bbw & cunnilingus

*blush*

Its been so long since I had oral I think I've forgotten what it feels like lol

I think that just pushing your lovely thighs back as far as they go.......and crawling down to your incredible pussy......spreading those wonderful body parts that you have.......licking your folds.....kissing your inner thighs.....circling your clit with gentle licks.....licking up and down the shaft of your clit......before licking and sucking your center of love into my mouth......would be a good reminder.......:kiss:

And all done with loving attention........because you deserve it.......:heart:
 
It's good to know I'm not the only person that's with someone who doesn't get into oral. My DH and I have been together for 11 years now and he's never been into it. Bummer!
 
It kind of sounds like he's not really into it, but if he's willing to give it a try, maybe you want to try the 69? I know it sounds cliche, but my woman is a bit on the heavy side and when we do that position, I can get to her pussy and clit fairly easy. Give it a shot if he's up for it.
 
I'm a big gal with a tummy (I wear a size 26 jeans & 26 or 28 top). Hubby is also big with an equal sized tummy. I want more oral sex & he is full of excuses. His latest excuse is that he can't get to my clit because of my stomach. I say his head is too big! :rolleyes: Poor guy...his tongue gets tired. :( Of course he enjoys his BJs.

I've considered getting a wedge shaped pillow to elevate myself...wondering if anyone has used or tried this? Did it help? I think he is not really into giving oral (maybe the taste...I'm not really sure as he won't say). I do shower before I ask for it.

Any other suggestions or ideas? Thanks.


I guess my wife is lucky because I absolutely love cunnilingus, I love the smell, the taste and the feel of my wife's pussy under my tongue and lips. I will tell you that I believe diet and stress can have an influence on the taste and smell and when my wife has eaten specific things, or is really stressed out I prefer that my wife wash first, but otherwise no problem.

Eating my wife's pussy is one of my favorite ways to get her going, I'm pretty sure it's one of her favorite things, and fortunately for her, it really gets me going as well, if not even more than her, as the sounds that she makes are so erotic when I go down on her.

My wife after giving birth to our children is also a little on the plus size now, but I still love her and think she's beautiful. We used to love the 69 position but have found it more difficult, I find that the best and easiest access for me is for my wife to lie down on the edge of the bed with her legs open and I can eat her for ages, plus I can help hold her legs up and/or she can rest them on my back, as well as run her feet up and down my back.

I go down on my wife a lot more than she goes down on me, but she is willing to oblige when I ask, (definitely not half-heartedly either) and she will initiate it on her own sometimes too. I'm not as worried about her doing that so much because I can cum (like most men) from intercourse alone, whereas she doesn't nearly as frequently, but I can help her cum with my mouth before (as well as also many times after) we have sex and it's always been important to me that I don't ever "roll over" and leave her unsatisfied.

It sounds to me like your husband isn't into it like I am, I would ask him to be honest with you. Also if he isn't willing to go down on you, then maybe you need to be a little less willing to give the BJ's.
 
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I know Sir does not like to. We've talked about it. He would do it, if I wanted him too, but I don't want him to do anything he doesn't like. If it's not good for both of us, it's not good at all.

Communication, honest communication, goes a long way towards making things right in a relationship. I think it's important fot you to sit down with him and have a "no holds barred" talk. Ask him outright if he doesn't want to do it, and ask him for an honest answer.

If the two of you can talk honestly, and openly, it will go a long way towards making what you both enjoy more intimate.

Just my two cents! :)
 
My hubby doesnt like it either
Im a big girl too (btw)
He is just not a fan of "bodily fluids"
lol :p
Nothing to do with taste or smell, he just
isnt a fan

Im afriad I have abandoned all hope
oh well, oral just is not in my future :p

Do give up on that thought...:p
 
My wife is BBW ever since we dated. I love going down. I love tasting every inch of her pussy. She often do not feel comfortable because she thinks her body is ugly.

Nope. I proved by tasting every inch including rimming. :D

She should feel comfortable by now. :)
 
I, too, am a well built, voluptuous lady and never have a lick (pun intended) of trouble getting my sweet spot stimulated by hubby's energetic tongue.
Tempest is correct, all guys want their member, along with their balls, tongued and sucked but there are those who want a one way street. These "oral protesters" are most often the same type of selfish boy who want to anally penetrate us females but refuse to spread their cheeks.
Sexual gratification is a two way street and men (women too) need to stop being so selfcentered.

