Bi tops… what’s the point?

Is it tighter than a woman's?
It's not tighter it's the taboo thought of it and the pleasure you know he's getting some of anyway. I never got off getting fucked, first guy had a fat dick and was painful and the 2nd guy he was hard and fast and would blow me after. The 2nd guy I fucked would cum while I fucked him. He fucked me also but I never got off that way. The girl I fucked I never lasted long enough in her to find out. Oops.
 
I travel for work, and just recently I had several romps with a bi guy who was a total top. One time after he did all kinds of dirty and degrading things to me, we had a few drinks and talked about such things. He told me he just really liked feeling like the alpha, and dominating submissive, feminine guys. He loved seeing a guy face down, ass up, hole wet and glistening, and his cock in panties. It really excited him to watch the guy while je took his ass.
I've known lots of guys like this. They love women but fucking a guy is different.
 
I have a question for the bi tops from a bi bottom. Being bi, means you’ve obviously had sex with women and enjoy sex with women, i have too and do very much enjoy it. I seek relationships, romantic or otherwise only with women. On the other side I’m only interested in tgirls when I switch teams.
How is fucking a guy better than being with a woman? I’m only a bottom because I learned how good and intense a hard dick deep in your ass feels. Definitely more intense than being the top. When I bottom it’s all about my pleasure. I neither have any desire to top a tgirl partner, being a top is better with a woman. What is it about fucking a guy that interests you?
It’s about the relationship but anal is a very intense orgasm.
 
I have a question for the bi tops from a bi bottom. Being bi, means you’ve obviously had sex with women and enjoy sex with women, i have too and do very much enjoy it. I seek relationships, romantic or otherwise only with women. On the other side I’m only interested in tgirls when I switch teams.
How is fucking a guy better than being with a woman? I’m only a bottom because I learned how good and intense a hard dick deep in your ass feels. Definitely more intense than being the top. When I bottom it’s all about my pleasure. I neither have any desire to top a tgirl partner, being a top is better with a woman. What is it about fucking a guy that interests you?
As a bi vers top, all I can say is that there are few things more exciting than walking into a room where a femme guy or gurl is bent over the bed in panties.
And it’s not just exciting, it just feels oddly natural. I’m the dominant man fulfilling my role, he’s the submissive man whose need to be taken and filled and bred is so strong that he’s willing to trust an anonymous stranger with his body.
So yeah, it’s something about the offering..
I love to get naked standing next to him, lightly stroking his ass while doing so, noting that the lube and the towel are on the bed as intstructed… then move into position behind him and start sliding my hard cock along the length of his crack, enjoying the feel of satin against my skin… then kneeling and slowly pulling those panties down around his ankles, as he obligingly lifts first one foot then the other so I can push them off to the side… my chest pressed against his legs, my hands caressing his back, I kiss that smooth ass softly, perhaps spread those cheeks so I can lick and tongue his inviting rosebud ….
Standing and applying the lube while he patiently waits, the sight of my cockhead pressed against and parting him for the first time, that initial delicious entry, pushing hard to get through the ring (his last and final defense), sliding in, bottoming out balls deep then holding still while he gets used to me… feeling my legs pressed against the back of his thighs…
Not sure if I’ve answered the question but I sure as hell wish I were lubed up and firmly pushing right now… 😄
 
As a bi vers top, all I can say is that there are few things more exciting than walking into a room where a femme guy or gurl is bent over the bed in panties.
And it’s not just exciting, it just feels oddly natural. I’m the dominant man fulfilling my role, he’s the submissive man whose need to be taken and filled and bred is so strong that he’s willing to trust an anonymous stranger with his body.
So yeah, it’s something about the offering..
I love to get naked standing next to him, lightly stroking his ass while doing so, noting that the lube and the towel are on the bed as intstructed… then move into position behind him and start sliding my hard cock along the length of his crack, enjoying the feel of satin against my skin… then kneeling and slowly pulling those panties down around his ankles, as he obligingly lifts first one foot then the other so I can push them off to the side… my chest pressed against his legs, my hands caressing his back, I kiss that smooth ass softly, perhaps spread those cheeks so I can lick and tongue his inviting rosebud ….
Standing and applying the lube while he patiently waits, the sight of my cockhead pressed against and parting him for the first time, that initial delicious entry, pushing hard to get through the ring (his last and final defense), sliding in, bottoming out balls deep then holding still while he gets used to me… feeling my legs pressed against the back of his thighs…
Not sure if I’ve answered the question but I sure as hell wish I were lubed up and firmly pushing right now… 😄
I wish I was the one in the panties for you!
 
