after. Even if the woman rubs herself during intercourse with the goal of cumming with her man or cumming on his cock, I find it very erotic and loving. I see it as two lovers that want to share the ultimate moment of ecstasy together.

ES

 

[suckonsimon]

^^^
Watched it, ES. Wow yes.
The one I adore is the 6.5 min couple; she is so vocally restrained and yet everything else goin on with her gives expression to her interior explosion of joy.

What I especially love is the focus and endeavour of those men, especially when they are in quite demanding 'positions', giving everything to make it happen for the woman. I realize I am totally addicted to the idea and the practice of masculine pleasuring of a woman's body and mind and soul. Yeah let's do it!

 

[eroticspank]

^^^
Watched it, ES. Wow yes.
The one I adore is the 6.5 min couple; she is so vocally restrained and yet everything else goin on with her gives expression to her interior explosion of joy.

What I especially love is the focus and endeavour of those men, especially when they are in quite demanding 'positions', giving everything to make it happen for the woman. I realize I am totally addicted to the idea and the practice of masculine pleasuring of a woman's body and mind and soul. Yeah let's do it!

Yes, well said..."focus and endeavour" I like to think it is out of love and caring for their partner rather than for the camera or their own ego.

ES

 

[luv2bfkd]

^^^
I realize I am totally addicted to the idea and the practice of masculine pleasuring of a woman's body and mind and soul. Yeah let's do it!

That’s as I prefer it. I want to be dominated, surrendering myself to his masculinity. I want to be mastered by his cock and get my brains fucked out.

 

[numeniusa]

I read through this whole thread a couple of days ago. It's brilliant, thank you Simon and all the other contributors, such a lot of useful sharing.

I have only climaxed once via PVI in over thirty years of sex. I didn't think that was how my body worked, but on that day, in that position, it did. We sort of chased it again for a little while, but it turned out to be a once-off, although reading your thread (and having recently acquired a so-called G-spot vibrator) I'm kind of wondering again

In a way, it was a relief, though, because a vaginal orgasm can be seen as a sort of holy grail as some have said here, and I had always wondered whether and how it would be different. But for me, it really wasn't... I have always (or at least since I met my husband) climaxed easily and often clitorally, and the vaginal orgasm felt pretty much the same wonderful release.

There are times when I feel like I might cum like that again, specifically when I am riding him, especially when he is slightly sitting up, but it hasn't happened again. Yet. Yes, I'm going to go for 'yet'...

The G-spot vibrator has taught me that there is a definitely a stimulatable place that I have which I (we!) should explore more. And the point I read here about the man's curve being a factor is also interesting.

Finally, let me say to Simon that you and your wife are quite an inspiration - I only recently turned 50, but I aspire to be everything that she is now when I turn 60 myself.

 

[eroticspank]

Some great posts lately, I enjoy this thread.

I am happy to say yesterday my gf was able to cum on my cock. I was in the kneeling position on the bed while she was laying face up, legs spread.

In that position I can enter her, hold onto her leg for support while playing with her clit with my other hand. I thrusted inside her slowly so I would not cum too soon and she would build up to a nice orgasm.

Sure enough it worked. I looked into her eyes and I could see her arousal building. Soon she was breathing faster and her chest, shoulders, and neck were turning red. She asked me if I was close so we could cum together. I told her "Yes honey!" even though I was not. I wanted her to cum first knowing it would make me cum. She let go and had a nice orgasm, grunting, moaning, and getting misty eyed. It was so erotic, I found it easy to cum also and we came together.

I think this is a great position for either the man or the woman to reach down and play with her clit during intercourse. The result was awesome in my case and felt wonderful.

ES

 

[suckonsimon]

I'm bumping this to get it back into view in Darkroom Lounge please!

 

[tnhardon]

Ok.... First off...
I DO NOT like sex (Intercourse) until a woman has already cum once. I don't like running straight into bang-bang-bang sex... Maybe this will affect my experience? I don't know.

I am also going to admit that I get nothing PHYSICALLY from a woman orgasming... Its all mental. Watching her face, listening to her moans. Knowing that I did something to bring that about.

