Ask me anything - I'll give an honest answer!

[JenniZinc]

Describe the female orgasm in detail. I find that it has always been an elusive subject.

Oh wow, this is something I've never been asked or even discussed. I'm sure it's different for others. I experienced my first orgasm pooping and I had no idea what it was or why it happened, although I was thinking of some highly explicit thoughts at the time. I remember trying to achieve the same again and being disappointed - possibly the equivalent of a male wet dream

For me it's a wave of relief that centres around my vagina, down to my anus and as far up as my stomach. My nipples respond but I don't ever have sensations in my breast area. A powerful orgasm can reach into my armpits. I can only describe the feeling as pulsating.

I hardly ever orgasm with my partner, and usually only with a clitoral vibrator. And to piggyback off my first paragraph, my most powerful orgasms are when I take my vibro into the toilet with me ....... ha ha, what a thought!

 

[Pabiporffor]

What's the answer to the worst question I could ask you?

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

What's the answer to the worst question I could ask you?

asparagus

 

[SoCalAshley]

What's the answer to the worst question I could ask you?

When my mom got home unexpectedly and opened the door to my bedroom.

 

[DoctorSmith8]

Oh wow, this is something I've never been asked or even discussed. I'm sure it's different for others. I experienced my first orgasm pooping and I had no idea what it was or why it happened, although I was thinking of some highly explicit thoughts at the time. I remember trying to achieve the same again and being disappointed - possibly the equivalent of a male wet dream

For me it's a wave of relief that centres around my vagina, down to my anus and as far up as my stomach. My nipples respond but I don't ever have sensations in my breast area. A powerful orgasm can reach into my armpits. I can only describe the feeling as pulsating.

I hardly ever orgasm with my partner, and usually only with a clitoral vibrator. And to piggyback off my first paragraph, my most powerful orgasms are when I take my vibro into the toilet with me ....... ha ha, what a thought!

Thanks for sharing! I appreciate any insight I can get.

 

[Cheerio]

Hi Jenni, Absolutely love your writings--thank you so much for contributing! In the U.S. city that I live in, the massage parlors seem to be completely unregulated, as they are popping up on every block. The trick is to find one where the therapists are really nice. I think I've found one--the Chinese women that work there seem happy and are wonderful. The parlor actually popped up in a little shopping mall where my regular grocery store is located, but as a single guy, I'm not worried about the location.

My question is pretty specific--I actually really enjoy having my anus massaged (with or without penetration) as part of an HE massage, but am a little shy about asking for that. Did you do that as part of your massage practice? Is it OK to ask for that? What is the best way to ask for that? Any advice you can give will be really appreciated. Thank you!

 

[JenniZinc]

Hi Jenni, Absolutely love your writings--thank you so much for contributing! In the U.S. city that I live in, the massage parlors seem to be completely unregulated, as they are popping up on every block. The trick is to find one where the therapists are really nice. I think I've found one--the Chinese women that work there seem happy and are wonderful. The parlor actually popped up in a little shopping mall where my regular grocery store is located, but as a single guy, I'm not worried about the location.

My question is pretty specific--I actually really enjoy having my anus massaged (with or without penetration) as part of an HE massage, but am a little shy about asking for that. Did you do that as part of your massage practice? Is it OK to ask for that? What is the best way to ask for that? Any advice you can give will be really appreciated. Thank you!

Hi, okay, the key statement here is "with or without penetration". The without is fairly straightforward as I think most parlour workers have no problem with anal stroking. If anything it's a surefire way to induce ejaculation as very few clients don't like it. The next part regarding penetration is advice only as our parlour had strict rules in which anal penetration formed part - and everything was being watched. If you're attending an asian massage venue, you may want to check the girl's nails very carefully. My venue was Russian-owned, but I remember the owners continually arguing with asian girls about the length of their nails, and this was only for external massage.

I don't think you'll find it too hard to find a willing participant. As always, if you don't want to ask, make the right sounds and gestures. And as you'd expect, be prepared to pay

 

[Cheerio]

Hi, okay, the key statement here is "with or without penetration". The without is fairly straightforward as I think most parlour workers have no problem with anal stroking. If anything it's a surefire way to induce ejaculation as very few clients don't like it. The next part regarding penetration is advice only as our parlour had strict rules in which anal penetration formed part - and everything was being watched. If you're attending an asian massage venue, you may want to check the girl's nails very carefully. My venue was Russian-owned, but I remember the owners continually arguing with asian girls about the length of their nails, and this was only for external massage.

I don't think you'll find it too hard to find a willing participant. As always, if you don't want to ask, make the right sounds and gestures. And as you'd expect, be prepared to pay

Thank you, Jenni! Love your insight and advice. You're the best!

