Being an attractive, strong and confident power-female is a problem?

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Napoleon was cuckolded multiple times.

Like he wasn't getting more and better elsewhere. He couldn't divorce Josephine. And she threatened to flee with his son.

So whats your solution?

 

[Sammael Bard]

Napoleon was cuckolded multiple times.

Not to mention, he died a loser.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Netzach]

In your dreams. Real doms never consider what the drones think. Read about Napoleon some time. Or R.E.Lee. They kick your ass with a smile. Doms make shit happen, anyway.

Yeah, how'd that go for both those guys?

Oh, yeah, that's right. Nothing matters but results. Sure.

 

[Sammael Bard]

But I think still in love? I'm not terribly good at these things, but i think his last words were of his love for France and Josephine?

Nah, they were mostly grumblings about how pathetic his living conditions were. He had divorced Josephine long before he was exiled.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Yeah, how'd that go for both those guys?

Oh, yeah, that's right. Nothing matters but results. Sure.

What else is there but results? Lincoln was in Hell 20 seconds after Lee surrendered. He told Grant, I want Abe's ass for my surrender.

 

[Sammael Bard]

Yes, I knew they were divorced. She didn't give him a child. But she remained Empress after the divorce IIRC. My history really is not so great though, I did not study this subject academically at all so its a bit of a gap gleaned through art, literature and conversation.

It was Marie-Louis.

Years ago, I did a gruelling project on seven historical figures from different eras, and NB was one of them.

Don't ask. It still gives me shivers of the wrong kind.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Yes, I knew they were divorced. She didn't give him a child. But she remained Empress after the divorce IIRC. My history really is not so great though, I did not study this subject academically at all so its a bit of a gap gleaned through art, literature and conversation.

You may wanna Google Napoleon II born 1811.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[All_4_Love]

Oh, absolutely, and I have made the same point here before in a different context. My point ought to have been that the Dominant/submissive mask is, for some, the closest mask to the truth, and does not imply 'faking it'.

~smile~


"The secret to attraction is...just be yourself. Love yourself just as you are" ~Deepak Chopra

 

[valhallacanwait]

Well, happy to be back here on this thread. Did you miss me?

As much as some people, not mentioning any names but it is quite apparent that they are cat people posing as dog people, want to point the cause of my frustrations as being personality based. BTW, Freudian law says that everything is personality based including the way you load the toilet paper roll. But clearly, to those who do not need to hear their own voices ALL OF THE TIME, it is location, location, location. Same ol' story....time and time again up here in Canada. It is, after all a very large uncharted territory full of uncharted territories (read my profile for more info if an atlas isn't handy). Really, there aren't any White knights, Paul Bunyan's or even a Pee Wee Herman lurking in my neck of the woods.

Sooooo....thanks for the advice BUT I plan on moving to anywhere remotely remote to find some rabbits to hunt. At least they have a sense of humour and know how to...F**k. Just sayin'.

FYI, for those of you have taken the time to contact me and talk WITH me. Kudos to you....you apparently aren't threatened and are a breath of fresh air. Thanks for opening the back door of your minds and hanging out with me. I do appreciate it...being friendly and all that

 

[Tigersman]

Dom

Interesting choice of verb, but "angst" is not accurate. Not even close.

Hmmmm. How about I describe my domination as a quest or journey instead?

I crave submission and strength/control/domination is the key to my treaure box. It's just going to take an extra special key to acquire my treasures.

I had a girlfriend who had her BS in Chemistry and her Masters in Engineering Management. She was in management at a large company. In the looks department, she was a head turner, 5 foot 9 inches tall and 130 pounds with long brunette hair. During the day she was a Dom but when we were together after work, she was very much a submissive.

 

[bluesky496]

....how do I attract a male Dom??? Men are nervous about approaching me at the best of times.

be a little flirtatious and enjoy jokes more around them and subtly let your true wishes be known to the right one when the time is right and dress a little softer ,less suits and more feminine dresses for work maybe.x

 

[kittiGoddess]

I have to disagree, I have been lucky enough to find two Doms who find it a challenge and a huge reward to do this in my first MAsters words it makes the control more intense. Keep searching, they are out there just harder to find