Ask help_me_Rhonda anything!

How do I help my friend Taegul get more pm’s? Men have it harder than women and I want to be the best wingwoman I can be.
 
I think I've been question blocked ...or just outright ignored. heh
 
Dear Rhonda

I have a secret crush on a woman, and she doesn't know it. I wasn't supposed to know her name, but I found out by accident.
Do you think I should tell this woman that I found out her name is ****.
I think she might want to know how I found out, so that she can conceal her identity.
What do you think?
Should I tell her?

Okay, I'm out.
Everybody, say thanks to Skowt.
 
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Surely just a block would do....

Eh...she's far and away my favorite litster posting here. That post creeped her out because it had info posted on the public forum that she clearly didn't want posted. I can't blame her for reacting. I DO hope she ends up coming back at some point, but this is supposed to be fun, not something that causes such a bad feeling.

Our loss for sure. :(
 
Lame, I know, but brand new to literotica. 39, M, Professor...crash course on how to get up and running? :)
 
Here we go again. Another moron who fucks it up for those here for some good clean respectful fun.

I’m sorry Rhonda it should happen to you. I hope he holds his head in shame and removes himself from this site and disappears up his own arse.
 
Some things just don't make sense to me about all this...

I'm thinking, this skowt must be someone that lives by Rhonda and/or knows her, because I haven't seen any of her pictures that post her real name in the file name. So how else did skowt know her real first name? Some people do that, and then forget to change it before posting their picture publicly. Either that or this skowt is a hacker. Either case would make even me think of leaving.

Don't get me wrong, it's a real dick manuever to post someone's private info publicly. I don't even like it when people repost your pictures, even if you're posting them.

I mean, it's a relatively fast and hidden process to have someone's post edited out that displays your private info. It could have been done with no one the wiser, but it wasn't.

This skowt didn't say "here's rhonda's real (first) name," but instead put it in the form of a random question that made it look like it was a random love sick person asking for random advice. That's what I thought when I saw their post. It was Rhonda's post that alerted me and made me fill in the blanks that it was her real first name.

At 04-29-2018 11:45 AM Skowt posts the question.
At 04-30-2018 12:44 PM (a day and change later) Rhonda reposts skowts post and posts that she's out.
At 04-30-2018 at 03:38 PM (3 hours later) Skowt edits out it's own post.
At 04-30-2018 at 10:07 PM. (about half a day later) Rhonda's post gets edited by AmPic Moderator.

Something just doesn't add up on this from the get go. If someone's personal info is posted (their phone numbers, etc), I've reported them and it usually gets fixed in an hour. All you have to do is push that little exclamation point to report someone's post stealthy, so the 'perp' isn't made aware, and thus gets banned. Waiting for a moderator to fix something could take from several days to never, depending on how often they log in.

Which also doesn't add up; why hasn't this skowt been banned? I'm pretty sure it's against Lit's rules to post someone else's private info; which usually results in being banned. Yet skowt is still a member...

Why publicly out skowt?
Why repost your (first) name publicly requiring a Moderator to fix it?
Why is skowt still a member?

It just seems a trifle melodramatic to out this skowt publicly, which is a slower process and allows everyone to see your real name being posted. Then again, I'm not one to post nude pictures of myself, so naturally I don't understand the mindset of such a person anyway.
It just doesn't make sense.

Small potatoes, I know, but now I'll probably never get my question answered. heh

edit: someone just PMed me explaining what I missed. I must be getting slow in my old age I still think some things still don't add up, but anyways... sorry to take up space voicing my thoughts.
 
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Why do you need to understand the situation? It has nothing to do with you. Rhonda has her reason, she posted what she has decided and that’s the end of it. It’s none of our business what happened behind the scenes. This isn’t a car wreck on the news and I’m sorry to see another fun person leaving lit.
 
Why do you need to understand the situation? It has nothing to do with you. Rhonda has her reason, she posted what she has decided and that’s the end of it. It’s none of our business what happened behind the scenes. This isn’t a car wreck on the news and I’m sorry to see another fun person leaving lit.

Posting something publicly, opens the door to comment and speculation, just like you're commenting on my post. However, if you feel it's nobody's business what happened, I guess you're recanting your comment:
Try not being a creep or an idiot for a change. You might like it.

Thanks for ruining a fun thread.

but yes, it's never fun seeing someone leaving Lit.
 
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Rhonda asked us to thank him. She responded to my question and it was the least I could do. End of story.
 
Rhonda asked us to thank him. She responded to my question and it was the least I could do. End of story.

Story sequel: By that reasoning; that you need permission to comment to someone else, who asked you to make comment to me? *mic drop*
 
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