Ask me anything - I'll give an honest answer!

[Oshkosh60]

hav you ever used a butt plug, previously used for the intended purpose or cleaned in the extreme, vaginally. and if so, was it a good experience ?

 

[JenniZinc]

Hi, first part of your question, I haven't used a butt plug as such but have a vibrator that has a prominent head that can insert anally and stay there. I do like the sensation. Vaginally, I never use vibrators internally as they don't do much for me. I do however use them as a clitoral stimulator which are highly effective!

 

[One_ping_only]

What would be your most enjoyable " realized " sexual experience and your most " yet to be desired " want on your things to do bucket list if I may kindly ask?

 

[JenniZinc]

What would be your most enjoyable " realized " sexual experience and your most " yet to be desired " want on your things to do bucket list if I may kindly ask?

My most exciting experience was four years ago pre-Covid on a secluded beach in Antigua. Two native guys offering beach massages had sex with myself and my partner side by side. The guy with my partner wasn't into males but seemed to enjoy the experience. Bucket list - I have always wanted to have sex with 5 men or more, and by that I mean taking turns (not the porno spit roast scenario).

 

[One_ping_only]

My most exciting experience was four years ago pre-Covid on a secluded beach in Antigua. Two native guys offering beach massages had sex with myself and my partner side by side. The guy with my partner wasn't into males but seemed to enjoy the experience. Bucket list - I have always wanted to have sex with 5 men or more, and by that I mean taking turns (not the porno spit roast scenario).

5 men is an aspiring number even if it'll be a one on one fuck rather than the air tight style. I thought my wife's number of 3 not including me was awesome ......... but 5 as your goal is woukd be better!

 

[titimprint]

Hi Jenni! My question is - would you ever consider meeting some from Lit? Doesn’t have to be for sexual reasons (although maybe it is?)

 

[JenniZinc]

Hi Jenni! My question is - would you ever consider meeting some from Lit? Doesn’t have to be for sexual reasons (although maybe it is?)

The very honest answer is no - Lit has been a private world for me, and I'd like to keep it that way

 

[JenniZinc]

Have you ever put vibrator inside you for a day and allow remote access to a stranger online?

I'm not even sure how that would work, but no, I'm not into vaginal insertion as I prefer clitoral stimulation

 

[JenniZinc]

5 men is an aspiring number even if it'll be a one on one fuck rather than the air tight style. I thought my wife's number of 3 not including me was awesome ......... but 5 as your goal is woukd be better!

It's really ever going to be a fantasy. I did some multiples some time ago (three maximum) and it's not always a success.

 

[rjr_1954]

Since joining Lit a few months ago I have been able to do something never possible before - explain my past freely and openly without fear of judgement.

I have also had my inbox filled with questions, mostly sexual (99.99999%) which has made me wonder why. At almost 56 I'm guessing I'm one of the older patrons of the website. I'm also unlikely to be considered a 'hot bod' who has aged well, I'm pale and flabbyish, but still manage to feel sexually charged.

But I find one on one dialogues quite boring, that's not why I joined here. So if you would like to ask me question/s out in the open go ahead and I'll answer it with 100% honesty!

If you do send me a private message I'll simply direct you back to this thread xxx

Hi @JenniZinc
I'm the 1% that just wants innocent talk. In February, I'll be 70 years old and at this point in my life it's easier to talk than anything else. Please read my profile so you can see who your talking to...and call me 'Rj'

 

[patient1]

1) What kind of wine do you like to drink? 2)What kind of wine do you like to make?

 

[JenniZinc]

1) What kind of wine do you like to drink? 2)What kind of wine do you like to make?

1) although I love so many varieties I'll go Merlot for red and Chardonnay for white! 2) when I bought the winery, it had a concentration of Cabernet Sauvignon grapes - as vines can take years to mature I've stuck with that, although I would love to get into Pinot Noir and Chardonnay.

 

[JenniZinc]

Hi @JenniZinc
I'm the 1% that just wants innocent talk. In February, I'll be 70 years old and at this point in my life it's easier to talk than anything else. Please read my profile so you can see who your talking to...and call me 'Rj'

That's nice to hear, except I simply don't want to chat to anyone about anything. I prefer the open threads

 

[Sconnie69]

Hi Jenni - why did people stop asking you questions??

 

[Jbond1981]

Since joining Lit a few months ago I have been able to do something never possible before - explain my past freely and openly without fear of judgement.

I have also had my inbox filled with questions, mostly sexual (99.99999%) which has made me wonder why. At almost 56 I'm guessing I'm one of the older patrons of the website. I'm also unlikely to be considered a 'hot bod' who has aged well, I'm pale and flabbyish, but still manage to feel sexually charged.

But I find one on one dialogues quite boring, that's not why I joined here. So if you would like to ask me question/s out in the open go ahead and I'll answer it with 100% honesty!

