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Lynn_MXX
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There's only about 4 fetishes that I like. Disregarding those four, then THE WHOLE LOT turn me off.
More to the point, which fetishes do you like, and due to reading stories that contain the fetishes that you like, do you find the ones you don't like, if you get my drift.
Many has been the time when I've been reading a good interracial/cheating wife story, only for the author to spoil it with an anal sex chapter, or a lesbian chapter. Whereas I like the old cliché of a well endowed black man, the author will often again spoil it by making the man so huge, it spoils the realism of the story, quoting his size in inches ("he offered her his 12 inch dick"). Pah!
The same goes with stiletto heels. I love my shoes/stilettos (I have about 20 pairs), but the size of the heels quoted by the authors is often ridiculous, 4", 5", and even 6" heels. They ought to buy such heels and try walking in them! I feel the same way about skirt hem lines which are ridiculously too high and neck-lines that are ridiculously too low. The heroine of the novel going out without bra and panties also sounds silly and is an instant turn off, as are huge breasts. It's their own stories that they're spoiling.
Whereas anal sex (puke!) seems to be very popular on this site, many of you have quoted "skat" (I had to look that one up) as your prize turn off. I've never had the misfortune of encountering "skat" whilst reading the essays that this site has to offer, but then again isn't skat and anal sex more less the same thing? Too close for comfort, in my opinion!
More to the point, which fetishes do you like, and due to reading stories that contain the fetishes that you like, do you find the ones you don't like, if you get my drift.
Many has been the time when I've been reading a good interracial/cheating wife story, only for the author to spoil it with an anal sex chapter, or a lesbian chapter. Whereas I like the old cliché of a well endowed black man, the author will often again spoil it by making the man so huge, it spoils the realism of the story, quoting his size in inches ("he offered her his 12 inch dick"). Pah!
The same goes with stiletto heels. I love my shoes/stilettos (I have about 20 pairs), but the size of the heels quoted by the authors is often ridiculous, 4", 5", and even 6" heels. They ought to buy such heels and try walking in them! I feel the same way about skirt hem lines which are ridiculously too high and neck-lines that are ridiculously too low. The heroine of the novel going out without bra and panties also sounds silly and is an instant turn off, as are huge breasts. It's their own stories that they're spoiling.
Whereas anal sex (puke!) seems to be very popular on this site, many of you have quoted "skat" (I had to look that one up) as your prize turn off. I've never had the misfortune of encountering "skat" whilst reading the essays that this site has to offer, but then again isn't skat and anal sex more less the same thing? Too close for comfort, in my opinion!
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Rembrandt500
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- Smoking
- Jeans
- Lip gloss
- Verbal/physical abuse and beratement
- Fucking doggystyle
- Food during sex
- Stereotypical porn star looks
- Jeans
- Lip gloss
- Verbal/physical abuse and beratement
- Fucking doggystyle
- Food during sex
- Stereotypical porn star looks
LindsayRae
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johnmatrix0115
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I'm of two minds here - I really get off on bondage, but can't stand most of the other elements of BDSM. I can't stand "yes mistress/master" role-playing, or any sort of pain play. But just being immobilized and played with (or immobilizing Mrs. Matrix and being the player)...oh hells yes.
Rembrandt500
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This has been very frustrating to me, not to mention a huge turn-off: When guys in porn videos are being facesat/dominated by beautiful women and whining about it.
Case in point: This video (my main point can be summarized within the first 3 minutes): http://xhamster.com/movies/658145/domme_in_stockings_pussy_worship.html
If you don't feel like watching the first 3 min basically, the premise is a dude calls a masseuse (a fiery hot British masseuse, mind you) and expects a happy ending. She dislikes this proposition, so she pins him down and shoves her tits, pussy and ass into his face, then eventually removes her panties and does it again. And this dickhead is acting like it's the worst thing that has ever happened to him, and keeps whining and moaning "Nooo please let's just get on with the massage". Am I really supposed to believe this guy really hates getting facefuls of hot girl crotch this much? I know porn isn't exactly "realistic" but I can guarantee you that the minute a Goddess like her shoved her snatch into my face, I'd be on the verge of cumming in minutes and most men would wholeheartedly agree. Also, it's just so sad seeing these guys in these videos so "unhappy", I don't know about y'all but I like to see the sub having just as much fun serving as the Domme is riding his face.
For example: This video starring Mika Tan (I think that's her name): http://xhamster.com/movies/653442/wild_facesitting.html
Basically that video is 4 minutes of this gorgeous Asian Goddess (playing a boss) riding her male employee's face, and he's obviously really, really into it. Lapping and sucking furiously at her pussy, masturbating the whole time while she's fucking and slamming herself into his face over and over. THAT'S hot.
