Anyone Ever Videoed A Session Of Chastisement?

Yes, but because we are on-line the vids are of me carrying out my own physical disciplining, (chastisements?) punishments. I tend to be forgetful and I have a smart mouth and blurt things out before taking the time to think about what I am going to say.
My Dominant gives me specific detailed instructions on how he wants them done. He has me video them and send them to him. He watches them and critiques them, if they are not up to his expectations, then I am given further discipline, and do another one.
But he only has me do it when he doesn't have the time to stay watch me carry them out on cam for him right then. Some can take awhile to complete.
(ya I know it's sad, not like the same thing at all, in real life, but it is the way things have to be at the moment)

He would never use them for a deterrent, to make sure my mistakes are not repeated . Because both of us believe that you can't consider it a punishment if it doesn't change the unacceptable behavior. So he would not use those vids in that manner. Though he might decide to use them for humiliation purposes.
Quote wikipika dictionary
{ In psychology,
punishment is the reduction of a behavior via a stimulus which is applied
("positive punishment") or removed ("negative punishment").
The definition requires that punishment is only determined after the fact
by the reduction of the unwanted behavior
only then can it be considered punishment.
 
My husband is very into making video/taking pictures of me being punished/caned/bondage/electro or whatever else is happening.

I like taking part in them and I also really like watching videos of me being punished as I can relive the moment and also experience the dynamic that was taking place between those involved from a wholly different viewpoint :cool:
 
Taping it, or showing the tape to others? Or both? Which more?

Not the taping of it, as it was just She and I. It was the showing it to others that pissed me off and hurt me. To know I fucked up badly enough to warrant serious physical punishment was enough. Even the taping of it was a bit more than I thought needed. But when She showed my correction to others as a bit of an object lesson...well the humiliation was not a good thing and caused untold damage to our relationship in the trust area.

Since I never seriously considered myself much of a submissive and more of a maso bottom, well that was one of the final nails in the coffin of our relationship. I can only assume that other people who are wired differently would get the humiliation aspect of this and find it a turn on. I just didn't.
 
Not the taping of it, as it was just She and I. It was the showing it to others that pissed me off and hurt me. To know I fucked up badly enough to warrant serious physical punishment was enough. Even the taping of it was a bit more than I thought needed. But when She showed my correction to others as a bit of an object lesson...well the humiliation was not a good thing and caused untold damage to our relationship in the trust area.

Since I never seriously considered myself much of a submissive and more of a maso bottom, well that was one of the final nails in the coffin of our relationship. I can only assume that other people who are wired differently would get the humiliation aspect of this and find it a turn on. I just didn't.

I'm heavily into humiliation, but I wouldn't want anyone else seeing chastisement. My own emotions are too "on display" then.
 
It's one of those tailored approach things. For those such as have posted here that talk about how they beat themselves up for their mistakes, I wouldn't go into that sort of thing. For that mindset, punishment is more something I'd view as an absolution- 'mistake made, mistake paid for, move on'.

And then, someone who is so lacking in perspective and introspection as to not have some sort of guilt response to transgressions wouldn't be someone I'd probably get involved with.

So while I could see an erotic side to it, as an actual training tool it wouldn't be for me.

Besides, I'm just too hands-on.
 
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