alt*****style.master-slave discussion

[iamaddog]

hands on vs manuals

someone made mention it was a small problem dealing with online vs real life..hey, it's ok. ---if'n ya wanna go out and climb the mountain coz it's there, that's so cool. but seems to me, where I look at this,...sure makes sense to find a darn manual to figure out if'n ya know what in hec you're doing first before ya fall to your death coz ya missed a chapter????
otherwords, it was my intention a year ago to do self research into this new world so I do not fall off somewhere and get hurt. there are....indeed...so many horror stories that follow the bdsm world. "I" for one was not...going to be another number in a file and be called a sad statistic. uh uh...not me. made up my mind.
too old now for guts and glory. just wanna trot through this as smooth as I can and not get hurt--by body or soul.

but hey brother....if ya wanna go for it...more the power to you.
I'll stand behind you and back up your right to do it your way. anyone else....I'm a devout coward now-a-days....no more bulling my way through the glass windows. it takes far too long to heal now. ain't no young buck anymore.

just my thoughts here....whatever it means.

y'all stay cool....huh?


mad dog in iowa--aka garylee

 

[Richard49]

Thank you

To everyone that has posted so far
I hope more posts come this way

Richard

 

[iamaddog]

more posts

To everyone that has posted so far
I hope more posts come this way

Richard

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ain't coz I ain't a-trying....
seriously...I have found many many nice people here and everyone has most kind to me. I am sure, you will find it to be so also. hang in there...water isn't too deep...

 

[DRxBlue]

mad dog (garylee) you are a delight!

We have a lot in common. You've had a bit longer to process this knowledge, but i'm sure that Iowa and Minnesota, have a good deal in common when it comes to the BDSM community.

It's not exactly as if they're suppressed, but they don't get a lot of press. You really have to do some homework to find your local groups. No doubt you've also found that to meet people you'll probably have to travel quite a distance and wait for quite a while.

Thank GOD for the Net! At least we can find out the story which is not told in the local paper. We can find out that we are not alone in looking for sensations and experiences which you don't find on the menu at the Dairy Queen.

We also learn that while our curiosity might make us unusual, that we're not "abnormal" or "sick". Already i feel really glad to find that there IS possibly some satisfaction for appetites i could never even name before.

Your language may be a little home-spun and down to earth, but your wisdom and gift for analogy are of the highest quality.

i'm REALLY glad to have met ye.

Blue

 

[iamaddog]

to blue

Your language may be a little home-spun and down to earth, but your wisdom and gift for analogy are of the highest quality.

i'm REALLY glad to have met ye. --
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well thank you thank you....don't get too many flowers from the Ladies. 'sho is nice 'nuff of ya..
seriously...\
I may be..a bit..homespun..but then..pa always told me not to forget who I am or where I came from. I am a midwest good 'ole boy. but then,,is that a crime? I apologize to all those big city types that would prefer I came from beverly hills or rodeo drive but it isn't me. I have tried to ensure I kept my place. I have never tried to be some one or some thing I am not. just a midwest blue-collar man just trying to get through this world the best I know how. used-to run the streets as a kid but then I was...just a kid. 40 something now..soon to hit the 5-0 day.
too old for glory and fame now. leave that to the new generation.
again..thank you..maybe I put a pretty smile on a pretty Lady for a day.
please please take out there....it can be crazy...

mad dog in iowa...aka garylee

 

[DRxBlue]

i KNEW it!

Just turned 50 myself. Apart from 10 years in Mpls. and two years in California (back when i was Navy Blue) i been living up in way Northern Minnesota. Nearly Canada.

i still love it, but BDSMers are pretty far apart up here. s'OK i'm in no BIG hurry. Didn't know until a couple of weeks ago i was interested.

Happy Trails, man
Keep posting, you're a breath of fresh air.

Blue

(now WHAT was this thread about?)

 

[iamaddog]

to blue....

Happy Trails, man
Keep posting, you're a breath of fresh air.

