Anal is better when she WANTS it!

[stu_gats_2000]

I think a major problem is that some men are not aware that an asshole doesn't create natural lube the way the vagina does. And even if you've been having sex and she's really wet it doesn't mean that she's ready for anal. You have to use a lot of lube and go slowly, and if she doesn't want to do it, then it's not going to feel good, no matter what you do.

I've only ever had one time where anal felt remotely good for me, and that was when he went slow and fingered me back there and used a lot of lube. What kept it from feeling great was I was on my period and so every time he thrust into me it caused me to have cramps. But the actual anal sex felt pretty great.

eating pussy and a finger in the ass is so yummy

 

[LoveToLurk]

Had a mind blowing sexual experience with a beautiful woman Saturday night, who didnt know i was into anal play and as we were having sex she fingered and pleasured her own ass as i fucked her hard from behind! I was so turned on, that i removed her finger, inserted my own until she climaxed HARD!!

During the middle of the night we were naked and i woke up the greatest sexual surprise of my whole life, she had my cock in her hand and was already positioning it right at her back door, i pushed forward oh so slightly and she moaned with delight as i entered. I fucked her for 35-40 mins right there from the side until i came, bursting my whole load into her ass..

Greatest sexual experience i probably have EVER had.

Cant wait to see her again!

My first time being with a woman who liked anal as much as i do.. usually im having to convince the girl to do it, and she isnt really into it.. just wants to please me.

Getting so hard just thinking about it..

Oh my gosh that sounds incredible. Lucky man, (and woman)! Hope you have lots more fun in store with her

 

[LoveToLurk]

I for one love anal. As crazy as it sounds it is easier for me to climax that way. More women would like it I think if the guys they are with would take the time to "warm up" thier ladies and helpo them relax

I second that. I think the fear of pain is what scares many women away. Time+lube=SWEET!

 

[bps]

I for one love anal. As crazy as it sounds it is easier for me to climax that way. More women would like it I think if the guys they are with would take the time to "warm up" thier ladies and helpo them relax

you're not alone. anal is all about orgasms..... mindblowing orgasms.

 

[TxBookGirl]

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[hwwannabe]

Wow... imagine not being into something that you have to be convinced to do in the first place. Twit.

I'd wager there are many women who now love anal who had to be convinced to try it in the first place. I know I never would have initiated it, but I'm so glad he talked me into it

 

[BetterLuver]

I'd wager there are many women who now love anal who had to be convinced to try it in the first place. I know I never would have initiated it, but I'm so glad he talked me into it

Thank you for being honest about that.. i was taken a back when she called me a twit.. There have been a few girls that i have had to massage into anal that LOVE it now. So thank you for that. =)

 

[BetterLuver]

Make that Play + Time + lube = SWEET

For me I have to be fingered and played with before the cock is introduced. Otherwise, no matter how slow he enters, I think I'm being ripped open. With a little anal play before hand, it's mind blowing.

Exactly! =)

 

[hwwannabe]

Thank you for being honest about that.. i was taken a back when she called me a twit.. There have been a few girls that i have had to massage into anal that LOVE it now. So thank you for that. =)

Any time No need for name calling....unless that's what you're into

 

[LoveToLurk]

Make that Play + Time + lube = SWEET

For me I have to be fingered and played with before the cock is introduced. Otherwise, no matter how slow he enters, I think I'm being ripped open. With a little anal play before hand, it's mind blowing.

Yes TxGirl - you are absolutely right. The play first IS important. I was assuming that was a given, but it never hurts to be clear about that!

 

[TxBookGirl]

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[GBPFan1975]

Had a mind blowing sexual experience with a beautiful woman Saturday night, who didnt know i was into anal play and as we were having sex she fingered and pleasured her own ass as i fucked her hard from behind! I was so turned on, that i removed her finger, inserted my own until she climaxed HARD!!

During the middle of the night we were naked and i woke up the greatest sexual surprise of my whole life, she had my cock in her hand and was already positioning it right at her back door, i pushed forward oh so slightly and she moaned with delight as i entered. I fucked her for 35-40 mins right there from the side until i came, bursting my whole load into her ass..

Greatest sexual experience i probably have EVER had.

Cant wait to see her again!

