Anal question for men and women

[Buttboy7869]

If a guy knows what it feels like to receive I think they give better anal too, I'm certainly more confident with a guy who knows when to be careful and when to fuck hard or gently.

I agree with you on this 100%. Receiving anal taught so much about how I thought it should be properly done. Not only good technique but how to prepare in order to avoid unwanted surprises.

 

[Thomas_Hardy]

If a guy knows what it feels like to receive I think they give better anal too, I'm certainly more confident with a guy who knows when to be careful and when to fuck hard or gently.

That's a really good argument for opening up to anal penetration on both sides of the top/bottom dynamic to comes with ass play (if that's the most general way to put it!)

 

[GOODLUCKEVA]

Giving a women good anal is so much fun. She loves, gets so.more out of it and as a result feels so good on the Cock. Lovely to have her orgam from a lovely arse fuckiing session. When to fuck hard and when to be slow and easy.

Understanding the balance between being gentle and going harder can really enhance the experience for both partners. It’s all about communication and tuning into each other’s responses, right? Every woman is different, so finding what she enjoys most can lead to some amazing moments together.

 

[Buttboy7869]

Understanding the balance between being gentle and going harder can really enhance the experience for both partners. It’s all about communication and tuning into each other’s responses, right? Every woman is different, so finding what she enjoys most can lead to some amazing moments together.

Absolutely!

 

[Jordanjack]

After that I love to push back until it's all inside.

Mmm fuck. You sound fun.

 

[Buttboy7869]

For the majority of us, our brains are the biggest and most sensitive sexual organ we have. Situation, partner, and a million other little things all pooling together can make something that's usually mundane, be mindblowing in the right kind of situation.

Absolutely agree!

 

[Buttboy7869]

I am a male that loves pussy especially eating it! I also love to suck a man’s cock to completion. When I am sucking a cock and I it starts getting rock hard and it is moving faster and deeper down my throat I get so turned on and when he grabs my head in his hands I am rock hard. One time I was sucking my friends cock and he was at the point of no return and his wife opened the bedroom door. He was pumping his load down my throat we just kept going cum was squirting out the sides of my mouth and I was swallowing everything I could. On top of that I was wearing a pair of her panties. When we were done and he pulled his cock out of my mouth she just walked past us and sat on the bed, pulled her skirt up and told me to eat her pussy. I was glad to get right to it but my friend did not know what to think. Shortly after starting she was pulling my hair and telling me to lick that pussy. Her husband was standing next to her with his cock in her mouth and hard as a rock. She told him to get behind me and fuck me in the ass. I had played with things in my ass but he had a big cock. I asked for some vaseline to smooth it in. When he started fucking me I was unable to do much but we all got back into rythm. She pulled her pussy away and got under me and started sucking my cock. I was already on the verge of cumming from the ass fucking but as soon as her lips were around my cock I blew the biggest load and I sttarted fucking her mouth then I felt a huge warm load of cum in my ass and it was a wonderful sensation that I have never experienced since. A guy can cum just by getting fucked in his ass just like a woman

Love bi threesomes and yes I’ve ejaculated many times with a soft cock while being fucked. It’s the prostate.

 

[Buttboy7869]

I hate anal.

It causes pain and injuries if too rough and a feeling that I think I need urgently go to the WC. And afterwards his tool is dirty and must be cleaned before the real fun starts.

Really not my cup of tea

Clean yourself with an enema or two before initiating anal sex it’s much cleaner.

 

[Sappho_CGN]

even simplier it is avoiding it at all.

 

[Buttboy7869]

even simplier it is avoiding it at all.

True if it’s not your preference. It’s everyone’s right to choose.

 

[Sappho_CGN]

Exactly

 

[dkak001]

Understanding the balance between being gentle and going harder can really enhance the experience for both partners. It’s all about communication and tuning into each other’s responses, right? Every woman is different, so finding what she enjoys most can lead to some amazing moments together.

Gotta ask, why does what you write 'feel' like you do this professionally? Market sex positive materials, or toys, or something???

But, yeah. Walking the line between a hard pounding and too gentile can be interesting. Not wanting to harm your partner, but wanting to use them for you pleasure is certainly an interesting dynamic. But the fear is always there of being too sore the next day. Sometimes lust wins out.

 

[Wonderer67]

I’m writing true story about the first time my wife pegged me. It was 12 yo.

With the right preparations and good communications, anal can be really enjoyable. I like it a lot. I don’t want it every day… but maybe once a month I enjoy getting pegged or being irate massaged.

My wife is a great sport. She doesn’t enjoy anal at all. But she does indulge me.

 

[Wonderer67]

The very first time my wife pegged me, I had a hands free orgasm.

At the time, I had no idea what it was. It was hot and my wife was fascinated.

It took me 10 years (and she’d maybe pegged me 50-60x since that first time) to have another one.

Those were the only two times I came from anal hands free. It’s an amazingly hot way to cum.!

