BDSM with married women

[Dom70]

Well there is the Arizona Power Exchange and I went to a munch, although they called it a meeting. Not many people were there and even though I was hit on by, I guess most of the Doms there and one Domme, none seemed comfortable to me. One was maybe well experienced, but the others I have my doubts. I would love to be used, but not by inexperienced D's I don't know if I can fully trust. Giving over the pwer to my mind and body trust is important. I give completely. Sorry, Iam not explaining myself very well. Not sure how much to say.

I think you explained it perfectly....leaving pretty much no doubts what you need before anything can happen. Well said. If you are not comfortable...don't do it. Just sayin

 

[emme8]

Is this a one sided gender thing? Are there women who enjoy seeing their men with other women in a bdsm situation?

Although women do tend to be less visually stimulated. I doubt this is one sided.
Bob lets me get what I need from my Dom. Why shouldn't I grant him the same favor if there was something he really need/wanted that I didn't. Plus he would come back to me so eager to please me and grateful for the opportunity.

 

[slavemelanie]

Being submissive is something that is inspired to manifest itself. I'm not the least bit submissive with my husband, but with my Master, being submissive happens so naturally.

 

[LikeitLikeThat69]

I like to be submissive to an extent, it turns me on to watch porn where they are completely submissive but I just can’t get over losing all control. My husband and I have dabbled in some light BDSM, and i would love to do more but he’s afraid of hurting me :/ I get choked often, but I kind of want the “you’re mine, I own this pussy” kind.

 

[Roughscrewu]

I like to be submissive to an extent, it turns me on to watch lorn where they are completely submissive but I just can’t get over losing all control. My husband and I have dabbled in some light BDSM, and i would love to do more but he’s afraid of hurting me :/ I get choked often, but I kind of want the “you’re mine, I own this pussy” kind.

You know a Dom Stranger would own your Married Pussy

 

[Dosxx82256]

Anyone else feel like this is really cringe? Not the topic but the replies? Go start a personals ad or something

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

It would be completely different. Dom would stretch your Limits, because he can

I think there is a whole spectrum there that you haven't even touched on. When we consider the word itself we are saying a person is dominate. A schoolyard bully is a dominate. My sex partner pulls my hair he is dominating me and that makes him a 'DOM'. Remember that a 'DOM' comes in many shapes and forms and you must find out what is good for you.

 

[readingmary]

I have had a few married Sub/slaves over the years. In my experiences, most married young and to generally fine, loving husbands.... but as they got older and really understood themselves.. most of the ones ive been with realized that they needed something more, something different that their husband just wasnt cut out to provide. I have always had a great deal of respect for the husbands that worked with them and accepted his wife's needs... and let her find what she needed. Its a rare man that can love his wife so much that he can put aside his pride.

Rare is right! As a wife in that position but know the sub in me will always be caged up unless I'm a fallen lady.

 

[whenagain]

Anyone else feel like this is really cringe? Not the topic but the replies? Go start a personals ad or something

Welcome to lit, I guess. It’s pretty cringey here.

 

[Peppadance]

Rare is right! As a wife in that position but know the sub in me will always be caged up unless I'm a fallen lady.

We are all fallen, to some degree.

 

[readingmary]

We are all fallen, to some degree.

True, true. But with ladies it seems more negative.

 

[Peppadance]

True, true. But with ladies it seems more negative.

I don’t believe it is more negative for ladies, at least that is my opinion. I appreciate that a woman has desires and expresses them.

 

[sexyhelene]

I had one wife who had to go pick up her teenage daughter after I spanked her. Still wearing her Cum soaked panties.

Message me im very horny

 

[MrETnman]

My wife would love this but I don’t know where to start or how to find out where to go

 

[808guy]

I like to be submissive to an extent, it turns me on to watch porn where they are completely submissive but I just can’t get over losing all control. My husband and I have dabbled in some light BDSM, and i would love to do more but he’s afraid of hurting me :/ I get choked often, but I kind of want the “you’re mine, I own this pussy” kind.

You know I’d do that

 

[LikeitLikeThat69]

You know I’d do that

Yeah?

 

[808guy]

Yeah?

The best part is wearing a collar like jewelry piece around your hub as my cum oozes out of your pussy or ass into your panties. You take your panties off and find a mix of our juices that you need to hide in the hamper. Maybe a few lil inner thigh hickies you have to tell hub its a bruise from kettlebell swings. Thin marks on your ass and thighs from a jump rope. Heh

 

[LikeitLikeThat69]

The best part is wearing a collar like jewelry piece around your hub as my cum oozes out of your pussy or ass into your panties. You take your panties off and find a mix of our juices that you need to hide in the hamper. Maybe a few lil inner thigh hickies you have to tell hub its a bruise from kettlebell swings. Thin marks on your ass and thighs from a jump rope. Heh

 

[Peppadance]

Message me im very horny

Aren’t we all?

 

[TnA4U]

It's easier said than done. I've craved a submissive experience for a long time now. The hubby can't bring himself to act that way with me, which I can understand.

We tried the lifestyle for a while and nothing ever panned out. So, I suppose it will remain a fantasy for me.

 

[CuriousRick]

It's easier said than done. I've craved a submissive experience for a long time now. The hubby can't bring himself to act that way with me, which I can understand.

We tried the lifestyle for a while and nothing ever panned out. So, I suppose it will remain a fantasy for me.

Don’t give up hope you never know

 

[jerryb1966]

Well, I have never done it in person with a married woman, I have turned married women into my submissive phone sluts. I just used a married fuck toy tonight. She had never had more than three orgasms before she tried submission over phone sex…. Tonight we had double digits over a long session

 

[Gentledom45]

I’m still looking for one to own and control and turn into a cum slut for me.

 

[Peppadance]

Looking for those married ladies to reawaken that feeling of excitement in each other! Any flight attendants curious?

 

[over50notdead1]

All of my BDSM encounters the last 10 years have been with wives playing discretly.
I enjoy that they open up their nastiest desires as Submissives. Any wifes or Doms had similar experiances?

Wife here, have not had the experience but have the fantasy/desire to be a sub. Since I have little experience I don't know yet to what degree. My hubby is the nice guy who does not have the personality to dominate the bedroom.