Agree with you 100%. As a guy I believe in give and take evenly.


FYI...When I get you off with my tongue I expect you to lay back and enjoy it. Damn it!
 
I love it

My hubby doesnt like it either
Im a big girl too (btw)
He is just not a fan of "bodily fluids"
lol :p
Nothing to do with taste or smell, he just
isnt a fan

Im afriad I have abandoned all hope
oh well, oral just is not in my future :p

If you're ever in SE Ga. be sure and let me know. I'll be happy to eat your pussy out till you holler "uncle"!
 
Two way street

I, too, am a well built, voluptuous lady and never have a lick (pun intended) of trouble getting my sweet spot stimulated by hubby's energetic tongue.
Tempest is correct, all guys want their member, along with their balls, tongued and sucked but there are those who want a one way street. These "oral protesters" are most often the same type of selfish boy who want to anally penetrate us females but refuse to spread their cheeks.
Sexual gratification is a two way street and men (women too) need to stop being so selfcentered.

I dearly love two way streets! What's good for you is great for me! I'd be happy to spread for you.
 
My hubby doesnt like it either
Im a big girl too (btw)
He is just not a fan of "bodily fluids"
lol :p
Nothing to do with taste or smell, he just
isnt a fan

Im afriad I have abandoned all hope
oh well, oral just is not in my future :p

Ugh sounds like my (soon to be) ex. Hated oral, because I loved it so much. I can cum and cum from it, but he hates all of the cum. He says he feels like he is drowning. Though I can guess that he is probably traumatized by it, because when we first got together I squited for the first time literally into his face.. lol good times.
 
Not sure.
One person I've had sex with was on the bigger side and I didn't have any trouble giving her oral sex or any sexual stimulation for that matter.

Not generalizing guys, but I have heard of a lot of them not caring for giving oral sex so it might just be excuses.
Pretty pathetic when guys won't do anything for a girl but expect to receive their oh so sacred blow jobs.

I say don't give him oral sex if he won't give you it.
Simple as that.

AGREED.
 
Strange men around the place

Ugh sounds like my (soon to be) ex. Hated oral, because I loved it so much. I can cum and cum from it, but he hates all of the cum. He says he feels like he is drowning. Though I can guess that he is probably traumatized by it, because when we first got together I squited for the first time literally into his face.. lol good times.

Can't say it's happened to me, but I'd have thought "feeling like he's drowning" is a gross exaggeration and secondly, being caught in a tidal wave of female ejaculate must surely be one of the sexual highs of all time. Either that, or I'm one of the strange men around the place.
 
Just Sayin'...

I think your other half should be willin' to please you if that's what you really want he/she should @least b willing to do it OCCASIONALLY..

@ chipcarver :p pin her down and give her a tongue lashing :)
 
I'm just gonna chime in here and agree with bad liver. Everyone deserves to be satisfied ;)
 
Ugh sounds like my (soon to be) ex. Hated oral, because I loved it so much. I can cum and cum from it, but he hates all of the cum. He says he feels like he is drowning. Though I can guess that he is probably traumatized by it, because when we first got together I squited for the first time literally into his face.. lol good times.

I love that drowning feeling. You can cum on my face anytime.
 
Not everyone enjoys the same cup of tea. A lady I once dated, oh so briefly, thought cunnilingus "vile and discusting". She was most open minded as to other sexual activities and possesed an intense fetish for, all types of, anal sex...including rimming. Who knows why we enjoy what we do and are turned off by other things.
 
When in doubt, get a gal on all fours and tongue fuck her. Sure to make her cum every single time. Probably my favorite way to get a gal off.
 
It seems some women are self conscious of opening them selves up both physically and emotionally to a man regarding this....worrying about judgment and possible rejection.....

For me....I love bigger....chubbier women.....their bigger butts....the extra folds.....all add to my passion......I get so lustful thinking back to the many BBW I have had oral sex with.....for me there is nothing sexier that a chubby girl presenting herself on all fours.... for me to lick her from hole to hole....licking and sucking every inch of her until she cums on my face...........:heart:
 
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