I could also be suffering from a twisted sense here because my sex life is sporadic and a long time ago.

I too try to get the woman to orgasm once before I reach it myself. Sometimes it is not possible, for whatever reason (I cum quicker than usual or she is having trouble getting there). Since a man, generally speaking is only good for one, I try to pace myself until she has climaxed first.

The female orgasm is definitely a mental boost for the man. To see the reaction and hear the excitement, it helps boost your motivation to climax as well.

I can not speak to how a woman can get to an orgasm, outside of my experiences with women. I think it is very important that a woman feel relaxed and safe to be able to let go and actually reach orgasm.

 

[eroticspank]

I too try to get the woman to orgasm once before I reach it myself. Sometimes it is not possible, for whatever reason (I cum quicker than usual or she is having trouble getting there). Since a man, generally speaking is only good for one, I try to pace myself until she has climaxed first.

The female orgasm is definitely a mental boost for the man. To see the reaction and hear the excitement, it helps boost your motivation to climax as well.

I can not speak to how a woman can get to an orgasm, outside of my experiences with women. I think it is very important that a woman feel relaxed and safe to be able to let go and actually reach orgasm.

I agree. It is very important for the woman to be totally relaxed and safe.

Here is an idea that may be a bit weird but actually can work I feel. I suggest trying intercourse daily with the goal being intimacy as well as penetration. The understanding would be orgasm together does not have to be the ultimate goal. It is about not putting pressure on the woman to cum every time. You could have the man cum every time but it would be up to the couple to decide. I would suggest sometimes the guy pulling out prior to orgasm then going back in for a while. Then pulling out again without orgasm and laying next to each other, touching each other.

The idea is not to cum every time during intercourse as the guy while doing other things to please the woman. It may be great foreplay to just fuck for a while, nobody cums, and then go out to dinner etc.

To me the key is to focus on the other feelings and emotions during intercourse. I confess that IF I go too long without some kind of sex, when I enter my partner my mind is just focused on ONE thing, orgasm and physical pleasure. I think this technique above may help with that, or at least I know it does for me.

ES

 

[bikesnbooks]

I love this thread - so many good ideas!

We have a position that pretty reliably gets me cumming on cock - stress levels, tiredness, whims of my cycle notwithstanding - but it can be a demanding position for him, and I don't want to finish the same way all the time. So it's a nice fallback, but also nice to not pull it out of the drawer too often.

There are loads of positions that I really enjoy that have never made me cum, but they're so fun anyway. And the occasional and lovely payoff is the surprise orgasm from a position that has never worked before. Or when you try something for the first time and an orgasm just seems to come from nowhere and crash over you. This happened for me with reverse cowgirl, and it was wonderful, and he was so surprised and turned on he fucked me so deliciously afterwards I nearly came again.

 

[eroticspank]

Awesome!

I love this thread - so many good ideas!

We have a position that pretty reliably gets me cumming on cock - stress levels, tiredness, whims of my cycle notwithstanding - but it can be a demanding position for him, and I don't want to finish the same way all the time. So it's a nice fallback, but also nice to not pull it out of the drawer too often.

There are loads of positions that I really enjoy that have never made me cum, but they're so fun anyway. And the occasional and lovely payoff is the surprise orgasm from a position that has never worked before. Or when you try something for the first time and an orgasm just seems to come from nowhere and crash over you. This happened for me with reverse cowgirl, and it was wonderful, and he was so surprised and turned on he fucked me so deliciously afterwards I nearly came again.

It is so nice when women share their thoughts in this thread. So are you saying the position that gets you cumming on cock pretty reliably is reverse cowgirl? Or is it something else?

ES

 

[bikesnbooks]

It is so nice when women share their thoughts in this thread. So are you saying the position that gets you cumming on cock pretty reliably is reverse cowgirl? Or is it something else?

ES

The reliable position (that makes it sound boring - it's really not!) is me on my back, him on his knees between my legs. My legs are up against his chest and he's lifting my hips up (this is important) so he's entering me at just the right angle. And then one of us sometimes provides some clitoral simulation, but sometimes cock is all I need. The only tricky part really is stamina - it still takes time - and him not cuming too soon and going soft before I get there.

