Anybody for cuckolding . . . ?

[jennylikes]

Cuckolding was where a guy (called a bull) took sexual control of a (married) woman away from her man and humiliated him in front of her.

Her attraction to the bull overcame her loyalty to the man, made her get the man to submit to the bull (and her), and overcame her resistance to kink. The bull dominated both man and woman, the woman dominated the man, and both humiliated the man verbally and physically.

For example, the bull would tie the man and make him watch the bull screw the woman who would praise the bull's ability over the man's. The bull would release the man and order him to lick the bull's cum from her, and then the woman would make the man suck off the bull in preparation for another round of sex.

The bull would also dictate the terms of sex between the man an woman, for example requiring the man to call for permission to fuck the woman, and require the woman to stay instantly at the bull's beck and call.

In an extreme case, the bull would get the woman pregnant and make the couple raise the child as their own. Bulls are also known to bring friends to join him fucking the woman, and for a bi-sexual bulls to fuck the man.

The bull frequently has a stable of women, the idea being that he is a true alpha man to whom women naturally acquiesce. Rarely, the (married) woman will divorce to marry the bull, sometimes keeping the ex around for sex.

Wow! This seems to be referring to what is perhaps a more accurate definition of ‘cuckolding’. It also seems to be more of a lifestyle choice which is real kink and probably beyond the resources of most people to sustain, even if they wanted to. Although the activities might be exciting at the time I’m not sure how it would work out in the long term, especially regarding bringing up the bull’s children. But then maybe I’m just far too vanilla and like taking my sexual pleasures without too much responsibility.

Without wanting to appear academic about this, but looking more closely at the dictionary definition of cuckolding, it would seem that the act of cuckolding is as much to do with the female as the male:

“The female of some Old World cuckoos lays its eggs in the nests of other birds, leaving them to be cared for by the resident nesters. This parasitic tendency has given the female bird a figurative reputation for unfaithfulness as well. It is a term used to designate a husband whose wife has wandered afield like the female cuckoo.”

Perhaps what is being referred to in this thread is not cuckolding after all but could perhaps be described as swinging - people who get sexually aroused watching their partners - male and female - have a good sexy time with other people, and then enjoy themselves together afterwards. I’ll settle for this.

 

[jennylikes]

I agree there is nothing humiliating about cockolding. My hubby loves to watch me being fucked by another guy, but then these usually turn into quite erotic threesomes anyway. As I have said in my posts many times, a couple only ought to do this if they are really secure with each other, its a disaster if the relationship isn't strong. But if, like me, you like sexual variety, i enjoy a new cock every now and again and hubby (don't they all) loves to watch me.

Linda, I really envy your situation! This is similar to how it was for me until relatively recently and I'm finding it really difficult living without it. Loved visiting your home page - I recommend this to all Lit readers!