bbws or larger breasted women..... Need bra advice

[Waterlillie2x2]

So ever since these things grew, I am having a hard time with bras. Last year I finally found one that felt comfortable and didn't make me bulge out at the top. I was wearing a 44F.

Went to bra store a few days ago and the saleswoman insisted I wasn't that size and insisted on measuring me. She said I was the same size as one of the girls who worked there and put me in a 40H. I admit, I looked "smaller" and somehow tucked in more. But I've actually tried that bra before but in a different size. It is uncomfortable and doesn't stay in place. I've read the reviews on their website and everyone has the same complaints as I do - The straps do not stay up and any bend and normal day movement pops them back out and you have to stuff them back in every 10 minutes. The bra looks good the first day. 3 days now and it's happening all over again. I don't know how this bra is even still in business. They also hurt like hell and swell up in it from being so uncomfortable when I finally take it off.

I decided to stick with the size and try the bra I like in a 42H(They did not have 40's in stock) And I am bulging out at the top again. It also seems too loose.

Went back to the original bra I like in a 44F.. Not sure if maybe I lost weight or I got used to the feel of the other bra.....But this one covers the top and there's no bulge in the top but I am bulging out the sides/arm pit area.. UGH

I have no shape. Being this big, yes they "hang" so that means they flop over in a bra. My goal is to lose weight....then eventually get breast reduction surgery. But in the mean time, I can't lose weight when I can't even find a bra I am comfortable walking in and don't have to adjust and tug at constantly. I feel like I deserve to be uncomfortable for letting myself get like this but it's not helping me to fix it. So far my only solution is wearing a sports bra/wireless bra over the bulge to help hide it and keep it in place. Anyone else go through this and have any advice? I've been to a couple bra speciality stores and it's the same story every time !

Go to Barenecessities.com and work with one of there bra fit experts. They will help size you.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I’m sorry that this is so complicated. My wife complains about It. She likes Lane Bryant, she’s a 36E, but in a pinch can get a 38DD. Shits kinda confusing.