Ass-to-Mouth???

[Epona's Chylde]

I don't get turned on by degredation, but have read about it in porn before clicking out. Never wanted to call some woman my slut - what would that make me? Even when having sex with prostitutes, I treated them like lovers (even ate them out).

Some women LIKE to be called sluts. They know its not true..but they enjoy hearing the dirty words. Some women really, really get off on degredation and humiliation.

In the kinky world we have an expression: "YKISMK BYKIOK" That means "your kink is not my kink but your kink is ok"

As long as its consenting adults, thats all that matters. Personally, I find that sex gets boring without a certain amount of roughness, humiliation, degredation, etc. I don't want it all the time, but I like it on a regular basis.

 

[AppleBiter]

Some women LIKE to be called sluts. They know its not true..but they enjoy hearing the dirty words. Some women really, really get off on degredation and humiliation.

In the kinky world we have an expression: "YKISMK BYKIOK" That means "your kink is not my kink but your kink is ok".

Well said. I'm a sub myself, so I go for the whole name-calling/degredation thing. It's difficult for some people to wrap their minds around, but everybody's sexuality is wired differently. As long as the people involved are enjoying it and no one's getting hurt (in a way that they don't like ), I don't see a problem.

It's cool to have your own personal opinions and all. For instance, my personal opinion of the whole ass-to-mouth thing is "Icky," but if it floats someone else's boat, who am I to judge what they deem sexy?

 

[Epona's Chylde]

Well said. I'm a sub myself, so I go for the whole name-calling/degredation thing. It's difficult for some people to wrap their minds around, but everybody's sexuality is wired differently. As long as the people involved are enjoying it and no one's getting hurt (in a way that they don't like ), I don't see a problem.

Exactly. Respecting each others rights is what it is all about (even if you don't understand the kink.)

Personally, I have a hard time understanding male subs. They just sort of freak me out a little. I don't like watching scenes with of them or seeing pics of them. However, I totally respect their right to be a submissive male.

And really, if everyone was wired the same, we'd have some major problems. For example, if EVERYONE got off on being beaten and humiliated we'd be in a true pickle..there wouldn't be anybody around to beat us!

 

[AppleBiter]

And really, if everyone was wired the same, we'd have some major problems. For example, if EVERYONE got off on being beaten and humiliated we'd be in a true pickle..there wouldn't be anybody around to beat us!

BWAH!! An entirely masochistic world would suck!!

"Spank me!"

"You first!"

"No, you!"

"No you!"

"Come on! Somebody take charge!"

"You seem to know what you're doing. Here . . . take this . . . now, come on!"

"But, I want to be spanked!!"

 

[Epona's Chylde]

BWAH!! An entirely masochistic world would suck!!

"Spank me!"

"You first!"

"No, you!"

"No you!"

"Come on! Somebody take charge!"

"You seem to know what you're doing. Here . . . take this . . . now, come on!"

"But, I want to be spanked!!"

ROFLMAO

Sounds like my first marriage

 

[TBKahuna123]

I've come across this info in my research as well. It's pretty easy to clean where a tongue can reach. One can scrub away anything unclean with some antibacterial soap. However, the average penis is likely to go in considerably farther than a tongue

Indeed. The ONLY time I'll apply my tongue to my wife's anus is when we've just showered together, and I've had the priviledge of cleaning her myself. OK, if she comes out of the shower alone, I night dive in too, but the point is only after a thurough cleansing, and right after. There's defintely a difference in the amount of bacteria involved.

Which brings me to another issue... the anal sex craze (dont' get me wrong, I love anal!) has also created myths that laxatives and enemas can be taken/administered before every sex session. While both of these things are fine once in a while, repeated use can cause some serious damage to the body. Frequent laxative usage prevents the body from digesting properly, and many people (particularly teens) tend to think they're also a safe form of weight loss. I won't digress onto a rant about eating disorders, though. Frequent enema usage, while not quite as unsafe as frequent douching, does deplete the body of certain bacteria within the digestive system. It can also lead to incontinence, and I've read a number of articles about porn stars who've had to undergo therapy (i.e. retrain the muscles to work properly) or even surgery to correct the problem.

I've heard this too and thought about saying something, but I wasn't sure. if you read the back of an enema box it says frequent use can cause damage. Of course when I had surgery recently they made me do 4 of the damned things in a two hour period. I asked the nurse aobut this and she said that doing that once in a while was fine, but if you are constantly doing it it can cause muscle problems.

