Bi Married and closeted

[hulmule]

Nude beached in the northeast? Or elsewhere? Been Maui and miami....new experiences.

Gulf side has them, California. Ohio i don't think so or i would be at them lol

 

[NEOhio1972]

Happy Sunday guys!! Sneaking on to explore a bit!!

 

[TrailerHitch]

All I will say is regret is a mother fucker. If this is something you want you should pursue it. Do you really want to be lying on your death bed regretting not doing something you truly longed for?

I know my situation makes it a million times easier. My wife and I talked long and hard about an open marriage. She wanted to experience having multiple lovers, something she missed out on as a younger woman due to her catholic upbringing and initially I was looking at experiencing different women, which later turned into me admitting I had bi-sexual urges. We have supported each other and it is going along smoothly. Open communication is the key.

I always wonder how long you can keep the secret if you are doing it on the down low. Essentially you are cheating and usually cheaters slip up and get caught. My wife and I don't have that problem because we know what each other is doing, who we are meeting, and where. No secrets.

 

[sissinabra]

Happy Sunday guys!! Sneaking on to explore a bit!!

Happy Sunday to you! If you explore over here , you might find an invite to fool around a little .

 

[NEOhio1972]

Happy Sunday to you! If you explore over here , you might find an invite to fool around a little .

Could have fun in peoria!!!!

 

[KinkStevens]

My wife knows I’m curious. She always says that if anything happens to us I’d go for it. She’s probably right. I have zero issue with the gay sex part of it. Whats stopping me is that I’m married and won’t cheat.

I respect that decision. Its unfortunate for you, if you two have a great relationship though

 

[darkride]

I can remember early solo anal exploration after reading about it in my sister's Cosmo magazine. Don't think I even questioned the idea - I just wanted to try it out, and sure enough, it made my orgasms feel much better. It just seemed logical that if an 'object' in my ass could make me feel good, then another person doing something there would surely feel even better, with the obvious choice being a cock. I'm 46 and am yet to experience anyone touching my ass sexually. Met my wife at 21 and she's been very clear that she's not going there. A very long time ago she also essentially gave me a hall pass to explore with a guy, long as I am safe about it, but also she wants nothing to do with it. And for me that's the problem, as I want my cake and to eat it too - I want her involved.

I'm not sure if the offer still stands; it's not something that's been mentioned since the mid 2000's... I have several anal toys that I occasionally use when I have enough privacy.

I should add that it's not just anal... In my late teens I worked out I could flip my legs over my head and suck myself... (ok - I could get the head of my cock to my lips and jerk myself off into my mouth) That was another "ahuh" moment of - if I can do that to myself, I wouldn't object to doing it to someone else...

So yeah... 'closet' bi guy in as much as I've never acted on it, and whilst my wife knows, I suspect if I mentioned our conversation from 20 odd years ago, she would either honestly or feign not remembering...

 

[TrailerHitch]

I feel sad for so many of you that are either afraid to bring the topic up with your wife of being Bi, or acting on it and hiding it from her. Are we really still so repressed that we can't have an honest talk about desires with our spouse?

I've often wondered how someone on the down low explains giving their wife an STD if that happens. Of course that can happen hetrosexually too.

 

[Bisexguy70]

I can remember early solo anal exploration, and it just seemed logical that if an 'object' in my ass could make me feel good, then another person doing something there would surely feel even better, with the obvious choice being a cock. I'm 46 and am yet to experience anyone touching my ass sexually. Met my wife at 21 and she's been very clear that she's not going there. A very long time ago she also essentially gave me a hall pass to explore with a guy, long as I am safe about it, but also she wants nothing to do with it. And for me that's the problem, as I want my cake and to eat it too - I want her involved.

I'm not sure if the offer still stands; it's not something that's been mentioned since the mid 2000's... I have several anal toys that I occasionally use when I have enough privacy.

I should add that it's not just anal... In my late teens I worked out I could flip my legs over my head and suck myself... (ok - I could get the head of my cock to my lips and jerk myself off into my mouth) That was another "ahuh" moment of - if I can do that to myself, I wouldn't object to doing it to someone else...

So yeah... 'closet' bi guy in as much as I've never acted on it, and whilst my wife knows, I suspect if I mentioned our conversation from 20 odd years ago, she would either honestly or feign not remembering...

The very first time i explored my anus was very arousing. Lets face it, theres tons of nerve endings down there and the prostate is the male “g”spot. Ive tried several anal toys too and they can be very stimulating. Ive been reluctant to have my ass penetrated by a man. First, im not in a situation where I can be super clean. Second, im very very tight and even with the best of preparation, still hurts afterwards. Im fine with external rimming and sphincter play. However fucking a guys ass is an experience so intense its hard to put into words. The tight firm grip of those velvet walls of the anus feels amazing!! If you ever get to that point where you can explore these curiosities of anal play, youll never look back. Once I tried it i must admit it was awkward. But after the second time i wanted more. And every time after Ive fucked my friend, it gets better and better and i explode ropes of semen deep inside his stomach. I damn near loose my sense of self and consciousness. Hes admitted to be that it is the best sex hes ever had and I must say I agree. Dont even get me started on the intense feel of sucking another mans cock. My advise…go for it!!! Your missing out on some very very intense sexual pleasure.
But as with any sexual play…play safe. As mentioned. Its not worth getting and STD.

 

[darkride]

*gulp* Ahh wow ok yes. I sure am missing out a lot... And I'm not getting any younger...

 

[Beachguy23]

Yes and I live in a small town so meeting someone is near impossible. If I could find another married guy that would be ideal I would happily service him whenever he wanted and not even ask for anything in return other than his hard cock filling my mouth.