If you do send me a private message I'll simply direct you back to this thread xxx

Ha ha, I can't believe I missed that

I just want to know what your initial thoughts about my dick is. The more specific the better

 

[curl4ever]

I don’t have a question. I just wanted to thank you for being such an open, kind-hearted, and candid voice on Lit. Your massage thread is particularly educational, but the others are always fun to read as well.

Thanks!!!

 

[JenniZinc]

I don’t have a question. I just wanted to thank you for being such an open, kind-hearted, and candid voice on Lit. Your massage thread is particularly educational, but the others are always fun to read as well.

Thanks!!!

Thanks so much for that, very appreciated xxx

 

[JenniZinc]

I just want to know what your initial thoughts about my dick is. The more specific the better

Um, absolutely no idea sorry

 

[Oshkosh60]

Entered into a relationship three years ago with a partner who had never had an orgasm through penetration. We are both 60+. I had to learn to perform oral sex which I had never done before . Results have been good but I still think I could do better at times. My question is this: When you start to orgasm and you start humping your partners mouth....would you prefer them to lick your clit harder, or would you prefer that they suck on your clit, or both, or neither? I know everyone is different, but if I can bring her more pleasure....well....that is always a good thing.

 

[Noor]

Entered into a relationship three years ago with a partner who had never had an orgasm through penetration. We are both 60+. I had to learn to perform oral sex which I had never done before . Results have been good but I still think I could do better at times. My question is this: When you start to orgasm and you start humping your partners mouth....would you prefer them to lick your clit harder, or would you prefer that they suck on your clit, or both, or neither? I know everyone is different, but if I can bring her more pleasure....well....that is always a good thing.

I’m not the OP, but for heaven sake’s ask her!

 

[Oshkosh60]

Ahhh yes !!! I really like and appreciate your reply.

But we don't know , what we don't know is the issue.... or is it: we know what works and feels really great, but what if there is a next level?

I don't think she had had any much previous experience in receiving oral prior. She was very grateful I would accommodate. And yes I could try one and then the other the next session to see which was more effective but....what if the power of the orgasm was influenced more by other factors setting, amount of foreplay, how long it had been since we last made love, how we were feeling, ect.... And who remembers which they tried previously three days later/ And I do try to give her two per session, but the after the first orgasm she is less sensitive to the light touches requiring more pressure than the first to begin with,

Thanks Door

 

[JenniZinc]

Entered into a relationship three years ago with a partner who had never had an orgasm through penetration. We are both 60+. I had to learn to perform oral sex which I had never done before . Results have been good but I still think I could do better at times. My question is this: When you start to orgasm and you start humping your partners mouth....would you prefer them to lick your clit harder, or would you prefer that they suck on your clit, or both, or neither? I know everyone is different, but if I can bring her more pleasure....well....that is always a good thing.

That's a really difficult one as every woman is different. I prefer to be licked from my clitoris down to my anus and back again. BUT I have rarely ever had an orgasm from any form of sex, which is why I always rely on my vibrator (and no, I don't penetrate with it, purely against my clitoris). As someone else posted, you really need to have a discussion with her

 

[dkak001]

I've very much enjoyed your posts about your previous profession. I always enjoy an insiders view. Also enjoyed your other threads.

However, I can't help but feeling you're somewhat jaded regarding sex. Do you feel jaded about sex? And if so do you think your 'professional' career has/had anything to do with it?

 

[JenniZinc]

I've very much enjoyed your posts about your previous profession. I always enjoy an insiders view. Also enjoyed your other threads.

However, I can't help but feeling you're somewhat jaded regarding sex. Do you feel jaded about sex? And if so do you think your 'professional' career has/had anything to do with it?

Hi, thanks for your amazing feedback. I wouldn't say jaded, as I still have immense sexual feelings, and am turned on by male bodies. In terms of sex itself I've never been much for one on one - for whatever reason it doesn't excite me. I would rather be by myself or with at least two more.

I also see myself as quite practical when it comes to sex. If something turns me on there's little to hold me back from doing it. I think my industry taught me to be that way.

Hope that makes sense

 

[DoctorSmith8]

Since joining Lit a few months ago I have been able to do something never possible before - explain my past freely and openly without fear of judgement.

I have also had my inbox filled with questions, mostly sexual (99.99999%) which has made me wonder why. At almost 56 I'm guessing I'm one of the older patrons of the website. I'm also unlikely to be considered a 'hot bod' who has aged well, I'm pale and flabbyish, but still manage to feel sexually charged.

But I find one on one dialogues quite boring, that's not why I joined here. So if you would like to ask me question/s out in the open go ahead and I'll answer it with 100% honesty!

If you do send me a private message I'll simply direct you back to this thread xxx

Describe the female orgasm in detail. I find that it has always been an elusive subject.