 

[fantasylover]

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[Epona's Chylde]

I have to disagree with this. From what I understand of rimming, you are not actually penetrating, therefore there isn't any yucky stuff, if you will, to worry about......meaning, cleanliness...just like any other oral act. Cleanliness is key. But to actually penetrate and then suck it off is absolutely unhealthy and a total turn-off to me.

rimming sounds so hot to me......

My personal opinion is that if I'm giving my life to my lover, I should accept all of him, inside and out. I do draw the line at eating poop (just not my thing) but I feel totally comfortable with all of his orifices (and actually rimming does quite often include penetrating with the tongue.)

Let's be real...there's bacteria all over the human body. Avoiding it is pretty difficult. Then again, I've never been squeamish.

You're talking to a girl who doesn't mind sharing my food with my pets or letting them lick my face (and they lick their own butts on a regular basis.)

 

[Lynxie]

My personal opinion is that if I'm giving my life to my lover, I should accept all of him, inside and out. I do draw the line at eating poop (just not my thing) but I feel totally comfortable with all of his orifices (and actually rimming does quite often include penetrating with the tongue.)

Let's be real...there's bacteria all over the human body. Avoiding it is pretty difficult. Then again, I've never been squeamish.

You're talking to a girl who doesn't mind sharing my food with my pets or letting them lick my face (and they lick their own butts on a regular basis.)

Very well-said, EC. I think it's completely fine that some people are comfortable with ass-to-mouth and other similar sexual activities. However, I'm sticking to my point that the public needs to be made aware of the risks so that they may make their personal choices in a well-educated manner.

You understand fully what you're doing, and that's an admirable thing. It's the people who assume it's safe that are my concern. I see waaaay too many people here on Lit (I can only imagine about the people who don't come educate themselves at Lit) asking questions like, "Can my gf get pregnant if I pull out?" or, "I have genital warts, but only do my gf in the ass... this is ok, right?" It's a scary thing that there are so many ignorant people out there, putting themselves and others at risk.

I'm a huge fan of kinky sex, but before I try something new I always try to learn about it first so I know what I'm getting into. Unfortunately, I don't think the vast majority bothers with the "learning" aspect until they've caught a disease or encountered some other problem.

 

[Epona's Chylde]

I totally agree with you Lynxie. I can't believe the number of "adults" who are ignorant of even basic sexual facts (such as how you can get pregnant.)

Because I prefer activities that some people deem dangerous, I think its especially important that I full understand the implications of what I'm doing.

Thankfully my partner is much more experienced than I am and I trust him to not do anything that would cause me damage.

Love your sig, btw.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Its absolutely no different than giving a rim job. Same level of hygiene involved. There is usuallly very little/no fecal matter on a man's penis after being pulled out of the anus.

The attraction to the activity lies in the humiliation factor (humiliation being something that often appeals to us submissive types.)

For the man, the attraction is knowing that she loves you enough to do even this most disgusting act just because he asked her too.

I'm a bit fortunate in that there are people and places I can call upon to ask about these things. When I first saw this new kink hitting the web I got curious about the logistics going into it. Being that I sincerely enjoy anal sex with my wife, and fully understand do's and do-nots of anal, I had a suspicion there was behind-the-scenes preparations going into the acts that are to be caught on film.

It is different from a rim job. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. The risks are definitely higher than the act of rimming. However, the preparations involved do help to level the playing field on this one. Herbal and/or saline enemas are employed beforehand to thoroughly flush and wash the rectum. The act to be caught on film will be shot almost immediately afterward. In other instances you're just talking about slight-of-hand camera and editing tricks where the girls aren't actually taking a penis into their mouths that was just in their asses. Unfortunately there are those unscrupulous people out there, as in every industry, who are NOT taking any precautions and just paying some drugged out road whore to do the deed and get out.

Does any of this make the act, or the thought of the act, any more pleasurable? Depends on the person(s). Its an act based in degradation and humiliation. Certain circles will see this as something they want in their repetoire, while the rest of us will not.

 

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[Eilan]

I don't think I would ever ask my wife to do ATM, however I do find the sub perspective interesting.

You won't let your wife go to the ATM? I guess you handle all the finances, then.

[/hijack]

 

[mercurial sky]

You won't let your wife go to the ATM? I guess you handle all the finances, then.

[/hijack]

As long as she gets paid off, "in the end."

Just kidding. We know a couple that enjoys it but in between she swipes a baby wipe over his penis to reduce any nastiness

 

[Epona's Chylde]

Hmmm...I guess this thread has proven that I'm even more of a freak than I thought I was!

