Are there any true lesbians on this board ?

[Nirvanadragones]

sorry to everyone i was just being a bitch again,SORRY chun-gong it's just in some ways you remind me of myself in my younger days, things i did with men with permission from a past mistress.Things i want to forget. I struggle everyday tying to be a good lesbian, because i truly love wimmin, they are the joy and the pain.I wish i could stop being a dirty whore------Irene

I am trying so incredible hard not to respond to this, but I am going to...

You struggle every day trying to be a good lesbian? What is a " good lesbian"? Would it not be more rewarding to strive to be a good person? Is sexuality not merely a part of who you are? Obviously an important part, but does it define you?

I love women too, and I identify as lesbian, yet, I am struggeling with understanding what you are trying to convey by your posts...

Am I missing the point?

 

[spintye2]

tribal..how could you be a "good" lesbian if you have fucked a guy before.

 

[spintye2]

What is a "good" lesbian? Is it that you cook good? lol

 

[BitterIchor]

Hahaha. Priceless.

 

[tribalwomon]

I'm sorry i will try to be quiet now........Irene

 

[Samandiriel]

I'm sorry i will try to be quiet now........Irene

No sweetie, just be yourself. Labels are dangerous.

 

[annecinva]

yes there are!

Hi I am new here and found this thread! Count me in as one of the outed! Anne

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

i'm half a lesbian does that count

 

[Anniejustagirl]

I'm a dyke... and true blue even.....

 

[PredatorSmile]

I surrendered my lesbian card a long time ago....I fell in love with a boy...who likes both boys and girls....and now, I'm crazy about him. Hell, I even gave up the booty, which is something I once swore I'd never do.
Isn't love grand ?

 

[Xectxny19X]

no labels for me. I do like girls.

 

[SophiaY]

When labels are used as shorthand, without having to think, then they are bad.

However, when they are used as a badge of pride, or courage...that is something good.

 

[mlady]

whOOHOoohoo ~

totally new to this forum and i am proud to say i am a lesBIan.

i also think of myself as queer.

i look forward to posting some of my stuff.

question however, how long can a poem be?

some of my stuff is.


thanks

 

[Anniejustagirl]

However, when they are used as a badge of pride, or courage...that is something good.

Love this!!!!!

 

[CharleyH]

I have been lurking here for awhile, i am a lesbian, have always been, always will. Am i correct in my assumption that everyone is bisexual. And what is the deal with this Chun-gong character, is she role-playing? What about the womon she was supposedly involved with ? I am getting a little confuse here.------Irene

I think everyone is in truth bi-natured, what is your definition of a "true" lesbian, TW? Can we go from there in this discussion?

 

[SophiaY]

I think everyone is in truth bi-natured, what is your definition of a "true" lesbian, TW? Can we go from there in this discussion?

I disagree. While many feel, and sometimes act, on attractions to same/other genders, quite a few of us don't. Call it biological, chemical, or psychological -- the idea just doesn't entertain.

Now, if you're talking about being attracted to the masculine or feminine aspects of a person non specific to gender, there might be some truth to that. But attitude and physicality are only separable to a certain degree.

(laughing -- channeling my college years)

 

[Queersetti]

I am sorry i was honest, i forgot i was in la-la land. I really don't belong on this site.This is cyberworld not reality, nothing is real here. I am just a black lesbian femme who believes in wimminspirit and wimmin only space. I am very ashamed for lurking on this site, for wasting my time. There is nothing i can learn here. And i will continue to spell womon the feminist way!------Irene

This is not "wimmin" space, so if that is what you are seeking, perhaps you are correct that you don't belong here.

This forum is open to anyone.

 

[SweetCherry]

Labels can suck sometimes. I ain't striaght. I've jumped men. Now I'm quite fond of women and have no desire for cock. So, someone else try and figure out what that makes me, if they want to. I just know I'm happy, and that's all that matters to me. *shrugs*

 

[Etoile]

sorry to everyone i was just being a bitch again,SORRY chun-gong it's just in some ways you remind me of myself in my younger days, things i did with men with permission from a past mistress.Things i want to forget. I struggle everyday tying to be a good lesbian, because i truly love wimmin, they are the joy and the pain.I wish i could stop being a dirty whore------Irene

Well, at least you realize you were being a bitch. It was directed to ALL the women on this board, though, not just chun-gong. Everybody here knows I am usually unfailingly nice, but I also don't mind calling people out. A lot of the implications you made were downright bullshit - I don't even know where to begin. This thread ticks me off in a lot of ways, let's just leave it at that. http://www.amanita.net/images/smilies/arg.gif

 

[apple_pi]

What is a “true” lesbian?

I think of myself as a lesbian. But I was married to a male. I think I was trying to be straight, or at least thinking I was bi. The marriage didn’t work for reasons beyond sex. Since my divorce I have felt like a lesbian. I think during my marriage I would have called myself bi.
I have no interest in having sex with males, except maybe with Paul Newman…lol
I had several sexual relationships with women when in college. Was I a lesbian then?

I wonder if being a lesbian, or bi, or straight, is just a state of mind. If you feel like a lesbian call yourself a lesbian, does that make you a lesbian. I currently have a girlfriend, that we started a relationship with a short time ago. I wonder was I a lesbian before I was with her?

Labels tend to be pretty tricky. I am not concerned too much with what people call me. I suppose to some I am bi, others just promiscuous, oh well..

 

[tribalwomon]

Please enough

Let it die i said i was sorry......................So i am a bitch so what , let it DIE

 

[Roxanne Appleby]

Let it die i said i was sorry

That makes you a pretty big woman in my book.

 

[Etoile]

Let it die i said i was sorry......................So i am a bitch so what , let it DIE

This is a discussion board. People come here to discuss things. One of those things is "what is a 'true' lesbian?" If this thread keeps going, it isn't necessarily directed at you - we're just chatting about it. So don't worry so much.

 

[Etoile]

I wonder if being a lesbian, or bi, or straight, is just a state of mind. If you feel like a lesbian call yourself a lesbian, does that make you a lesbian.

Yep yep! Very well said.

 

[apple_pi]

Let it die i said i was sorry......................So i am a bitch so what , let it DIE

I think some good come out of this. It made me think. What is a lesbian? That was not a rhetorical question. I would love to see a thread that would give us pause for thought.

What makes a lesbian? I have a young friend that has yet to have a sexual relationship with a woman, or a man, she is a virgin. She believe she is a lesbian. Her sexual yearnings are for women. Yet she has been told that she can't be a lesbian until she has sex with a woman. Pretty silly huh.

I guess I think about this more than I should, but what makes a lesbian? I think it is a state of mind. But I would welcome an open discussion.