 

[Cheerio]

Hi Jenni, Since you are willing to be a wonderful resource for us guys that do enjoy a professional massage, I do have another question that I've always been curious about. If I recall correctly, you said that you were not turned on at all during the massage--which is understandable. But, is the ejaculation fun to watch, purely as a visual event? Or as proof of a job well done? The semen squirting from the penis has always been a huge part of male created porn, but I just wondered if watching the event in person was fun from the masseuse's perspective, or was it just business as usual?

 

[JenniZinc]

Hi Jenni, Since you are willing to be a wonderful resource for us guys that do enjoy a professional massage, I do have another question that I've always been curious about. If I recall correctly, you said that you were not turned on at all during the massage--which is understandable. But, is the ejaculation fun to watch, purely as a visual event? Or as proof of a job well done? The semen squirting from the penis has always been a huge part of male created porn, but I just wondered if watching the event in person was fun from the masseuse's perspective, or was it just business as usual?

Ejaculation is a big arousal point for me in personal situations, but in terms of work, you're correct, it was nothing that turned me on as I saw it happen literally thousands of times. But that's not to say it wasn't enjoyable. Think of ejaculation as applause, and the more of it and longer it lasts, the better - this was how I viewed it.

 

[lovecraft68]

Piggy backing on the above question, have you ever had a customer with ED who despite your best efforts can't really get hard? How do you handle that to try to keep him from being more frustrated, and do you keep at it until he at least gets a release?

 

[JohnEngelman]

Have you been on other websites?

What are you interested in?

 

[JenniZinc]

Piggy backing on the above question, have you ever had a customer with ED who despite your best efforts can't really get hard? How do you handle that to try to keep him from being more frustrated, and do you keep at it until he at least gets a release?

Lots and lots and lots In actual fact, I would estimate that at least half of men don't become erect during the actual massage. A lot of this is due to nerves, and yes there can be a lot of unnecessary frustration. It's not uncommon for erections to be slight or not at all and the client is still able to ejaculate if they relax.

 

[JenniZinc]

Have you been on other websites?

What are you interested in?

I'm not sure how to answer the first part of your question?

Interests ....... hmmm ......

1. Wine, cultivation and consumption!
2. Golf, occasional
3. Surf Fishing
4. Acoustic Guitar
5. Nature, being part of it

 

[Nicenashguy615]

Just found this thread and I love it!

So I’ve thought about checking out a massage parlor for years. The happy ending kind, of course. I have a few resolutions this year and trying one out is on that bucket list. So here’s my questions:

1) As a newbie, do I make a reservation or walk in?
2) Do they keep any information on file to know I’m a repeat customer? I’ve read a new customer is viewed as a potential cop so they are very wary.
3) Are they going to want my ID? I’m a little uncomfortable with that.
4) I assume it’s cash which is ideal for me. Do I pay the girl I’m with or pay up front? Before or after? Am I allowed to tip? I’d like to.
5) How do you know the pricing? Do they stop the massage and go over options? Lol
6) How do I let them know what I want? For instance, can I skip the back massage and get straight to the fun?
7) What sort of pricing is typical?

 

[JenniZinc]

Just found this thread and I love it!

So I’ve thought about checking out a massage parlor for years. The happy ending kind, of course. I have a few resolutions this year and trying one out is on that bucket list. So here’s my questions:

1) As a newbie, do I make a reservation or walk in?
2) Do they keep any information on file to know I’m a repeat customer? I’ve read a new customer is viewed as a potential cop so they are very wary.
3) Are they going to want my ID? I’m a little uncomfortable with that.
4) I assume it’s cash which is ideal for me. Do I pay the girl I’m with or pay up front? Before or after? Am I allowed to tip? I’d like to.
5) How do you know the pricing? Do they stop the massage and go over options? Lol
6) How do I let them know what I want? For instance, can I skip the back massage and get straight to the fun?
7) What sort of pricing is typical?

Hi,

I'll do the best I can with these

1. Reservations are always a good idea, simply because a venue will optimise their shifts to ensure there's normally only one worker available for walk-ins - a lot which get turned away.

2. Our venue was licensed, so we never had to worry about suspecting people. In terms of info, generally venues are not interested in keeping a database. If you use a card, the transaction will be kept on file (only a payment gateway keeps this info encrypted) and your phone number will usually be stored.

3. If you are suspected of being underage it's possible you may be asked to show some photo ID, otherwise they won't be interested.

4. Cash or card is common these days although you will need cash for the 'tip' as it goes straight to the worker.

5. The base price for the massage will be usually paid upfront. Extras will be discussed during the end of the massage. The more excited you are, the more chance of you agreeing! Unless you have a relationship with the worker, you will need to pay this upfront, so have the cash easily accessible and in smaller notes so that you don't have to hope for change.

6. If you go straight for the extras you'll be a worker's dream as they can dispose of you faster and move onto the next client. In my opinion, you'll lose a lot of the experience.

7. Unfortunately I can't answer this as I have been out of the industry too long and don't know what country you are from.

Hope that helps