 

[eroticspank]

The reliable position (that makes it sound boring - it's really not!) is me on my back, him on his knees between my legs. My legs are up against his chest and he's lifting my hips up (this is important) so he's entering me at just the right angle. And then one of us sometimes provides some clitoral simulation, but sometimes cock is all I need. The only tricky part really is stamina - it still takes time - and him not cuming too soon and going soft before I get there.

I imagine some oral foreplay (him on you) may help the situation and get you closer to the big O sooner. Another thought, is the starting and stopping technique...I know it works for me. If I just keep fucking, after about 20 min or so I will get soft. Maybe it is old age, I am 54, but it just happens without me cumming. I don't go completely soft, but enough to slip out and the result is lack of stimulation for her. So what I do before I get soft, is stop and pull out for a bit. A minute or two works fine and when I stop, I rub her clit with the head of my dick, kiss her on her breasts, etc. Then when I reenter her, she is still turned on and ready to cum soon. I sometimes pull out two or three times before my gf will cum on my cock.

ES

 

[bikesnbooks]

I imagine some oral foreplay (him on you) may help the situation and get you closer to the big O sooner. Another thought, is the starting and stopping technique...I know it works for me. If I just keep fucking, after about 20 min or so I will get soft. Maybe it is old age, I am 54, but it just happens without me cumming. I don't go completely soft, but enough to slip out and the result is lack of stimulation for her. So what I do before I get soft, is stop and pull out for a bit. A minute or two works fine and when I stop, I rub her clit with the head of my dick, kiss her on her breasts, etc. Then when I reenter her, she is still turned on and ready to cum soon. I sometimes pull out two or three times before my gf will cum on my cock.

ES

Yes, oral play first definitely helps. I like the sound of your start-stop technique though. That sounds worth stopping for even if you're not soft

 

[eroticspank]

Yes, oral play first definitely helps. I like the sound of your start-stop technique though. That sounds worth stopping for even if you're not soft

Yes, that is part of the technique. I stop before I get soft, while I am still hard. The break helps me stay hard and if you look at your typical Porn video the guys do the same. That is where I got it from and an article I read online.

ES

 

[suckonsimon]

The reliable position (that makes it sound boring - it's really not!) is me on my back, him on his knees between my legs. My legs are up against his chest and he's lifting my hips up (this is important) so he's entering me at just the right angle. And then one of us sometimes provides some clitoral simulation, but sometimes cock is all I need. The only tricky part really is stamina - it still takes time - and him not cuming too soon and going soft before I get there.

Lovely conversation about this goin' on here! Here's my two penneth:

How about this position but you lying right at the corner of the bed or whatever and him standing rather than kneeling? Our bed is quite high and has no frame at the foot end so it's perfect for this. I find that the stamina required is much easier to deliver when I'm standing, feet quite wide apart, so that as I work on my woman I'm between being straight legged and knees slightly bent. That continuous slight variation in angle for her is clearly a bonus for her moving towards having a build, and as she builds to orgasm and then as it floods her, I have freedom and confidence to give it her in the manner that's gonna ratch it up to overwhelming for her, whether that's by going all lovey-dovey leaning onto her and kissing, or whether it's a case of staying vertical and going ballistic with a really thundering shafting of her while she's crying out.

Another thing about me standing: though for me as an older guy the issue of cumming sooner than I want to is far less an issue than it used to be, I do find that when I'm standing to her like that, I can virtually choose the time for me - be it in the latter part of her orgasm, or let her come down some and then fuck her more, or even leave it till later.

So, how high and how firm is your bed? and if it's not the right design for this, have you something else by way of useful furnishings?

