Bistro Bijou

[Homburg]

Actually I was thinking of you a lot when I was having my say ... if I ever wanted to be in that sort of relationship you are the kind of man I would chose someone I could trust implicitly who would take care of me as well as all that other stuff. Surely that sort of life style has to be built on trust?
I lost my rag when MisterSir told me to shut up lol Then I had visions of some guy shoving a cock up his arse against HIS will see how he liked it!

Yeah, like I said, he's argumentative. Really though, he's a good guy. He carries too much frustration, and let's shit get to him when it shouldn't.

And I am flattered by your comment. Thank you

 

[UnderYourSpell]

Yeah, like I said, he's argumentative. Really though, he's a good guy. He carries too much frustration, and let's shit get to him when it shouldn't.

And I am flattered by your comment. Thank you

Oh well you know I am very fond of you even though your way isn't mine

 

[Homburg]

Sure, but it was still flattering to see it expressed in that way.

And, wow, my way is not the way for very many people

 

[unpredictablebijou]

I tend to agree that the whole thing just isn't worth getting into; too much defensiveness there and too much is unclear about the situation.

Homburg, it seems like you and I have similar approaches to anger, which makes me rather pleased since I see you as a pretty fine benchmark for high standards within the lifestyle.

I can use vague annoyance, but I find I really need to make sure that I'm able to preserve a sense of humor in a scene; taking anything too seriously tends to lead me astray.

Gotta go for now; time to close the shop. I hope others weigh in about sex and anger; I think it's a good exploration whether or not one is in a radical sexual lifestyle.

blessings, bistro residents...

 

[Homburg]

I tend to agree that the whole thing just isn't worth getting into; too much defensiveness there and too much is unclear about the situation.

Very much so. And, as that thread is Crankpants Central, I am unsurprised at the defensiveness.

Homburg, it seems like you and I have similar approaches to anger, which makes me rather pleased since I see you as a pretty fine benchmark for high standards within the lifestyle.

Y'all are makin' my head swell

I can use vague annoyance, but I find I really need to make sure that I'm able to preserve a sense of humor in a scene; taking anything too seriously tends to lead me astray.

Hmm, I'm going to pick a nit.

I can take a scene very seriously. VERY much so. I do some dangerous shit that requires 100% concentration or someone will get injured, possibly seriously.

I can take a person that I am working with very seriously. I have to.

I cannot take myself too seriously. So, yeah, humour, at least at some basic level, is necessary. And I absolutely cannot take things personally. I can't tell you how many times I've been cussed out and called some truly awful things by MIS and viv both. You can't take that sort of thing personally, especially not when you are doing something vile involving restraints and tickling for sass.

Yes, I said tickling.



(Note - While the intent there was humourous, tickling is actually VERY serious business hereabouts, and I have used it for behavioural correction. Yes, I know, I am quite the mean bastard.)

 

[champagne1982]

I'm not into much kink... but I do appreciate rough sex.

I've been "coerced into reluctant acquiescence" and brought to somewhat of an unwilling orgasm.

It made me so angry I cried when we were through, but the make-up sex was very good. LOL.

 

[UnderYourSpell]

Very much so. And, as that thread is Crankpants Central, I am unsurprised at the defensiveness.



Y'all are makin' my head swell



Hmm, I'm going to pick a nit.

I can take a scene very seriously. VERY much so. I do some dangerous shit that requires 100% concentration or someone will get injured, possibly seriously.

I can take a person that I am working with very seriously. I have to.

I cannot take myself too seriously. So, yeah, humour, at least at some basic level, is necessary. And I absolutely cannot take things personally. I can't tell you how many times I've been cussed out and called some truly awful things by MIS and viv both. You can't take that sort of thing personally, especially not when you are doing something vile involving restraints and tickling for sass.

Yes, I said tickling.



(Note - While the intent there was humourous, tickling is actually VERY serious business hereabouts, and I have used it for behavioural correction. Yes, I know, I am quite the mean bastard.)

You wouldn't be able to use tickling on me as I'm not ticklish in fact the places often associated with tickling (bottoms of feet/armpits) are very erogenous on me lol

 

[unpredictablebijou]

Homburg, that was well said and much more precise than what I had there. I absolutely agree; obviously skills, and the condition of the person I'm victimizing, are something to take terribly seriously. My own mood, not so much.

Champy, wow, that was kinda really hot.

And as to tickling, that's one of those things I will gleefully do to someone else, but anyone who tries it with me gets called some pretty brutal names...

How is everyone on this fine sunny day?

 

[UnderYourSpell]

Homburg, that was well said and much more precise than what I had there. I absolutely agree; obviously skills, and the condition of the person I'm victimizing, are something to take terribly seriously. My own mood, not so much.