My first time being with a woman who liked anal as much as i do.. usually im having to convince the girl to do it, and she isnt really into it.. just wants to please me.

Getting so hard just thinking about it..

Awesome story/experience that you shared. I think you might have found a needle in the haystack there with a woman that was into anal that much without having to convince her to try it. I would say that most women aren't going to come right out and say or show that they are into anal though I may be wrong. Women aren't going to want their partner know, especially early in a relationship, that they are that into anal because they think that the guy might think they are a freek. What they don't know is that probably most guys will try anal (at least) and more than likely are into it.

I hope you had an awesome time again with this woman like you did in this encounter that you shared. Who knows, maybe she even got a lot more kinkier! Lucky you if she did!

 

[BetterLuver]

Awesome story/experience that you shared. I think you might have found a needle in the haystack there with a woman that was into anal that much without having to convince her to try it. I would say that most women aren't going to come right out and say or show that they are into anal though I may be wrong. Women aren't going to want their partner know, especially early in a relationship, that they are that into anal because they think that the guy might think they are a freek. What they don't know is that probably most guys will try anal (at least) and more than likely are into it.

I hope you had an awesome time again with this woman like you did in this encounter that you shared. Who knows, maybe she even got a lot more kinkier! Lucky you if she did!

thank you for your awesome sentiments. It was BY far the most erotic experience i have ever had.. merely because of how new and random the entire situation is. Truth of the matter, is i haven't seen her since, really not for any other reason that i moved to a neighboring city for work and am in a whole new environment. Plus we dont talk much at all.. Whats crazy is that we both acknowledge how awesome the experience was, but it was one of those super random things and will both move on..

My question to you, is do you think it's better to with hold my anal fetish to girls at the beginning, cause I'm usually super up front about it right away..

BL

 

[GBPFan1975]

thank you for your awesome sentiments. It was BY far the most erotic experience i have ever had.. merely because of how new and random the entire situation is. Truth of the matter, is i haven't seen her since, really not for any other reason that i moved to a neighboring city for work and am in a whole new environment. Plus we dont talk much at all.. Whats crazy is that we both acknowledge how awesome the experience was, but it was one of those super random things and will both move on..

My question to you, is do you think it's better to with hold my anal fetish to girls at the beginning, cause I'm usually super up front about it right away..

BL

Well there are a couple of ways to look at it. If the anal fetish is really important to you and your SO should be open to it and be willing to partake in your fetish with you and it is a deal breaker for you, then you should be up front and honest with her about it. It will weed out the women up front that are not going to be into it or even consider being into it.

Now if you really like a woman and want to stand a chance with her and don't want to have the possible chance of scaring her off, then you might want to lay low a little bit about your fetish and have it come out gradually and see if you can warm her up to the possibility if she isn't into it at the time. Now if you're lucky she will be into it and you won't need to convince her to try it.

If you're really lucky you will find one like the one you were with in that encounter that you descrived in the first post of this thread. That would be the perfect scenario.

Like I said though, if Anal is that important to you and it is a must for your SO to participate in, then you should be up front with it with her. If she is scared and runs off, then it wasn't meant to be and if she is open and interested than you have a keeper. Good luck with that.

Now these are my opinions coming from a guys stand point. I unfortunately didn't find a woman that is into Anal that much. I get teased with it about once every 2 - 3 years. It sucks, so I have to let my mind wonder and get fulfilled as much as it can here on Lit.

If you want more of an accurate opinion on how you should approach a woman about your Anal fetish, then you should probably ask some of the women on here. They will be able to tell you from a woman's point of view on how they would react if a guy told them about his Anal fetish up front in a relationship.

Good luck in finding the right woman, that loves Anal, that is for you.

 

[BetterLuver]

Well there are a couple of ways to look at it. If the anal fetish is really important to you and your SO should be open to it and be willing to partake in your fetish with you and it is a deal breaker for you, then you should be up front and honest with her about it. It will weed out the women up front that are not going to be into it or even consider being into it.

Now if you really like a woman and want to stand a chance with her and don't want to have the possible chance of scaring her off, then you might want to lay low a little bit about your fetish and have it come out gradually and see if you can warm her up to the possibility if she isn't into it at the time. Now if you're lucky she will be into it and you won't need to convince her to try it.

