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Jerseyshore said:
I first started with a sporty tomboy look that my lesbian friends thought was cute.....one said she would ask me out if I was a real lesbian, which I took as a compliment.
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I love lesbian tomboys, I had one as a partner for several years. I was welcomed as one of the girls by most of our friends -- I always felt it was a compliment. :)
 
AlexBailey said:
I love lesbian tomboys, I had one as a partner for several years. I was welcomed as one of the girls by most of our friends -- I always felt it was a compliment. :)
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Yes, I love Tommy's too. They are always the best of friends. :heart:
 
AlexBailey said:
Those would be fun to rub and pet in. :)
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I love the thought of getting cozy with another woman similarly attired... or a sissy dressed the same way... help me accept my bottom as something very sexual rather than the way I frankly see it myself.
 
SweetAnnie40 said:
I love the thought of getting cozy with another woman similarly attired... or a sissy dressed the same way... help me accept my bottom as something very sexual rather than the way I frankly see it myself.
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Trust me..... Your bottom is EXTREAMLY SEXY !!!

I can only imagine how incredible it will look in those.
 
michaelinteas said:
Trust me..... Your bottom is EXTREAMLY SEXY !!!

I can only imagine how incredible it will look in those.
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Thanks, honey. Every compliment helps me a little when looking at myself.

And I must say, your tush is pretty sexy too! of course, I'd like to have you put on my panties and then see you... ;)
 
SweetAnnie40 said:
I love the thought of getting cozy with another woman similarly attired... or a sissy dressed the same way... help me accept my bottom as something very sexual rather than the way I frankly see it myself.
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Please stop being so critical of yourself.

Most women seem to have body image issues and have no idea just how attractive they are to others. And being sexually attractive and alluring really has less to do with how you look than how comfortable you are with yourself, sex and your own sexuality. Men are far more aroused by an overtly sexual and seductive woman than they are but what you might think of as the "perfect" female form. At least I know I am. I am definitely more sexually attracted to a less than average looking woman who exudes an aura of sexuality than I am to a woman who is merely very physically attractive, or "hot" looking. And honestly, the hot looking ones probably wind up being more trouble than one wants to deal with.

I learned that the hard way.
 
SweetAnnie40 said:
I love the thought of getting cozy with another woman similarly attired... or a sissy dressed the same way... help me accept my bottom as something very sexual rather than the way I frankly see it myself.
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I’ve always admired your bottom. Very sexy indeed.
 
Delawareguy said:
Please stop being so critical of yourself.

Most women seem to have body image issues and have no idea just how attractive they are to others. And being sexually attractive and alluring really has less to do with how you look than how comfortable you are with yourself, sex and your own sexuality. Men are far more aroused by an overtly sexual and seductive woman than they are but what you might think of as the "perfect" female form. At least I know I am. I am definitely more sexually attracted to a less than average looking woman who exudes an aura of sexuality than I am to a woman who is merely very physically attractive, or "hot" looking. And honestly, the hot looking ones probably wind up being more trouble than one wants to deal with.

I learned that the hard way.
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What produces an "Aura of Sexuality" to you, if I may ask? If it isn't how we look, how do you judge?
 
I don't want to speak for Delawareguy. But for me a "Aura of Sexuality" is a combination of a attitude and emotion. No matter what a woman looks like, if she has a confident attitude sexually. And puts genuine emotion into the seduction of her man. like a certain look in her eyes from across the room she when she wants me. Or a slight touch of the arm when talking. Wearing something that reveals and teases at the same time. Or it may be something as simple as taking control sexually. Vocalizing sexual fantasies. All of those things create your Aura of sexuality.

And trust me...... YOU ooze sexuality in spades 😊
 
SweetAnnie40 said:
What produces an "Aura of Sexuality" to you, if I may ask? If it isn't how we look, how do you judge?
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Women who have this sexuality about them are the exact opposite of a prude. The come in all shapes and sizes. It has NOTHING to do with how they look. It is all about how they carry themselves and their attitude. Just as with a prude.

Only a woman who is secure with herself, her body, sex, her sexuality and with being sexual exudes this "aura". These women are comfortable with being sexual and are not afraid of being perceived as sexual. For them, sex isn't a shameful thing or something that needs to be hidden. They are well aware of how and why men are aroused and what it is about them that arouses men. They can be seductive without being overtly so. They can be seductive even without trying to be. They are not overtly sexual, nor do they need to be. They enjoy being woman and understand the sexual dynamics that exist between men and women. These are NOT women who act like sluts. Slutty women have to be slutty because they do not have this sexual aura. They need to be overtly sexual to be seen as such. The women I am talking about do not.

For me (and I think the majority of men), how physically attractive a woman is is not direct proportional to how sexually attractive she woman is. It seems most women do not understand this. Yes, men would like to be with a woman who is "attractive" and they get some sexual arousal from how she looks but that does not last for very long. I have a friend who said to me one time, "Show me a good-looking woman and I'll show you a guy who is tired of fucking her". That could not be more true. If a woman doesn't have a sexual component to her personality she will not keep a man's sexual interest, no matter how hot looking she might be.

Men do not have the desire to be sexual with a woman because of her look. It is because of her allure. Yes, looks might get a man's attention but a woman's allure will keep him aroused and wanting to be sexual with her.

I don't think I can say specifically what it is a woman has ever done, nor could I tell you what a woman could do, to cause men to see this sexual aura about them. It has to come from within the woman and only women who are comfortable with sexuality and don't see it as something that needs to be kept hidden in the bedroom are going to have it. That can't be taught, I don't believe. Much the same as being a prude can't be taught.

I will say this: No woman I have ever met who has this sexual aura has ever wondered if her ass was too big, if she needed to get a boob-job,if her eyes were the wrong color, if she was too old, too short, too fat or whatever women think is going to make them somehow more "attractive". These women know that NONE of that matters. It's all about how much they enjoy being sexual and enjoying sex has nothing to do with how someone looks.
 
To me the “aura” is hard to define, but I agree that how someone looks is quite low on the list. It would be disingenuous to say it doesn’t matter, but beauty is not objective. It’s not binary. Beauty can change in real time largely based on all the things that fall above it on that list
 
Thanks, girls! I appreciate the insights. I've definitely encountered men (and a few women) with that aura and agree that it isn't tied directly to appearance. I mean a clean appearance and thoughtfully dressed has an affect on how I perceive their personality but agree that interacting with them reveals the real aura (and how moist they make me!).

I had the opportunity to meet Bill Clinton in the 90s and daaaaamn he really has it or something. Made me flush talking to him briefly.
 
sammyIammy said:
To me the “aura” is hard to define, but I agree that how someone looks is quite low on the list. It would be disingenuous to say it doesn’t matter, but beauty is not objective. It’s not binary. Beauty can change in real time largely based on all the things that fall above it on that list
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I agree 100%. Well stated.
 
SweetAnnie40 said:
Thanks, girls! I appreciate the insights. I've definitely encountered men (and a few women) with that aura and agree that it isn't tied directly to appearance. I mean a clean appearance and thoughtfully dressed has an affect on how I perceive their personality but agree that interacting with them reveals the real aura (and how moist they make me!).

I had the opportunity to meet Bill Clinton in the 90s and daaaaamn he really has it or something. Made me flush talking to him briefly.
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Girls? I'm not a girl.
 
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