I know some might disagree with me, and that's totally fine. But personally, I like to see subs being grateful and passionate - just because you're not in charge doesn't mean you have to be passive.
By the way, I realize I may sound hypocritical considering the geisha in my av clearly isn't having a good time despite two gorgeous women sitting on him, but it's still a hot avatar.
Case in point: This video (my main point can be summarized within the first 3 minutes): http://xhamster.com/movies/658145/domme_in_stockings_pussy_worship.html
If you don't feel like watching the first 3 min basically, the premise is a dude calls a masseuse (a fiery hot British masseuse, mind you) and expects a happy ending. She dislikes this proposition, so she pins him down and shoves her tits, pussy and ass into his face, then eventually removes her panties and does it again. And this dickhead is acting like it's the worst thing that has ever happened to him, and keeps whining and moaning "Nooo please let's just get on with the massage". Am I really supposed to believe this guy really hates getting facefuls of hot girl crotch this much? I know porn isn't exactly "realistic" but I can guarantee you that the minute a Goddess like her shoved her snatch into my face, I'd be on the verge of cumming in minutes and most men would wholeheartedly agree. Also, it's just so sad seeing these guys in these videos so "unhappy", I don't know about y'all but I like to see the sub having just as much fun serving as the Domme is riding his face.
For example: This video starring Mika Tan (I think that's her name): http://xhamster.com/movies/653442/wild_facesitting.html
Basically that video is 4 minutes of this gorgeous Asian Goddess (playing a boss) riding her male employee's face, and he's obviously really, really into it. Lapping and sucking furiously at her pussy, masturbating the whole time while she's fucking and slamming herself into his face over and over. THAT'S hot.
I know some might disagree with me, and that's totally fine. But personally, I like to see subs being grateful and passionate - just because you're not in charge doesn't mean you have to be passive.
By the way, I realize I may sound hypocritical considering the geisha in my av clearly isn't having a good time despite two gorgeous women sitting on him, but it's still a hot avatar.
vixtoria57
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ugh-- i really don't get spitting...at ALL
or the cum swap between mouths
srsly when the porno gets to that point i need to run and make sure i skip it or i'll puke
also...so much porn nowadays just seems to be so boring when it comes down to it...i mean how many times can you watch monotonous pumping of the same shot?? it seems some vintage porn (60's/70's) has a lot more seduction/tease
i do like incest lit for fantasy, but not roleplay or for realz...also, no mother/son for me...that creeps me out because i have two boys
i dont like anal...i have a lot of friends who love it who are trying to turn me around on it but i just can't get past the poo part
and that goes for all bodily fluids such as pee, blood, etc.
no humiliation or pain
and no furries
and ahaha kopilot...I feel the same way about abs: when did that become such a thing?
ETA: Oh to Lynn Mxx...i totally can walk on heels 4 -5 inches really well....6 inches I wouldn't dare...but I'm also 5' 11' so that would make me...hell, i can't do the math
however, as much as a like to wear them and feel sexy...i do not want them on during sex
or the cum swap between mouths
srsly when the porno gets to that point i need to run and make sure i skip it or i'll puke
also...so much porn nowadays just seems to be so boring when it comes down to it...i mean how many times can you watch monotonous pumping of the same shot?? it seems some vintage porn (60's/70's) has a lot more seduction/tease
i do like incest lit for fantasy, but not roleplay or for realz...also, no mother/son for me...that creeps me out because i have two boys
i dont like anal...i have a lot of friends who love it who are trying to turn me around on it but i just can't get past the poo part
and that goes for all bodily fluids such as pee, blood, etc.
no humiliation or pain
and no furries
and ahaha kopilot...I feel the same way about abs: when did that become such a thing?
ETA: Oh to Lynn Mxx...i totally can walk on heels 4 -5 inches really well....6 inches I wouldn't dare...but I'm also 5' 11' so that would make me...hell, i can't do the math
however, as much as a like to wear them and feel sexy...i do not want them on during sex
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SydneyBlake
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A long, long time ago, in a previous life, I was role-playing online with a man, and everything was going along, kind of fun, then getting a little kinky, and then he says he wants to, uh, pee, well, you know where. And I kind of like thought, "WTF???" Totally fucking bizarre.
There are other things that just don't work for me IRL, even though I joke about them here, but that one just fucking blew my hat into the creek. A dry creek, btw.