 

[MastersDelight]

I never came on a cock until I was with Master. It wasn't immediate for him either but after a while and getting more comfortable with each other it became a regular thing. I'm self conscious, always have been, and I think it was killing my ability to climax. With other guys I was worried about how I looked, how I sounded, if he was enjoying himself, if I was doing what he wanted, if I was wet enough, if I was what he expected... And if he went down on me it was even worse. It almost never happened anyway, on the rare occasion that it did I worried about my smell, my taste, what I looked like. Couple that with guys who also didn't fuck hard or fast bc they thought they would hurt me (despite my begging them to) and it's no wonder I never climaxed. I came to find my level of trust and comfort with my partner was the key. Along with foreplay and communication. I can cum pretty easily now, and repeatedly. Me on top is one of the easiest, it gets him deep and it forces him against my cervix which to me is just as good as my g spot. And if I lean a little forward my clit grinds against him as I move. My other favorite is as some have described. Where I'm on my back, my legs up his chest and my ass up of the bed as he thrusts. Rakes him right over my g spot and if he's pounding it he slams my cervix too * heaven*. My other favorite is me on my front, my knees together and pulled up to my stomach and ribs. The closer my legs to my body the better, when he enters from being it forces him forward and he rakes along the front of my vagina and g spot. Couple that with a somewhat full bladder and an anal plug and I can cum for hours.

 

[eroticspank]

Lovely conversation about this goin' on here! Here's my two penneth:

How about this position but you lying right at the corner of the bed or whatever and him standing rather than kneeling? Our bed is quite high and has no frame at the foot end so it's perfect for this. I find that the stamina required is much easier to deliver when I'm standing, feet quite wide apart, so that as I work on my woman I'm between being straight legged and knees slightly bent. That continuous slight variation in angle for her is clearly a bonus for her moving towards having a build, and as she builds to orgasm and then as it floods her, I have freedom and confidence to give it her in the manner that's gonna ratch it up to overwhelming for her, whether that's by going all lovey-dovey leaning onto her and kissing, or whether it's a case of staying vertical and going ballistic with a really thundering shafting of her while she's crying out.

Another thing about me standing: though for me as an older guy the issue of cumming sooner than I want to is far less an issue than it used to be, I do find that when I'm standing to her like that, I can virtually choose the time for me - be it in the latter part of her orgasm, or let her come down some and then fuck her more, or even leave it till later.

So, how high and how firm is your bed? and if it's not the right design for this, have you something else by way of useful furnishings?

That is a very good point. I have two beds in my house. I have a large King bed and a Queen bed in my guest bedroom. The King is nice and big but very low to the ground while the Queen is the opposite. I would say the Queen is about 2 1/2 feet above the floor. I am in a hotel right now and when I stand next to the bed it is only about 2 feet above the floor. I would have to bend over to fuck my gf from this bed. My gf and I use the guest room as our playroom frequently because of the height of the bed. I can make love to her standing up without having to lean over or bend down. Like mentioned above my bed does not have any railings or side bars, just the mattress. So I fuck her from the side of the bed very easily.

The main position is her on the bed face up, her legs running up my chest and shoulders. But I can get tender as mentioned above and spread her legs and lay on her face to face, her legs wrapped around my waist, as I am still standing on the side of the bed. We can even do a modified doggie from the side of the bed. She stands on the side of the bed in front on me and just lays on the bed face down, giving me full access to her ass while she is still standing on the side of the bed. It is very comfortable for her and a nice view for me.

I will mention one more thing. There is carpet in this bedroom with the high Queen bed. Many times while I am fucking her from the side of the bed, IF I don't have flipflops or some kind of shoes, my bare feet slip as I am trying to fuck her. It is hard to thrust with no traction.

ES

 

[eroticspank]

Along with foreplay and communication. I can cum pretty easily now, and repeatedly. Me on top is one of the easiest, it gets him deep and it forces him against my cervix which to me is just as good as my g spot. And if I lean a little forward my clit grinds against him as I move. My other favorite is as some have described. Where I'm on my back, my legs up his chest and my ass up of the bed as he thrusts. Rakes him right over my g spot and if he's pounding it he slams my cervix too * heaven*. My other favorite is me on my front, my knees together and pulled up to my stomach and ribs. The closer my legs to my body the better, when he enters from being it forces him forward and he rakes along the front of my vagina and g spot. Couple that with a somewhat full bladder and an anal plug and I can cum for hours.

