Sounds like a path to pleasure that most would appreciate!That is something that changed with age. Early on it was just about getting a good boy friend and then it was about having a good orgasm. Now I still want my orgasm but I also enjoy his orgasm. Cumming together can be good but I actually prefer to do each orgasm separately so I can enjoy each. The ideal is for him to help me cum and after I have come down, I encourage him to use me for his pleasure. Happy to take his load in my cunt but also happy to have him cum in my mouth if he prefers.