There are other things that just don't work for me IRL, even though I joke about them here, but that one just fucking blew my hat into the creek. A dry creek, btw.
marieR19
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There are a LOT of things already mentioned in this thread that I agree with, that totally do nothing for me. Parent/child roleplay, scat/piss, super-skinny "perfect" figures, medical stuff (seriously? I mean, I know *I* don't get turned on when sitting on those cold examine tables waiting for a stranger to look at my body!), etc...
I've never really thought about it, but smoking would probably be a big turn-off too. It seems interesting in porn videos, especially the whole "blowing smoke in someone's face" thing, but in reality I *hate* the smell of smoke (grew up with it), and it would probably instantly turn me off.
What else? The whole teacher/student thing. I can appreciate a hot teacher, but do I want to roleplay that? Definitely not. And maybe it's simply because all of the teachers I've had in my life, I really look up to and respect in a role-model type of way. Definitely not in a sex-way. *shudders*
I'm okay with the *thought* of incest in general, like reading stories about it, but when those thoughts turn to my own family... *shudders*
I've never really thought about it, but smoking would probably be a big turn-off too. It seems interesting in porn videos, especially the whole "blowing smoke in someone's face" thing, but in reality I *hate* the smell of smoke (grew up with it), and it would probably instantly turn me off.
What else? The whole teacher/student thing. I can appreciate a hot teacher, but do I want to roleplay that? Definitely not. And maybe it's simply because all of the teachers I've had in my life, I really look up to and respect in a role-model type of way. Definitely not in a sex-way. *shudders*
I'm okay with the *thought* of incest in general, like reading stories about it, but when those thoughts turn to my own family... *shudders*
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I try to write about most fetishes, including ones that have no appeal for me or actually turn me off.
The only one I haven't yet managed to complete a story about is Sweaty South Indian Women's Armpits. There are several adult Yahoo Groups about Indian Women's Armpits with tens of thousands of members so there is a following for that fetish, but writing a specific armpit story is beyond me - so far.
If I do post the final result on Literotica, if I ever finish it, I'm sure the votes and comments will be adverse.
The only one I haven't yet managed to complete a story about is Sweaty South Indian Women's Armpits. There are several adult Yahoo Groups about Indian Women's Armpits with tens of thousands of members so there is a following for that fetish, but writing a specific armpit story is beyond me - so far.
If I do post the final result on Literotica, if I ever finish it, I'm sure the votes and comments will be adverse.
I kind of agree with you, I am not TOO much into Catholic schoolgirls, but that depends on exactly how they are dressed.
Me too, I try to BROADEN my horizons, so to speak, too.
Rembrandt500
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Gladly.
I find a cute pair of feet to be very attractive, but that's beside the point because more than anything I LOVE the smell and taste of them, esp. after a woman's been out running or working and getting them all sweaty and smelly. A hot stinky pair of women's feet in my face is an instant turn-on, my friend.
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agree 100%
Dan and Jenny
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it's so hard to say for sure what things do and do not turn me on. Usually it is HIGHLY dependent on my partner. If it makes him/her go wild, and you can just see..the hunger and lust from it.. chances are i'll get turned on. Even if it wasn't something i had previously thought about as 'sexy'
I guess if i had to pick limits on what I wouldn't do or like for sure, I'd pick SCAT. Even tho I've never tried it, i'm pretty sure no matter how turned on they'd get, i'd not only be not into , but feeling queasy to my stomache as well. And I've seen some that do the whole throwing up thing in a sexual way? maybe share it... this, this i could not do either, i'd be so sick from it.
I guess if i had to pick limits on what I wouldn't do or like for sure, I'd pick SCAT. Even tho I've never tried it, i'm pretty sure no matter how turned on they'd get, i'd not only be not into , but feeling queasy to my stomache as well. And I've seen some that do the whole throwing up thing in a sexual way? maybe share it... this, this i could not do either, i'd be so sick from it.
Non-consent stories bug me. There's nothing sexy about rape. It's even worse when the victim starts to enjoy it.
I have no problem with incest fantasies (as long as my actual family stays outta them), but even as unrealistic as stories often are I find it hard to believe that close relatives would fall for each other so easily. If they were separated in childhood or something, maybe it'd work.
Also, the usual racist tropes (big black cocks/submissive Asian girls) can gtfo.
I have no problem with incest fantasies (as long as my actual family stays outta them), but even as unrealistic as stories often are I find it hard to believe that close relatives would fall for each other so easily. If they were separated in childhood or something, maybe it'd work.
Also, the usual racist tropes (big black cocks/submissive Asian girls) can gtfo.
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