Great response MastersDelight, I love all of those positions. I have not tried the last one, so now we have something to try this wkd. I like that these positions are a mix of clitoral and g spot stimulation. To me, if the woman reaches down and rubs her own clit during intercourse to get herself to cum while I am inside her, that is still a wonderful thing. The intimate part for me and what brings a couple closer is the flow of the woman's orgasmic juices on the man's cock. I think there is energy that flows into his body from hers by her contractions and flow of juice. It also feels wonderful for the man to feel her contract and cum on the cock, but it really goes deeper than that I feel.

ES

 

[crashD]

I never came on a cock until I was with Master. It wasn't immediate for him either but after a while and getting more comfortable with each other it became a regular thing. I'm self conscious, always have been, and I think it was killing my ability to climax. With other guys I was worried about how I looked, how I sounded, if he was enjoying himself, if I was doing what he wanted, if I was wet enough, if I was what he expected... And if he went down on me it was even worse. It almost never happened anyway, on the rare occasion that it did I worried about my smell, my taste, what I looked like. Couple that with guys who also didn't fuck hard or fast bc they thought they would hurt me (despite my begging them to) and it's no wonder I never climaxed. I came to find my level of trust and comfort with my partner was the key. Along with foreplay and communication. I can cum pretty easily now, and repeatedly. Me on top is one of the easiest, it gets him deep and it forces him against my cervix which to me is just as good as my g spot. And if I lean a little forward my clit grinds against him as I move. My other favorite is as some have described. Where I'm on my back, my legs up his chest and my ass up of the bed as he thrusts. Rakes him right over my g spot and if he's pounding it he slams my cervix too * heaven*. My other favorite is me on my front, my knees together and pulled up to my stomach and ribs. The closer my legs to my body the better, when he enters from being it forces him forward and he rakes along the front of my vagina and g spot. Couple that with a somewhat full bladder and an anal plug and I can cum for hours.

you like your cervix banged?? that hasn't been my experience, and from one i've read, not many ladies like that. glad it works for you...

 

[MastersDelight]

you like your cervix banged?? that hasn't been my experience, and from one i've read, not many ladies like that. glad it works for you...

VERY much so! Especially around ovulation when it's low, soft and a little tender. The harder the better, but then again I enjoy pain....

 

[crashD]

VERY much so! Especially around ovulation when it's low, soft and a little tender. The harder the better, but then again I enjoy pain....

the pain thing must be it...

 

[MastersDelight]

the pain thing must be it...

Not sure, it doesn't register the same as a crop or a cane, that HURTS then melts into pleasure, him hitting my cervix is pure joy. It takes my breath away, but gets me so wet.

 

[crashD]

Not sure, it doesn't register the same as a crop or a cane, that HURTS then melts into pleasure, him hitting my cervix is pure joy. It takes my breath away, but gets me so wet.

lucky master...

 

[bikesnbooks]

Lovely conversation about this goin' on here! Here's my two penneth:

How about this position but you lying right at the corner of the bed or whatever and him standing rather than kneeling? Our bed is quite high and has no frame at the foot end so it's perfect for this. I find that the stamina required is much easier to deliver when I'm standing, feet quite wide apart, so that as I work on my woman I'm between being straight legged and knees slightly bent. That continuous slight variation in angle for her is clearly a bonus for her moving towards having a build, and as she builds to orgasm and then as it floods her, I have freedom and confidence to give it her in the manner that's gonna ratch it up to overwhelming for her, whether that's by going all lovey-dovey leaning onto her and kissing, or whether it's a case of staying vertical and going ballistic with a really thundering shafting of her while she's crying out.

Another thing about me standing: though for me as an older guy the issue of cumming sooner than I want to is far less an issue than it used to be, I do find that when I'm standing to her like that, I can virtually choose the time for me - be it in the latter part of her orgasm, or let her come down some and then fuck her more, or even leave it till later.

So, how high and how firm is your bed? and if it's not the right design for this, have you something else by way of useful furnishings?

I like the standing idea - although our bed would be too low, we have other furniture. Or maybe adding some cushions would work. Actually, I remember a long-ago table fuck that was basically that position and had spectacular results.

By the way a "thundering shafting" sounds amazing. Yes please.