I mentioned this to him and he turned to putty in my hands. This in on our List of Things to Do.
Applying pain to a cock
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I mentioned this to him and he turned to putty in my hands. This in on our List of Things to Do.
SpencerAlanMacLeod
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Ruined Orgasm and Post Orgasm Torment
Well, since you asked...
And once you have taken a long time tormenting him in other ways...
What I am both aroused by and appalled at is this.
1. Tied so I have some room to jerk around in yet cannot get out of.
2. Masturbated to the brink of orgasm repeatedly but NOT allowed to orgasm.
(My Wife inserts other painful torments here.)
3. When She finally brings me off...She stops touching me until the orgasm has subsided.
4. Once the orgasm has finished but before I can deflate: She MASTURBATES me some more.
(She has to be careful not to stroke me to hard as I'm VERY sensitive.)
Here is a description:
http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=457107
Spence
Well, since you asked...
And once you have taken a long time tormenting him in other ways...
What I am both aroused by and appalled at is this.
1. Tied so I have some room to jerk around in yet cannot get out of.
2. Masturbated to the brink of orgasm repeatedly but NOT allowed to orgasm.
(My Wife inserts other painful torments here.)
3. When She finally brings me off...She stops touching me until the orgasm has subsided.
4. Once the orgasm has finished but before I can deflate: She MASTURBATES me some more.
(She has to be careful not to stroke me to hard as I'm VERY sensitive.)
Here is a description:
http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=457107
Spence
SpencerAlanMacLeod
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Thank you Luvinit,
While I enjoy being on the receiving end of this game, I enjoy dishing it out too.
Two other things that I also enjoy while I'm involved (either way) are this:
1. The sub is ordered to make 'No Noise'. Of course, the Top then does their best to arouse and enslave the sub who, in a fit of passion, makes noises for which they must be stroked after climax, as punishment.
As an alternative to the first one; the second one can be used too.
2. The Top tells the bottom to 'Be Strong' and to 'Hold On', as their climax nears.
The trick here is to have the sub express their overwhelming desire to climax through pants and groans (as though lifting heavy weights) without being dramatic.
Then, as the sub climaxes, he (she) is encouraged to come.
But after the climax has been achieved and while the sub is still sensitive, the Top commends the sub for their great climax and as a REWARD, they (the sub) must be stroked, repeatedly.
The Top will know if they have done it right becuase the sub will be most reluctant to receive any strokes after a climax (it's just too intense).
It reads as a little awkward but having done it (from both ends), if the Top knows their business and is attentive to the sub, it is easy, exciting and HOT!
(Well, it is for me, anyway.)
Spence
p.s. I cannot emphasis too strongly that the bonds used must be both firm to hold the sub in one place yet give the sub room to jerk about. Jerk room and attentiveness are absolutely vital here.
While I enjoy being on the receiving end of this game, I enjoy dishing it out too.
Two other things that I also enjoy while I'm involved (either way) are this:
1. The sub is ordered to make 'No Noise'. Of course, the Top then does their best to arouse and enslave the sub who, in a fit of passion, makes noises for which they must be stroked after climax, as punishment.
As an alternative to the first one; the second one can be used too.
2. The Top tells the bottom to 'Be Strong' and to 'Hold On', as their climax nears.
The trick here is to have the sub express their overwhelming desire to climax through pants and groans (as though lifting heavy weights) without being dramatic.
Then, as the sub climaxes, he (she) is encouraged to come.
But after the climax has been achieved and while the sub is still sensitive, the Top commends the sub for their great climax and as a REWARD, they (the sub) must be stroked, repeatedly.
The Top will know if they have done it right becuase the sub will be most reluctant to receive any strokes after a climax (it's just too intense).
It reads as a little awkward but having done it (from both ends), if the Top knows their business and is attentive to the sub, it is easy, exciting and HOT!
(Well, it is for me, anyway.)
Spence
p.s. I cannot emphasis too strongly that the bonds used must be both firm to hold the sub in one place yet give the sub room to jerk about. Jerk room and attentiveness are absolutely vital here.
SpencerAlanMacLeod
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Hey Luvinit,
You said you were new to the pain game…
So I believe I’m going to offer two more pieces of advice.
One is ‘Safe-Words’; the first time I submitted to ‘Post-Orgasm-Torment’ I did not have any. I was just very lucky it didn’t end badly.
Here is a link to a description of that event (and yes, my memory is a bit cloudy on that night;-)
http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=315274
The second is ‘Feather-Light-Touch’. After I come, all my sensitivity returns in a rush and the touch I didn’t feel when I was aroused is now way, way too much.
Spence
You said you were new to the pain game…
So I believe I’m going to offer two more pieces of advice.
One is ‘Safe-Words’; the first time I submitted to ‘Post-Orgasm-Torment’ I did not have any. I was just very lucky it didn’t end badly.
Here is a link to a description of that event (and yes, my memory is a bit cloudy on that night;-)
http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=315274
The second is ‘Feather-Light-Touch’. After I come, all my sensitivity returns in a rush and the touch I didn’t feel when I was aroused is now way, way too much.
Spence
As has been pointed out, it's the layering of pain/pleasure that really thrills.
Wooden spoons with long handles can be excellent for ball spanking. Start very easy with taps and if it is enjoyable, increase intensity. Done right, ya can turn the sack pink/red and extremely sensitive. Give it a lick or two...wetting it...and start again. Same thing can be done with a leather slapper or a cat-o-nine-tails. Start easy and progress.
