BBW/SSBBW lovers--how big is too big?

In my humble opinion, having been in my life every weight range of the bbw spectrum, and from observing those in the “community” with an anthropological curiosity I can surmise:

“Curvy”, “voluptuous”, “athletic” is socially acceptable attraction. Size 16-20 fashion models with slightly larger than average breast-waist-hip ratio.

“Bbw” size 22 - 26 is preference, and those that prefer tend to use defensive language to defend their preference, extolling the beauty and virtues, all the pro vs cons of desiring someone this size, the sexual prowess and pleasant character, the “great personality” of these women

“Ssbbw”, Sssbbw size 28+ 450 lbs+ is fetish. Descriptions of women are objectified, reduced or expanded to a few select body parts and one’s engagement with said parts, not necessarily the person. So the porn stars both amateur and professional, the niche market fetish photos highlighting the size, the jiggle, the way the body takes up so much space and is all encompassing. The extremeness is the basis of the attraction.

Sorry if this offends, not my intent, just my observations and experience and many many conversations with both men and women in this type of physical space
 
In my humble opinion, having been in my life every weight range of the bbw spectrum, and from observing those in the “community” with an anthropological curiosity I can surmise:

“Curvy”, “voluptuous”, “athletic” is socially acceptable attraction. Size 16-20 fashion models with slightly larger than average breast-waist-hip ratio.

“Bbw” size 22 - 26 is preference, and those that prefer tend to use defensive language to defend their preference, extolling the beauty and virtues, all the pro vs cons of desiring someone this size, the sexual prowess and pleasant character, the “great personality” of these women

“Ssbbw”, Sssbbw size 28+ 450 lbs+ is fetish. Descriptions of women are objectified, reduced or expanded to a few select body parts and one’s engagement with said parts, not necessarily the person. So the porn stars both amateur and professional, the niche market fetish photos highlighting the size, the jiggle, the way the body takes up so much space and is all encompassing. The extremeness is the basis of the attraction.

Sorry if this offends, not my intent, just my observations and experience and many many conversations with both men and women in this type of physical space
No offense taken. It just doesn't matter if it's called an attraction, a preference, a fetish, or a mixture of all. I like what I like, and I love who I love. I will justify it to no man or woman. The incredibly curvy body captures my desire, and the soul within her makes me want to win her love. That's the reality that God gifted me with. Other men have been given lesser gifts. There is nothing more desirable than a BBW, and especially an SSBBW, who loves and accepts herself. Nothing whatsoever on the face of the universe. Society has condemned this attraction, this preference, this fetish. I don't give a two-penny damn what society condemns.

Shamefully, at an earlier time in my life, I did violence to my own nature by letting it matter what society said in the least degree. Now there is no obstacle to desiring who I desire and loving who I love. I am more authentically myself than I have ever been.

My broken stroke-survivor body can offer nothing physical. But I can make love to the right woman with my words, and love her with my whole heart. Here I stand, I will do no other.
 
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