 

[mercurial sky]

I've seen a couple of lesbian porn movies where the gurlz do atm with dildos. Not sure if doing it with a faux dick makes it sexier or not.

 

[Ezzy]

I have done some in the past with girlfriends who have enjoyed it, and even during long sessions there has never been more than miniscule smearing involved after the use of enemas.

And I agree that it is not the mast healthy of pastimes, but if you want to really upset yourself go take a look at the statistics on bacteria that can damage humans, take a look at the live bacteria in the ass, then go take a look at the number and types that are in the human mouth, and yes you guessed it there are more dangerous bacteria in most peoples mouths than there is in their ass.

My take on those facts are...If you are prepared to kiss her on her mouth you should be happy to kiss her ass (joke! Actually I mean rim and suck on her ass).

I have long wondered what floated the boat of the pair of girls I used to play FMF threesomes with, one of their favorite kinks was to 69 while I fucked one the one on the top in the ass, whoever was on the bottom (pun intended) would pull my cock from the others ass, suck it, then put it back in there again.

If that doesn't slow you down at all, they would often suck the cum from an anal cream pie with the relish of cum hungry devotees, they would wrestle for the right to be ass fucked, I couldn't get enough of the pair of them.

The other time ATM has happened in my life was when I played MFM threesomes with a married couple, and she would fingercuff us both, one in her mouth the other in her ass then she would pull free, turn around and take us the other way. But again this was always post enema and she would keep going turn and turn about, even after we had cum a time or two, I always left with totally empty nuts and a silly smile on my face.

 

[FastFastr]

OK I have officially turned into my father! I have found a sexual act that I simply can not understand!

While looking for cures for getting the smell of vomit out of my car seats (a long story), I came across this gem... Here's one I will NEVER UNDERSTAND!

From http://www.gettingit.com/article/164

The first time I heard the term "Roman showers," I thought it was a type of high-priced bathroom fixture. A friend of mine, a professional dominatrix who, after freelancing for years, had decided to join a "fetish escort service," was listing the favors she would specialize in: forced feminization, animal training, shoe worship, Roman showers.

That's when I stopped her.

"Is that some sort of weird urine thing or something?"

"No. I have small hands, so if anyone wants me to make them puke I can just reach in their mouth and..."

Make them puke? You mean, like vomit puke? Like throw up?"

"Oh yeah, bottoms really get off on that. It's messy, but then you get to make them clean it up."

I was fascinated -- and vaguely nauseated. I mean, vomiting is associated with everything bad -- being sick with fever, drinking so much you're making out with your best friend, the bartender, and the loser you broke up with three months ago.

Roman showers, or "spew sex," is usually performed after the consumption of wine or other alcohol. Other regurgitation recipes include ejaculate, ice cream, fruit juice, and urine. Hardcore Roman shower aficionados consume entire meals before engaging in puke play, choosing foods based on texture and color, red being a popular choice (think beets and tomato juice).

The vomiting is performed by either the insertion of fingers -- you or your partners -- or objects into the mouth, or during deep-throat fellatio. After the chuck has been upped, it can be consumed by either partner, rubbed into the skin or genitalia, or simply left to drip off the body parts onto which it was ejected. Part of the turn-on is the mess -- rank breath, drippy skin or lingerie, tearstained faces, and in the case of women, smeared mascara and lipstick.

The alt.fondle.vomit newsgroup states that some people get into this fetish by accident, usually during a bout of furious cocksucking when the recipient hits the back of the throat and finds the resulting eruption of warm stomach fluids very hot. There are some who get turned on simply by hearing someone gag -- the memory of cock-choking enough for them to get aroused. Others associate the act of vomiting with being cared for as a sick child, the nurturing aspect getting them off. And, of course, some just want to have fun.

I'm just waiting for the "Bulimics do it better" bumper stickers.

 

[TBKahuna123]

OK at the risk of sounding like "My Kink is Superior to Your Kink", this is the most fucked up thing I have EVER heard of. Hell even Ass to Mouth sounds more appealing than this!!!

How do people come up with this shit and how can this POSSIBLY be arousing? Fuck, maybe I am a prude at heart.

 

[cymbline]

OK at the risk of sounding like "My Kink is Superior to Your Kink", this is the most fucked up thing I have EVER heard of. Hell even Ass to Mouth sounds more appealing than this!!!

How do people come up with this shit and how can this POSSIBLY be arousing? Fuck, maybe I am a prude at heart.

WTF I am right there with you. When I read the term "roman showers" I thought it was some kind of urination fedish. Boy was I barking up the wrong end.

 

[fantasylover]

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