Balls can be bound by looping cord or stretchable tubing around them. This causes them to "stand out" and makes them an easier target. Bind his cock to his belly and then bind his nuts so they stand out.
A word of caution...bound testicles must be released every 10-15 minutes or so to maintain circulation.
Sounding can be incredibly erotic (insertion into the urethra) and produces amazing orgasms IF people are into it. This requires sterile play and anyone interested should get educated before attempting.
So many options...so little time. Enjoy.
Wooden spoons with long handles can be excellent for ball spanking. Start very easy with taps and if it is enjoyable, increase intensity. Done right, ya can turn the sack pink/red and extremely sensitive. Give it a lick or two...wetting it...and start again. Same thing can be done with a leather slapper or a cat-o-nine-tails. Start easy and progress.
Balls can be bound by looping cord or stretchable tubing around them. This causes them to "stand out" and makes them an easier target. Bind his cock to his belly and then bind his nuts so they stand out.
A word of caution...bound testicles must be released every 10-15 minutes or so to maintain circulation.
Sounding can be incredibly erotic (insertion into the urethra) and produces amazing orgasms IF people are into it. This requires sterile play and anyone interested should get educated before attempting.
So many options...so little time. Enjoy.
Insertions
Have you considered inserting things down his pee hole? I've had mine stretched a little over time, from things like chopsticks and cocktail stirrers. One of my favourites is having a Chuppa Chup pushed all the way inside me then eaten away. It makes me the stick and I always end up getting some nips and nibbles in the process.
Have you considered inserting things down his pee hole? I've had mine stretched a little over time, from things like chopsticks and cocktail stirrers. One of my favourites is having a Chuppa Chup pushed all the way inside me then eaten away. It makes me the stick and I always end up getting some nips and nibbles in the process.
Lizzie_Borden
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Lollipop
It sure does, but as nice as the licks are... it's when I get caught between the teeth that I squeal with excitement.
...just have to make sure that my whole tip doesn't get bitten off...
Really adds something to the phrase 'lick it like it's a lillipop'
It sure does, but as nice as the licks are... it's when I get caught between the teeth that I squeal with excitement.
...just have to make sure that my whole tip doesn't get bitten off...
Dearelliot
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When we were younger maybe 40ish...my wife would perform oral and start to chew on it and soon if she had a few glasses of wine she would chew quite hard..Id ask her to stop but she would say..not now maybe later...and chew even harder..The cock would be sore and have a few areas where the flesh was raw from being chewed but she would keep doing it until I came...The cock was always very sore the next day...
mwcntx4fun
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My better half LOVES to apply pain to my cock and balls....her favorite tool by far is her teeth. It excites her, and it can goe from simply being intensely stimulating to having her bite me so deep I go limp....and she has to suck it hard again (such a 'chore' for both of us haha).
We've also used a stainless steel sound, a Whartenberg wheel, and the strings from her bikini top. She tied my cock and balls with it, and provided an intense but painful orgasm.
She also enjoys using a cock leash, and simply grabbing my balls or cock leading me around, forcing me to sit, etc. by pressure. A thin leather strap, crop or belt can be nice, and the latex rubber whips/floggers are seriously good stuff.
We switch, so we both frequently say "paybacks are hell"!
My better half LOVES to apply pain to my cock and balls....her favorite tool by far is her teeth. It excites her, and it can goe from simply being intensely stimulating to having her bite me so deep I go limp....and she has to suck it hard again (such a 'chore' for both of us haha).
We've also used a stainless steel sound, a Whartenberg wheel, and the strings from her bikini top. She tied my cock and balls with it, and provided an intense but painful orgasm.
She also enjoys using a cock leash, and simply grabbing my balls or cock leading me around, forcing me to sit, etc. by pressure. A thin leather strap, crop or belt can be nice, and the latex rubber whips/floggers are seriously good stuff.
We switch, so we both frequently say "paybacks are hell"!
He is teaching me what he likes. Chewing on it, from biting hard just behind the glans, to stuffing the cock along my cheek and chewing lustily with my molars, is very exciting to him. I love it when he cries out and I can apply even more pressure and he still won't use his safe word.
I tried biting hard with my teeth just behind the glans then shoved my tongue as far down his hole as I could. This was great for him and the idea of sounding is a good one. I have a feeling he's probably tried this on himself, but never with a partner.
Tonight I told him I was hungry and he needed to feed me. I gave him 60 seconds to bring himself to orgasm and thus fill my mouth with his cum. I think it took all of 12 seconds. He's becoming very well trained.
I tried biting hard with my teeth just behind the glans then shoved my tongue as far down his hole as I could. This was great for him and the idea of sounding is a good one. I have a feeling he's probably tried this on himself, but never with a partner.
Tonight I told him I was hungry and he needed to feed me. I gave him 60 seconds to bring himself to orgasm and thus fill my mouth with his cum. I think it took all of 12 seconds. He's becoming very well trained.
Dearelliot
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I love it when she puts on lipstick while I watch and discusses her mouth...asking do you like my mouth would you like to fXXK it...?and she knows I am totally addicted and unable to say no...she takes her time asking me about her mouth and telling me "But I will bite down very hard...you know that dont you?" I love the verbal exchange as part of the ritual...and in the end she knows I cant resist putting it in her mouth regardless of the pain...and the lipstick is all over me.