 

[yowser]

Here's a story about when a couple married bi-guys have their secret sideline discovered and have to deal with an angry wife. Sometimes explosions can be productive.

 

[Norfolkguy49]

In the same boat here love a fwb

 

[Crios]

Here's a story about when a couple married bi-guys have their secret sideline discovered and have to deal with an angry wife. Sometimes explosions can be productive.

I've been following Clay and Roger's adventures

 

[J1biboi]

Yes and I live in a small town so meeting someone is near impossible. If I could find another married guy that would be ideal I would happily service him whenever he wanted and not even ask for anything in return other than his hard cock filling my mouth.

I know that feeling all too well!

 

[lordpenizworth]

Yes and I live in a small town so meeting someone is near impossible. If I could find another married guy that would be ideal I would happily service him whenever he wanted and not even ask for anything in return other than his hard cock filling my mouth.

Years ago, there was an obviously gay but closeted man in my town who was a friend of my family's. I think back on how all I had to do was let him know discreetly that I'd welcome some attention. I'm sure he'd have kept the secret, and who knows how far it could have gone.
Now I know to make my interest apparent if ever I'm in a position like that again.

 

[Crios]

Years ago, there was an obviously gay but closeted man in my town who was a friend of my family's. I think back on how all I had to do was let him know discreetly that I'd welcome some attention. I'm sure he'd have kept the secret, and who knows how far it could have gone.
Now I know to make my interest apparent if ever I'm in a position like that again.

My "miss" was when I was in graduate school. It was Library Science. 95% women and most of the men (except yours truly) were gay. After class one day, one of the guys approached me and asked if I wanted to come over to his apartment to study. His facial expression and body language made it clear he wasn't interested in studying. To this day, I wish I'd taken him up on that invite.

 

[lordpenizworth]

My "miss" was when I was in graduate school. It was Library Science. 95% women and most of the men (except yours truly) were gay. After class one day, one of the guys approached me and asked if I wanted to come over to his apartment to study. His facial expression and body language made it clear he wasn't interested in studying. To this day, I wish I'd taken him up on that invite.

It's "the facial expressions and the body language."
I met an online friend for the first time in person, recently. I asked him how I presented, and he said there was nothing about me that would suggest I like men.
A few minutes later, after we'd kissed, he said, "if you look at someone the way you're looking at me now, it'll be obvious." I filed that away.
A few minutes after that, we were sucking each other off.

 

[XXVIII]

Married and closeted as bi curious, but my wife knows.

 

[KenM77Florida]

Married and closeted as bi curious, but my wife knows.

I’m not married. Definitely bi curious & closeted except for on here. Have wondered for quite a while about being w a guy & how far I would be willing to take it.
It’s great that your wife knows as long as she understands.

 

[dave's thing]

I have a new buddy that I met about a month ago. He is married, closeted but no longer bi curious. He is the same age as me, very similar cock (but he still gets as hard as a young man), has equally as productive balls that nestle nicely on mine when I am holding both of us, loves his nipples twisted and has come to terms with how much he likes my swollen cock head on his mouth.

 

[Lovetobebi99]

I’ve got a dilemma at the moment… I’m so very bi and fantasise about so many gay experiences, but am married so it’s hard… recently me and my wife have become good friends with a couple through her work, and I’ve become aware that the guy is incredibly tactile with me in a way that makes me pretty sure he’s got sexual intentions - at first I thought it was just his way, but I now expect him to stroke my back, touch my arse, squeeze my thigh, it’s subtle but not so subtle every time. I think if I wasn’t bi I’d have objected by now. I kind of move away, but I kind of don’t. I’ve started fantasising about the next time we meet and reciprocating, and maybe going for a run together and showering after, or any number of scenarios where we become secret fuck buddies… the question is, do I take the plunge… it could be the most amazing thing ever - two married guys with a gay lover to live out those pent-up urges - or a Pandora’s box road to ruin…

 

[SteveXR]

Wow, great question….

 

[Beachguy23]

I’ve got a dilemma at the moment… I’m so very bi and fantasise about so many gay experiences, but am married so it’s hard… recently me and my wife have become good friends with a couple through her work, and I’ve become aware that the guy is incredibly tactile with me in a way that makes me pretty sure he’s got sexual intentions - at first I thought it was just his way, but I now expect him to stroke my back, touch my arse, squeeze my thigh, it’s subtle but not so subtle every time. I think if I wasn’t bi I’d have objected by now. I kind of move away, but I kind of don’t. I’ve started fantasising about the next time we meet and reciprocating, and maybe going for a run together and showering after, or any number of scenarios where we become secret fuck buddies… the question is, do I take the plunge… it could be the most amazing thing ever - two married guys with a gay lover to live out those pent-up urges - or a Pandora’s box road to ruin…

Well I am pretty sure I know what I would do……plunge away…..I only wish this was happening to me.m

 

[Uncut1969]

I’ve got a dilemma at the moment… I’m so very bi and fantasise about so many gay experiences, but am married so it’s hard… recently me and my wife have become good friends with a couple through her work, and I’ve become aware that the guy is incredibly tactile with me in a way that makes me pretty sure he’s got sexual intentions - at first I thought it was just his way, but I now expect him to stroke my back, touch my arse, squeeze my thigh, it’s subtle but not so subtle every time. I think if I wasn’t bi I’d have objected by now. I kind of move away, but I kind of don’t. I’ve started fantasising about the next time we meet and reciprocating, and maybe going for a run together and showering after, or any number of scenarios where we become secret fuck buddies… the question is, do I take the plunge… it could be the most amazing thing ever - two married guys with a gay lover to live out those pent-up urges - or a Pandora’s box road to ruin…

I think all your signs are there ! I think I would push the envelope myself and see what happens! Wish I had an encounter like this good luck!