Anal Play

I just slipped in an easy plug as I check the board.

Have been considering an inflatable and or vibrating one lately for no clear reason.
Whoops I ended up sleeping the night with the plug in.
Now I have switched to the larger model in.
 
Do you use water-based lube? Do you have any problems taking the plug out after extended use like that, if you do?

I've been curious about longer-term use, but always worried that removal might be tricky.
I just use astroglide. A little goes a long way, and I found removal was no problem.
 
I have been engaging in ass play, and anal sex, for a VERY long time. As noted in my profile, I'm very anal and have felt my ass was a sexual organ almost as long as I can remember. I started playing with anal toys, and taking enemas for pleasure, almost as soon as I became sexually aware and learned to masturbate.

Of course, over the years, I have had dozens of dildos, plugs, and other toys ranging in size from modest to HUMONGOUS in both girth and length. When you're this "anal centric", if ass play isn't "stretching", maybe with a little pain or at the very least "vague discomfort" at first, it isn't worth doing at all. I have also been fisted on numerous occasions though admittedly, and probably fortunately, with partners with fairly small hands.

Now, in my sixties, and having "been there...and done that" I have settled into the realization that "just big enough" is better than pressing the envelope with toys that are too huge and I've pretty well set 3.5" in diameter (11" circumference) as my upper limit with my current favorite butt plug 3" wide at its largest with 7" of insertable length.

Of course I know I'm looser than I used to be and, if I want to force it, after anal play I can display a bit of a rosebud.
That said, my anal plumbing still works as intended, with no leakage, no hemorrhoids or fissures, and normal bowel function.

My first real realization that I might have rearranged my anal and rectal anatomy more than I thought came when, during a routine physical, my (former) long time primary care physician after the "turn your head and cough routine" said, "Oooh. Getting kind of loose back there", while he was clearly blushing and with a slight smirk on his face. He didn't ask, and I didn't tell, though I could have truthfully told him that my wife, also his patient, and I routinely engaged in play with a myriad of dildos, plugs and strap-ons without mentioning that I also love dick.

Disclaimer, that's just my experience, "Your results may vary". LOL
Beautifully said and similar to my experience with varied partners and toys. Currently using a good size pug, a 6 inch dildo, and an 8 inch vibrating soft dildo that is not only comfortable but smooth. I have learned that the best lubrication is critical to pleasure and safety. I have been taking the toys and the real thing for years with no problems. My physician hasn't commented, but I imagine she has noticed! LOL!
 
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I have bought another toy with a little more girth, six inches and with the suction cup base. Wow, the fun I’ve been having with it. I’ve gone thru two bottles of lube. I really enjoy riding it more than anything. Fills me up, more enjoyable.
 
I have bought another toy with a little more girth, six inches and with the suction cup base. Wow, the fun I’ve been having with it. I’ve gone thru two bottles of lube. I really enjoy riding it more than anything. Fills me up, more enjoyable.
Love the suction cup types for variety of positions!
 
I agree. I wanna ride it while on my bed, but can’t find anything to stick it to and at the right height. Any ideas?
I wish. I have never used the suction in bed. On a chair, stool, wall -yes. Just used a nine inch thick cock dildo/vibrator in the shower. Wow!
 
I wish. I have never used the suction in bed. On a chair, stool, wall -yes. Just used a nine inch thick cock dildo/vibrator in the shower. Wow!
I bought a piece of perspex thick enough so it doesn't break.
The suckers hold to that very well.
In bed you'd still have to hold it in place.
Sometimes I push the cock and balls through a pair of boxers from the inside. You could do the same thing with jeans shorts or pants.
I also have a fucking machine. Once you get the setup right it's really good.

Actually writing this has given me an idea I will try.
Mounting the sucker on the perspex inside some jeans and then stuffing behind the perspex with a pillow.
Maybe if I put that against the headboard of the bed I can get a good angle.
 
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