Anyone else having sex with a married person...?

20 odd years ago. I was also in a relationship at the time. She and I hit it off one night after work. She went to the restroom in a bar to finger herself and when she came back I sucked her finger. God it was awesome. We had a relationship for over a year. Best sex I have ever had. I think partly because we both wanted to be with our respective partners but mostly because we shared all our fantasies.
 
I don’t have anyone in my life to talk to about this predicament I have found myself in. Over the past 2 years I have developed a friendship with a guy at my former job. He was married and we always kept it professional, talked about my son, my (now) ex, his kids, our families, work, food, other random things, etc.... neither of us crossed any lines nor did I get a feeling he had any ulterior motives. When he confided in me about the issues that he had with his wife, I offered limited but friendly advice, there were even times that I took her position and stood up for her in some cases. As he began to tell me more about their issues, I was neutral in any advice I would offer upon request but as it got worse, I kind of backed off because I didn’t think that he should be taking advice from me because I didn’t have both sides of the story and I have never been married so anything I said really was hypothetical. He ended up moving out and prepared to separate for a divorce.

A few months ago I left the job we both worked at but we maintained a friendship. Long story short, we ended up having sex. Not just any sex, mind blowing amazing sex. He can eat me out forever, pussy and ass. He enjoys anal sex as much as I do (a lot). I came with him every time except once which is a stark difference from my ex who I was with for 5 years and still had sex with for 2 years after and only came maybe twice (I know that is horrible but I loved him and tried to work with him).

I knew his separation was new and he could reconcile with his wife and I told him this and made it clear that I want the best for him and his family and do what he needed to do. He was adamant that wouldn’t happen but I didn’t have my heart set on anything but amazing sex.

Sure enough, she cries to him about not really wanting a divorce and I encourage him to try for his family. I expected this and the only thing that was really upsetting was that we would have to stop hooking up. The problem is that neither of us want to or made any attempt to try to stop. Initially we both felt kinda bad but now, no guilt whatsoever. We actually actively find ways to meet. The sex is like no sex I’ve ever had. He makes me cum from penetration, oral, fingers, anal.... he makes me squirt constantly, which up until him I’ve only done once. I get wet just sucking his dick.

I am not looking for judgement or advice really, I guess I am trying to see if there is anyone else in my situation....
No stranger to a good fucking FWB
 
Where do these married trysts happen?

My relationship is open but I won't bring anyone home.

I don't care if another married partner has their spouse's blessing or not, but their marriage mostly rules out going to their house too.

What do people in this situation do, what are your places?
The last time I met up with my married friend it was the back of his SUV.

He found an inactive utilities building with a clearing behind it and woods all around. The car is obscured from the road by the building.

Hatch open, pillow over the latch, blanket spread out.
Me on my back, at the edge, legs up with feet on the hatch trim.
Him standing outside fucking me hard.

We sit on the back, blanket around us (it was February in NJ), and talked for about 25 minutes before he was out of time.

We used to meet in a park. Early morning blowjobs in parking lot.
A few times at night on secluded picnic tables.
Loved it until a cop told us the park was closed at dusk.

Told us we could finish our conversation before leaving.
I am 58, he is 51.
Sexless marriage for 13 years.
 
Most of my affairs have been with married men. They are the best…usually sex starved and very willing to satisfy me. I hear the same story from all of them, lack of sex, vanilla sex, no oral sex, the list goes on. I prefer married men for many reasons…they are not demanding, they don’t want to run off with me, all they want is sex. No relationship issues, no dates, etc…just good old passionate animal sex.
 
Where do these married trysts happen?

My relationship is open but I won't bring anyone home.

I don't care if another married partner has their spouse's blessing or not, but their marriage mostly rules out going to their house too.

What do people in this situation do, what are your places?
My wife and her current boyfriend use our marital bed for their sex. With my full approval. It’s given me the opportunity to watch them!

All of her past single lovers fucked her in their beds. And her one married lover took her to a hotel.
 
Most of my affairs have been with married men. They are the best…usually sex starved and very willing to satisfy me. I hear the same story from all of them, lack of sex, vanilla sex, no oral sex, the list goes on. I prefer married men for many reasons…they are not demanding, they don’t want to run off with me, all they want is sex. No relationship issues, no dates, etc…just good old passionate animal sex.
I have lots of free time. Wear those boots for me
 
Have 3 times not knowing it as the 3 ladies lied to me. two only did that one time, The other fucked for years

Amazing how many women don't mention they're married isn't it?

One had me in her bed, after meeting for drinks. Only after her bedding and mattress resembled a wet sticky sponge did she allude to her husband being away.
 
Amazing how many women don't mention they're married isn't it?

One had me in her bed, after meeting for drinks. Only after her bedding and mattress resembled a wet sticky sponge did she allude to her husband being away.
Yeah The one I had fucked several times before I found out
 
Most of my affairs have been with married men. They are the best…usually sex starved and very willing to satisfy me. I hear the same story from all of them, lack of sex, vanilla sex, no oral sex, the list goes on. I prefer married men for many reasons…they are not demanding, they don’t want to run off with me, all they want is sex. No relationship issues, no dates, etc…just good old passionate animal sex.
I agree. I would prefer that all my wife’s lovers be married men. For many of the reasons you listed. They would only be interested in her for the sex. They can tell their wives that he and Ihave become friends. And they're coming over to our place to have a beer and watch the game. But he’s actually screwing my wife in the bedroom.
 
My wife is a married woman but, sadly, we don't have sex ( long, boring story, let's not go there)
 
All of my lovers knew I was married long before we were in bed together.
Guessing it didn't deter him/her?

Last fwb I had, knew I was in a monogamous relationship, and openly admitted that for her it was safer to fuck a guy who didn't want anything..
 
I tell all of my men Im married right from the start…men don’t care, they actually prefer that Im married…less hassle, no pampering,…it’s just about the sex. I had a fling with a divorced guy years ago, it lasted 5 years…then he began asking me to leave my marriage and things got complicated. So from then on it was only married men …especially if they are happily married…lol
 
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