Anal question for men and women

You are so right, the out of control powerlessness, it's part of the dynamic.
I'm craving it right now.
 
I hate anal.

It causes pain and injuries if too rough and a feeling that I think I need urgently go to the WC. And afterwards his tool is dirty and must be cleaned before the real fun starts.

Really not my cup of tea
 
I hate anal.

It causes pain and injuries if too rough and a feeling that I think I need urgently go to the WC. And afterwards his tool is dirty and must be cleaned before the real fun starts.

Really not my cup of tea
You're my wife moved to Germany? :oops:
 
I assume that the majority of women thinks that way ... . From my view, anal is mainly a male fantasy of those who like it "dirty"
Yes, there is fantasy and the real world ... and dirty it gets ;)
 
I assume that the majority of women thinks that way ... . From my view, anal is mainly a male fantasy of those who like it "dirty"
After a few drinks my wife loves to do the ā€œnastyā€. When sheā€™s that, it is my cue that she wants her ass eaten and fucked. Nothing better then living a fantasy.
 
My ex wife loved anal and could orgasm from only that. And also from only nipple and breast stimulation. I have never been able to orgasm from prostate stimulation. Almost. But not quite.
 
First time tried a dildo I remember the first inch being quite difficult then boom it slipped it & I surprised myself that I squealed in delight
Yes exactly the same experience in the beginning, but now that first inch and the next 8ā€ is no problem and so fun!
 
We like anal. She does me all the time, and I cum 'hands free' anally several times a week some week. She cums anally also, but that a couple of times a year treat for me. She's got to be in the mood, and everything else needs to be correct for it to happen. But she usually does, and has cum multiple times from anal alone.
 
I was talking to my wife about the pleasure centers in men and women. I had assumed that some men somehow get wired with a G-spot, in their rears, that women don't have because their G-spot is inside the vagina. I've seen vids where getting penetrated makes a shoot, with no other stimulation than getting banged. Debra was saying that an ass is an ass, regardless if it is male or female. I get very aroused by my male G-spot, almost to the point of ejaculation, but not quite. Do women get aroused to the point of orgasm, or assisting the pleasure from anal sex? It would be interesting to see the guys responses. I know some have their backdoors locked, regardless of sex. How do you feel about it?
This is a fascinating topic! It's great that you and your wife are having open discussions about pleasure and anatomy. You're right; the experience of pleasure can vary widely between individuals, regardless of gender.

For many women, anal stimulation can indeed enhance arousal and lead to orgasm, especially when itā€™s combined with other forms of stimulation. Some women report that anal play heightens their overall sexual experience, while others may find it less appealing.

As you mentioned, everyone has different preferences and comfort levels. The key is communication and exploring what feels good for each partner. It can be a journey of discovery! Itā€™s also worth noting that societal perceptions around anal play can make some people hesitant, but many are open to it and enjoy the added sensations.
 
Once I received anal I was spoiled. Really nothing else gets me off anymore. I prefer a penis doggie style and cum hands free without a lot of foreplay.

Only problems Iā€™ve had is from guys that canā€™t get hard and constantly fall out. The production of working a too soft cock inside me can be a killjoy. Also I find being pegged a poor substitute for a real cock. I think the pegger does experience the right sensations to coordinate their actions. Also the only peggers who have mounted me have been dommes, I donā€™t do well with their personality type. They tend to use the largest toy they can fit.

Instead I prefer the give and take of a hard cock that provides feedback as it fills me so the MAN had control over the action.
 
My wife has used a strapon on me multiple times. Itā€™s such a unique feeling but I donā€™t cum. My wife says that Iā€™m not relaxed enough and maybe thatā€™s why I donā€™t cum. She may be right. I love the feeling but it is difficult to get totally relaxed.

ā€¦.by the way, she cums from using the strapon on me. She doesnā€™t touch herself. Just the act of thrusting her girl cock in me makes her cum.
 
My wife has used a strapon on me multiple times. Itā€™s such a unique feeling but I donā€™t cum. My wife says that Iā€™m not relaxed enough and maybe thatā€™s why I donā€™t cum. She may be right. I love the feeling but it is difficult to get totally relaxed.

ā€¦.by the way, she cums from using the strapon on me. She doesnā€™t touch herself. Just the act of thrusting her girl cock in me makes her cum.
Sooooo erotic
 
I have done my wifes ass many times over the years. I think however, she does that more for me than her. She does get off big time on double penitration. I myself, love, ass play. She has pegged me many times, though not enough for my liking. I enjoy the physical feeling, and I also enjoy "giving myself" to my wife, maybe more. I have cum from being fucked in the ass, but only once. I'd let her down me every time we have sex, if she wanted!
 
My wife does not like anal at all. We had it occasionally when we first met but havenā€™t in 10 years. šŸ˜• there is something primal and taboo about it that I like.

Buttā€¦ she does indulge me. She will give me a good hard pegging now and again. She also will give me a pretend ā€œprostate examā€ and engage in other anal play on me. I enjoy it. - it can feel amazing.
 
There's only one woman I was sexually active with that flat out refused anal. All the others liked it. I mean, I asked, and they said yes. Helped that I always rimmed them, and I don't have a big dick. Later on, they knew I liked it up the ass too, so I think that helped.
 
I was talking to my wife about the pleasure centers in men and women. I had assumed that some men somehow get wired with a G-spot, in their rears, that women don't have because their G-spot is inside the vagina. I've seen vids where getting penetrated makes a shoot, with no other stimulation than getting banged. Debra was saying that an ass is an ass, regardless if it is male or female. I get very aroused by my male G-spot, almost to the point of ejaculation, but not quite. Do women get aroused to the point of orgasm, or assisting the pleasure from anal sex? It would be interesting to see the guys responses. I know some have their backdoors locked, regardless of sex. How do you feel about it?
Aside from the anus itself having thousands of nerves it is the opening with a direct path to the prostate which is the male g spot.
 
Giving a women good anal is so much fun. She loves, gets so.more out of it and as a result feels so good on the Cock. Lovely to have her orgam from a lovely arse fuckiing session. When to fuck hard and when to be slow and easy.
 
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