Acting dom-ly

[Quint]

There is a certain consistency of character that has to be present in my relationships. Respect has to be earned or it's meaningless and tends to poison the rest of the flow of the relationship. That doesn't prevent my partner from acting kindly, or with humor, or even from being a kind person or a funny one. (Differentiating between behavior and character.) Like Marquis said, that's not mutually exclusive. Dominants, like everyone else, get to be apples and oranges simultaneously. So those traits would not be ones to make me question the dominance of my partner. Indecision, inertia, and lack of follow-through would. Like I said, gotta earn the r.

 

[jasonlf]

Heh, you people seem to have the idea I'm trying to fake acting "domly" or something.

This isn't the case. The reason I asked in my original post "what would I need to change to act 'domly'" was more or less to get the idea of what you thought a dom should act like.

I haven't ever changed for anyone. Not my family, friends, or anyone. Don't plan to do it for a sub, either, although, I think that's the point.

 

[TaintedB]

...gotta earn the r.

If I were to have a bdsm bumper sticker, that's exactly what it would say.

 

[wolf2002]

Originally Posted by Herman Finkers
By a certain definition a comedian is someone who makes people think about certain taboos that exist within our society.

For instance… Lately, I’ve often made my wife think about voluntary euthanasia..

He he, I guess Herman Finkers is too deep for this board...

 

[jasonlf]

I talked to my ex again today... and thank you all. Your comments are helping me to be able to know that I'm better than needing her.

Not that she's a bad person, but she's not for me.

Thanks all.