If you're really lucky you will find one like the one you were with in that encounter that you descrived in the first post of this thread. That would be the perfect scenario.

Like I said though, if Anal is that important to you and it is a must for your SO to participate in, then you should be up front with it with her. If she is scared and runs off, then it wasn't meant to be and if she is open and interested than you have a keeper. Good luck with that.

Now these are my opinions coming from a guys stand point. I unfortunately didn't find a woman that is into Anal that much. I get teased with it about once every 2 - 3 years. It sucks, so I have to let my mind wonder and get fulfilled as much as it can here on Lit.

If you want more of an accurate opinion on how you should approach a woman about your Anal fetish, then you should probably ask some of the women on here. They will be able to tell you from a woman's point of view on how they would react if a guy told them about his Anal fetish up front in a relationship.

Good luck in finding the right woman, that loves Anal, that is for you.

outstanding advice.. greatly appreciated. I will most certainly ask the women here on lit.. =)

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Make that Play + Time + lube = SWEET

For me I have to be fingered and played with before the cock is introduced. Otherwise, no matter how slow he enters, I think I'm being ripped open. With a little anal play before hand, it's mind blowing.

Isn't it just the same with vaginal sex? It doesn't matter whether it's front or back, play a lot first and you'll both have a much nicer time.

 

[TxBookGirl]

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[PleasePeesMe]

Well thanks, Tx

Very wise words my friend

but it's not rocket science, is it?

 

[TxBookGirl]

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[bibethhotwet]

My husband has been fucking me in the ass for over 20 years. While it isn't an every night thing with us I do enjoy it very much. He is very good at the prep work but when I am ready..he definately knows it. Once he is in and my hole has become adjusted I don't mind him screwing me as hard and as fast as he wants. I love the feel of his balls bouncing off my pussy lips and cum very hard.

While we are into swinging and have done a number of MMF situations including double penetration he is the only man who has ever fucked me in the ass. That area is reserved for him only. First time we did it was on our honeymoon night. While my front door was certainly not a virgin my ass was. He had fucked me to a couple of tremendous orgasms and then rolled me over. At first I thought he was going to fuck me from behind but instead he spread my cheeks and went down on my asshole. Honey, I was gripping the bedsheets in absolute pleasure!! He then asked if he could fuck me back there and I hesitatinglysaid yes. He then lubed me and his cock up and took his time working it in. After a few moments he was buried in me and began a slow steady fucking. It was a mix of pain/pleasure but soon the pain subsided. It was official..I was his completely. And the rest..as they say is history.

 

[BetterLuver]

My husband has been fucking me in the ass for over 20 years. While it isn't an every night thing with us I do enjoy it very much. He is very good at the prep work but when I am ready..he definately knows it. Once he is in and my hole has become adjusted I don't mind him screwing me as hard and as fast as he wants. I love the feel of his balls bouncing off my pussy lips and cum very hard.

While we are into swinging and have done a number of MMF situations including double penetration he is the only man who has ever fucked me in the ass. That area is reserved for him only. First time we did it was on our honeymoon night. While my front door was certainly not a virgin my ass was. He had fucked me to a couple of tremendous orgasms and then rolled me over. At first I thought he was going to fuck me from behind but instead he spread my cheeks and went down on my asshole. Honey, I was gripping the bedsheets in absolute pleasure!! He then asked if he could fuck me back there and I hesitatinglysaid yes. He then lubed me and his cock up and took his time working it in. After a few moments he was buried in me and began a slow steady fucking. It was a mix of pain/pleasure but soon the pain subsided. It was official..I was his completely. And the rest..as they say is history.

Thank you for sharing this amazingly hott story!.. Your husband is a lucky man, indeed!

BL

 

[LovesDirtyTalk]

*******

 

[BetterLuver]

bump..

 

[mrtomthumb]

having a woman orgasm while anally stimulating her whether your cock, a finger or tongue is an amazing thing to witness.

hell ya !!!

I did just last night.

 

[SirenSweet]

I'm a woman who very much wants to try anal. In fact, nothing turns me on more than watching/reading about anal sex. I just need to find someone to help me realize this fantasy. ::heavy sigh::