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Same here!! Color contrast is erotic!
It's a lot in the mind too
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Same here!! Color contrast is erotic!
I've find dark skin to be softer and warmerI have found this particular "kink" to have varied degrees of extremity as with most things. While I do enjoy how infatuated white men can be with the idea of sleeping with me, sometimes I get the occasional "extremist" looking to be a bit more than disrespectful. So far (of the few pages I read) you guys seem pretty chill and I for one appreciate that lol.
I have a white man in my life who I enjoy primarily because he has always been hesitant about race in our play. He embraces it and it turns him on but my god does he turn red saying things lol. I find it cute and endearing that he can appreciate and still be embarrassed at the same time.
I've find dark skin to be softer and warmer
Out of interest, what type of things causes the redness for your Mr White?
Cocoa butter lol, spending our lives moisturizing our skin will do that.
He we will call him "Connor" loves calling me a "chocolate whore" but will turn red every time.
Dark skin looks even more erotic shiny Oh, and liking the "African bottom" may count as a mild kink lol?
What do you say back to him when he calls you that?
"African bottom" made me laugh lol.
What any good girl would say "Yes Daddy."
Thanks miss. Think AB is generally called Booty
Did you both have good flirt / discussion conversations before getting physical to 'set the scene' so to speak ?
Our introduction to playing together was not at all smooth, kind of awkward to be honest. I wrote about it if you want to get the nitty gritty of it but basically he and I explored it together.
https://www.literotica.com/s/creme-brule-connor
I’m not necessarily into black women as a fetish, but sexy is sexy, and there are amazing women of color I would love to get close to.
I love how you put this. m biracial (half white/half black) and I tend to be attracted to white men. I always just say "I like who I like" because that's true truth. I appreciate men who can look at me and see me as a whole person and not just as "a bigger girl" or for the color of my skin. I hate feeling like a fetish.
Whew...mini-rant over. As you were..haha
So I do get your point, we all want to be seen as a sum of all our parts inside and out however, is it not also fair to enjoy if a person likes one specific thing about you? For example, I have found myself attracted to people that made it clear my eyes are what drew them in or my ass. It makes me feel sexy, and I dont see that as a bad thing.I love how you put this. m biracial (half white/half black) and I tend to be attracted to white men. I always just say "I like who I like" because that's true truth. I appreciate men who can look at me and see me as a whole person and not just as "a bigger girl" or for the color of my skin. I hate feeling like a fetish.
Whew...mini-rant over. As you were..haha
So I do get your point, we all want to be seen as a sum of all our parts inside and out however, is it not also fair to enjoy if a person likes one specific thing about you? For example, I have found myself attracted to people that made it clear my eyes are what drew them in or my ass. It makes me feel sexy, and I dont see that as a bad thing.
I do have to add the disclaimer that I am a habitual fetishist so my opinion may be skewed.
So I do get your point, we all want to be seen as a sum of all our parts inside and out however, is it not also fair to enjoy if a person likes one specific thing about you? For example, I have found myself attracted to people that made it clear my eyes are what drew them in or my ass. It makes me feel sexy, and I dont see that as a bad thing.
I do have to add the disclaimer that I am a habitual fetishist so my opinion may be skewed.
To me it's just a difference of someone saying they "love my ass" vs. they "love my big fat ass". If someone is attracted to my skin tone or body shape, then great, but I just don't like feeling like that's all they see when they look at me. Maybe it's just the qualifiers that don't work for me. It's a blurry line for sure and speaks to my own insecurities.
Also, I wholeheartedly realize the irony of my saying I've been mostly attracted to white men. Am I attracted to a guy because he's white or do I find myself attracted to a man and he just happens to be white? Like I said ..blurry...at least for me.
To me it's just a difference of someone saying they "love my ass" vs. they "love my big fat ass". If someone is attracted to my skin tone or body shape, then great, but I just don't like feeling like that's all they see when they look at me. Maybe it's just the qualifiers that don't work for me. It's a blurry line for sure and speaks to my own insecurities.
Also, I wholeheartedly realize the irony of my saying I've been mostly attracted to white men. Am I attracted to a guy because he's white or do I find myself attracted to a man and he just happens to be white? Like I said ..blurry...at least for me.
This is why communication is important, whats good for the goose is not always good for the gander. Two perspectives on different ends of the spectrum and neither are wrong.
Blurry is fair, life is not as linear as we would like.
Agreed, like your Lit name. Eirevernanogc. , congna ‘ Treme
Or madam Conga Treme’ The voodoo witch
Lol, thank you. I have never been called a voodoo witch before.
There are still a few of us black women who love white men around here.It's unfortunate that this thread seems to have died. Let's see if we can resurrect it.
Greetings to all the lovely ladies who posted here in the past! You are all appreciated! If you are still around, hopefully we will hear from you again! And to any new ladies, welcome!
Welcome! Great to see you here!There are still a few of us black women who love white men around here.