Bi guys (or gals)--when and how often do you think about each sex?

[subbyclarajane]

Romantically, women only. Sexually, men about slightly more than half the time, but I think that’s only because I haven’t been wrecked by a dude yet. I’m super into sapphic culture and want to be seen with a woman but I love when guys flirt with me. My porn of choice though has been trans girl unicorn.

One of my best friends from before the transition is cishet. But his wife, also a good friend, is bi. They have BOTH been flirting with me… He called me cute. On a work call. WITH OUR COWORKERS.

So… should I unicorn?

 

[Sunnyade]

I'm about 70/30 towards men sexually and emotionally. That's been a steady drift in that direction since I accepted I was Bi.

 

[Uncut1969]

Some days 90-10 men to women others 90-10 couples-women

 

[rc1989]

I think about men way more often then women. I enjoy both. I think mostly about giving oral sex to a mans balls and dick which is my favorite thing to do and next would be eating a women's pussy and ass and sucking on some tits. I think about this so many times a day I don't think I can count.

 

[Abrahamlickin]

So, emotionally and romantically, I'm pretty much 100% straight. But as far as sexual desire, it's really about 50/50 for me.

I swear, being bisexual has made much hornier over my life than most of my straight friends, I think. With me, I can jack off to gay porn, and then a couple hours later I can't stop thinking about pussy--and vice versa. When I momentarily satisfy my urge for one, the urge for the other takes its place.

Sometimes I'll even go a couple days where all I can think about is sucking a big cock, and then I'll have a couple days where all I want is lesbian porn. For me, my sexual desires are genuinely pretty equally divided between gay and straight, all the time--and I've been like that all of my adult life.

For other bi folks, what are your experiences? Do you favor one sex over the other? Or have you been more strongly attracted to one earlier in your life, and then that later changed?

I'm pretty much 50/50 myself. I can relate to this very well.