I'm a hetroflexible top. For me its the dominance kink. In terms of sexual attraction I only pursue women and find women sexually attractive. However, there is something that also gets me in the horn zone, when any gender offers me service or is offering a willinging hole. IMO its about the fact i'm dominanting everyones holes.
 
A few thoughts from a bi top:

First, to get to performing the top part, there will be a lot of sucking and licking in the form of foreplay! That is what I primarily like!

Next, ass sex is "taboo" to most people. There are not many who would let me try that with them, man or woman, so when the kink factor needs more, then an ass is hte next frontier. Also, sex between men is "taboo" for most people, so being a top is particpating in something really, really unique, dirty and fun!

I don't bottom, as the few times I have tried, it hurt too much to happen. I guess you can call me a tight ass!

Finally, I have only topped once to one man. As a bisexual, fornicating is not needed for a satifying encounter! The oral, feeling and touching is what I like most.
That sounds awesome! It's been over 20 yrs since I have been topped after getting married. I miss it more and more and find myself day dreaming of past occurrences with my friend years ago.
 
i love having a bi guy on top of me and having anal sex. my experienced has been nice where the guy was respective and knowing that it needs to be soft and love making
 
I'm a hetroflexible top. For me its the dominance kink. In terms of sexual attraction I only pursue women and find women sexually attractive. However, there is something that also gets me in the horn zone, when any gender offers me service or is offering a willinging hole. IMO its about the fact i'm dominanting everyones holes.
How do you feel about transgender women? If they are super passable?
 
Wish I was your neighbor down the street, for those days that the girlfriend doesn't put out. I'm the one you call for satisfaction.
I am confused. I am the one who puts out for my trans girlfriend. I always give her what she wants when she pulls out her big dick!
 
Fucking an ass feels much like fucking a tight pussy. I understand why guys like to fuck me and have me fuck them, it feels good for both.
It really is as simple as this...it feels good.
For me, learning what gay sex was all about was a lot of surprises. I never knew a guy could enjoy licking my ass hole, for example, until it happened. And I might nver have fucked a guy unless we'd already been in bed naked, and he sucked me. It seemed like the next natural (?) step when he sat on my cock. And it felt SO GOOD to fuck a tight hole with such small tight buns. I stoked him hard fast and deep, came quickly, and we both loved it. Eventually I had to try receiving a cock up my ass and I enjoyed that, too.
Now it's something I look forward to every time I'm in bed with a man; we suck each other and we fuck each other. Normal m/m sex. Very satisfying and enjoyable
 
I travel for work, and just recently I had several romps with a bi guy who was a total top. One time after he did all kinds of dirty and degrading things to me, we had a few drinks and talked about such things. He told me he just really liked feeling like the alpha, and dominating submissive, feminine guys. He loved seeing a guy face down, ass up, hole wet and glistening, and his cock in panties. It really excited him to watch the guy while je took his ass.
I've known lots of guys like this. They love women but fucking a guy is different.
Your statement about "a bi guy who was a total top" probably hits the nail on the head, "he just really liked feeling like the alpha, and dominating submissive, feminine guys."
 
Your statement about "a bi guy who was a total top" probably hits the nail on the head, "he just really liked feeling like the alpha, and dominating submissive, feminine guys."
Or maybe it's not about any of that and a bi guy who's a total top would just rather fuck than be fucked as a matter of personal taste.

Sometimes it's as simple as that. Everybody's different. Everything doesn't have to fit into some stereotypical and exaggerated gender and power dynamic.
 
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Your statement about "a bi guy who was a total top" probably hits the nail on the head, "he just really liked feeling like the alpha, and dominating submissive, feminine guys."
Most of the tops that have fucked me wanted me in a thong and acting fem. They enjoy the power they have over a beta boy.

I am a fem bottom because submitting to a dominate man provides balance to my daily life as an alpha.
 
Most of the tops that have fucked me wanted me in a thong and acting fem. They enjoy the power they have over a beta boy.

I am a fem bottom because submitting to a dominate man provides balance to my daily life as an alpha.
I totally understand where you're coming from. I need to let go and be a beta to a masculine man.
 
Submitting to a superior man is a rush for me. When he cums in me balls deep I know at that moment I have pleasured him like any woman has pleasured him and has also fulfilled his alpha role.
That's exactly how I feel when my girlfriend has emptied her balls into my ass. She is my alpha man lol
 
Submitting to a superior man is a rush for me. When he cums in me balls deep I know at that moment I have pleasured him like any woman has pleasured him and has also fulfilled his alpha role.
.....swoon.... I'm still amazed by the power and my Attraction to hard magnificent cock.
 
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