 

[Fistboy]

I’ve had a few prostate orgasms, both from a dildo and my wife’s fist, and I find them less satisfying than feeling full and stretched.

 

[ZfrkS62]

I’m writing true story about the first time my wife pegged me. It was 12 yo.

With the right preparations and good communications, anal can be really enjoyable. I like it a lot. I don’t want it every day… but maybe once a month I enjoy getting pegged or being irate massaged.

My wife is a great sport. She doesn’t enjoy anal at all. But she does indulge me.

I'm hoping to reach that point. Waiting to have some success with my massagers before opening up. If she won't take it, maybe she'll give it.

 

[Lucien_Al]

The very first time my wife pegged me, I had a hands free orgasm.

At the time, I had no idea what it was. It was hot and my wife was fascinated.

It took me 10 years (and she’d maybe pegged me 50-60x since that first time) to have another one.

Those were the only two times I came from anal hands free. It’s an amazingly hot way to cum.!

I am in the same boat. Wife indulges me about once every 2 weeks. Had a prostate orgasm the first time and since then it has eluded me. I suspect we are not taking as much time on it as we did the first time.

That first time felt so good I want to experience that again.

 

[LMWM321]

If a guy knows what it feels like to receive I think they give better anal too, I'm certainly more confident with a guy who knows when to be careful and when to fuck hard or gently.

True I think... my wife pegs me regularly and giving her anal is the same process.

I'm ridiculously girthy (6 1/4" which is slightly bigger than the tube formed by bringing the ends of a dollar bill together) so anal is NOT on the menu very often. ..But when my wife does offer her ass (a few times a year) it's all about starting with her butt plug for a few minutes, then removing it and adding lots of lube to me and beginning insertion very very very slowly. She has me push in until she feels the first tinge of slight discomfort (which is almost immediately)... then I hold still until the anus stretches and the discomfort subsides. ..Then, I proceed with another 1/8" until, again, a tinge of discomfort, then wait... It takes at least 10 minutes to get past the second sphincter muscle.. The deepest she can take is 3 or 4" ..And the whole fast pumping thing you see in Porn? ..Never happens. ..It's always very slow in-and-out, with drips of add'l lube from above every few minutes.

Again... this is the very same process for when she pegs me. But it doesn't take nearly as long b/c her dildo is way less girthy.

 

[Wonderer67]

I am in the same boat. Wife indulges me about once every 2 weeks. Had a prostate orgasm the first time and since then it has eluded me. I suspect we are not taking as much time on it as we did the first time.

That first time felt so good I want to experience that again.

Funny, my wife and I are writing a story about that first time pegging and everything leading up to it. I think it was also the anticipation, the desire to finally have something that I had wanted my entire life, actually happening to me.

Not that it’s routine or anything now, but maybe just not as exciting as that first time.

I did have a hands-free orgasm from only anal one other time about three years ago. It was really hot.

 

[Lucien_Al]

Funny, my wife and I are reading a story about that first time and everything leading up to it. I think it was also the anticipation, the desire to finally have something that I had wanted my entire life, actually happening to me.

Not that it’s routine or anything now, but maybe just not as exciting as that first time.

I did have a hands-free orgasm from only anal one other time about three years ago. It was really hot.

Yes I also wondered how much of it was a genuine hands free or the anticipation of doing something for the first time.

 

[smoothboi]

I'd agree that taking it in the ass myself made me better at anal. I never said anything for a while, but over the last few girlfriends, they knew, and did anal mostly. My last gf and me were anal only.

 

[dkak001]

Funny, my wife and I are writing a story about that first time pegging and everything leading up to it.

How are you formatting the story?
Was just thinking it would be hot if you each wrote your own perspective, separately. Then published them individually, or interleaved them together into one story then published them. The alternating perspectives would be fun to read!

 

[Wonderer67]

I am sort of using the third person biography style. Sort of like a lot of music books I’ve been reading.

So I’ve been incorporating her perspectives into what I remember and recall.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I was talking to my wife about the pleasure centers in men and women. I had assumed that some men somehow get wired with a G-spot, in their rears, that women don't have because their G-spot is inside the vagina. I've seen vids where getting penetrated makes a shoot, with no other stimulation than getting banged. Debra was saying that an ass is an ass, regardless if it is male or female. I get very aroused by my male G-spot, almost to the point of ejaculation, but not quite. Do women get aroused to the point of orgasm, or assisting the pleasure from anal sex? It would be interesting to see the guys responses. I know some have their backdoors locked, regardless of sex. How do you feel about it?

I love it when it's done right. Start slow and then pound me like a whore.

It's all the guys who force their cocks in my arsehole right away before any prep.

 

[Daddyd7044]

I love it when it's done right. Start slow and then pound me like a whore.

It's all the guys who force their cocks in my arsehole right away before any prep.

I'm sure if you have any feelings for your partner, you'll start off slow. Like has been said in this thread, if you have had anal performed on you, you'll be much better at giving anal. The initial entry can be uncomfortable, till you get used to it, then, eeeh, hahhh!