Champy, wow, that was kinda really hot.

And as to tickling, that's one of those things I will gleefully do to someone else, but anyone who tries it with me gets called some pretty brutal names...

How is everyone on this fine sunny day?

You obviously missed the remark I made to you on FB then ...... 'in the jewelry shop with a feather'!

 

[unpredictablebijou]

You obviously missed the remark I made to you on FB then ...... 'in the jewelry shop with a feather'!

oh is THAT what that was about. I warn you. I curse like a sailor when anyone even suggests tickling me. Horrible Oaths of Doom will rain down on your children's children's children.

Hi Dolly! Hope your day is good.

 

[Homburg]

And as to tickling, that's one of those things I will gleefully do to someone else, but anyone who tries it with me gets called some pretty brutal names...

I'm essentially immune to it.

 

[EroticOrogeny]

No me. I drive my Dr. crazy when he checks me.
And my wife can be driven crazy sometimes too with my response.

 

[UnderYourSpell]

oh is THAT what that was about. I warn you. I curse like a sailor when anyone even suggests tickling me. Horrible Oaths of Doom will rain down on your children's children's children.

Hi Dolly! Hope your day is good.

Got no kids so you'll have to find someone else to curse lol

 

[champagne1982]

You obviously missed the remark I made to you on FB then ...... 'in the jewelry shop with a feather'!

I thought it was an international game of Clue...

 

[UnderYourSpell]

I thought it was an international game of Clue...

are you on Facebook too? by the way it's called Cluedo over here

 

[champagne1982]

See your PMs regarding fb. Mostly, I was referring to your post on this thread though.

 

[unpredictablebijou]

-runs in, macks on everyone, runs out-

 

[UnderYourSpell]

See your PMs regarding fb. Mostly, I was referring to your post on this thread though.

found and answered
yes you are nearly right about the CLue thing it's something that came about from Bj's crazy postings on FB though

-runs in, macks on everyone, runs out-

What's macks?

 

[unpredictablebijou]

found and answered
yes you are nearly right about the CLue thing it's something that came about from Bj's crazy postings on FB though



What's macks?

leers at, lusts after, fails to hide attraction to. As in,

I hope you'll forgive me for macking on your wife. But I'm sure you'll agree she's very hot.

 

[sassynyc]

What's macks?

you are so cute
*hugs*

evening all

 

[unpredictablebijou]

Isn't she though?

I'm saying hello/goodbye at this point, since I've only got ten minutes before I can close the shop and head home to see what further destruction has been done to my kitchen.

Man, it's been a horribly boring day. I'm hoping that there will be people around tomorrow to play with so I don't have to amuse myself reading antique threads again...

 

[UnderYourSpell]

Well I'm relieved to hear that over here 'macs' are what keep the rain out

 

[Tzara]

you are so cute
*hugs*

evening all

Ms. Sass!

OK. I need to find something special. How about "Green Onions" performed by the Harry James Band? Or, if that doesn't do it for you, try

• this Lightnin' Hopkins version, or
• Mike Bloomfield and Al Kooper playing it or
• the late, great Roy Buchanan bending notes on it or
• the effin' gold standard for this song: Booker T and the MGs (on Shindig!, fer gawd's sake).

Whatever.

Nice to see you around, m'dear.

Write a poem.

 

[sassynyc]

Ms. Sass!

OK. I need to find something special. How about "Green Onions" performed by the Harry James Band? Or, if that doesn't do it for you, try

• this Lightnin' Hopkins version, or
• Mike Bloomfield and Al Kooper playing it or
• the late, great Roy Buchanan bending notes on it or
• the effin' gold standard for this song: Booker T and the MGs (on Shindig!, fer gawd's sake).

Whatever.

Nice to see you around, m'dear.

Write a poem.

My, I am honored, and blushing like a school girl. A playlist for moi?
Off to listen and do my happy dance (Booker T & the MGs are my fave )
As for a poem, maybe. After reading Dora's last in the Dirty 30, perhaps my pencils should be retired. I am tres impressed.

Join me for a dance on the bar top?

 

[Homburg]

Ms. Sass!

OK. I need to find something special. How about "Green Onions" performed by the Harry James Band? Or, if that doesn't do it for you, try

• this Lightnin' Hopkins version, or
• Mike Bloomfield and Al Kooper playing it or
• the late, great Roy Buchanan bending notes on it or
• the effin' gold standard for this song: Booker T and the MGs (on Shindig!, fer gawd's sake).

Whatever.

Nice to see you around, m'dear.

Write a poem.

Hot damn! That was good stuff.

I can't decide which one I like better, Booker T and the MG's or Lightning Hopkins.