Blue
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happy trails to you. til we meet again....go get em roy!!! hey, where did dale go???
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ok ok....I'm being a smartass...showing my age here...
always figured myself more of a duke kinda guy little lady....
and that's the truth pilgrim....

.......
hey,..as long as I am able to make someone's day, I'm happy.
as to fresh air??? no smog here ....hee hee hee giggles
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thank you thank you thank you...you are indeed a real Lady!
so nice to hear from the fairest sex. not much chance anymore of that in my life lately. i have hidden myself away from the world, hiding behind my screen, doors locked and blinds pulled. becoming a self made hermit. always was antisocial behavior.
been a loner for so so long I forget there are people out there.
sometimes forget my social manners and tend to put people off and not know I'm doing it.
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everyone please drive careful out there....please????
sooner talk 'to' you than talk 'about' you in the newspaper.
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garylee.....aka....mad dog in iowa

now where is ole dollar??? just got me new saddle....

 

[DRxBlue]

Oops! i did it again!

cymbidia TOLD me i gotta be more MASCULINE in my on-line persona !!<LOFL>

You seem to be the victim of a slight misunderstanding, duke

i guess there are too many females in the medical profession these days. i AM a member of "the fairer sex", but that'd MALE in my case.

i don't know why this happens, but it's time to be real up front about it.

Maybe if i used a more gender specific avatar, i dunno. You're not the first to leap to that conclusion. i suppose i AM kind of sexually ambiguous. Outa practice.

If i WERE female, i'd be a lesbian.

Thanx though, you made me feel real pretty for a minute there cowboy, but i ain't shavin' off my sideburns. (shake pardner?)

Now back to your regularly scheduled thread:
alt*****style.master-slave discussion

 

[iamaddog]

oh well blue

You seem to be the victim of a slight misunderstanding, duke
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oh hell..ain't the first time these things happen..
and it is kinda funny. got me to chuckling. well hell pawdner...
how the hec is it going cowboy?
damn. say hey. can't stop laughing. just tickles me so much..

ok,..trying to calm down. none the less....guess we're in the same corral here. just out here riding the range of life and hope we find a chance to settle down and stop riding the range alone.
"desperadooooooo"...singing in my head...
god I love that song. so much is even true today. a man's gotta find that chance to stop being alone and find someone to settle down with. doesn't matter here if it is bdsm or if it is vanilla or a mix thereof. being alone sucks! even a loner like me. having my moments from time to time. pace the floor. thinking alone. no one to bounce ideas off of. is this or that a good idea. write myself notes to keep in focus. tv is boring. too much talk and less music on the radio. and this pc don't talk back.
just me and kitty pooh curled up behind me purring away and sleeping like a log. BORING!!!!
the price of being single....huh?

hey yo,..take care big dude. hope ya find your own el dorado somewhere sometime with someone special...
from edgar allen poe...
"where is this land,..called el dorado?"

until later dude...
please take care--drive careful out there...
oh,,and I'd be happy to shake your hand bud.

mad dog in iowa

 

[catalina_francisco]

more recycling....bump

 

[PainAndPleasure]

Hello, im a new member and stumbled on this site by reading other forum baised web sites. Its prolly to late to add my thoughts on online vs. real life bdsm or w/e life styles, but oh well. For people like me who have to seem manly or tough, we turn to online to expierence that other side of ourselves, and please dont get me wrong i am manly in my own way but when it comes down to a woman i am hers for ever. Im sure that those who do these things online would love to do them in real life, but do not know how to meet the people or they are shy. Being upset at people who only do these things online or have a very limited and sexual idea of the life style of s/m and such is very hippocritacal (hope i spelled that right). I know im worried about being judged for my own desires and such, and i know alot of people that feel the same way, like most of you felt befor bdsm became an online thing where you can talk about it and not be afraid of negitive reprocussions. So instead of starting another circle of fear and hate because of a differnce of opinian I say you should just accept people for what they enjoy or do, now im going to shut up