Blood Play...

[bridgeburner]

STD's and other blood transferrable diseases aside, human bites are extremely filthy and easily become infected so if you're going to bite and break the skin make sure that when you're done playing to treat the wound --- clean it and get an antibacterial agent on it --- then keep an eye on it to watch for infection later.

Blades and needles are much safer but for some folks only biting will suffice.

mmmm.....biting


-B

 

[AngelicAssassin]

... human bites are extremely filthy and easily become infected so if you're going to bite and break the skin make sure that when you're done playing to treat the wound ...

True ... that's why hydrogen peroxide aftercare is such a cherry on top kinda thang ...

 

[enigma nocturne]

Why not be really mean and go straight for the rubbing alcahol?

Intentional bloodletting is bad thing for me, makes me majorly uncomfortable. Accidental bloodletting, as in, I got a split lip once in a scene and once when we were doing needles I bled a little bit when they took them out, does not really bother me.

Vampires are sexy sexy fantasie, but someone actually drinking someone else's blood? Major yuck factor for me.

 

[Esclava]

Why not be really mean and go straight for the rubbing alcahol?

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Vampires are sexy sexy fantasie, but someone actually drinking someone else's blood? Major yuck factor for me.

I'm with you, hun! I would have thought AA used alcohol - not hydrogen peroxide - to sanitize a wound. Oh my...

Esclava

 

[Kajira Callista]

I'm with you, hun! I would have thought AA used alcohol - not hydrogen peroxide - to sanitize a wound. Oh my...

Esclava

frothing blood...kinda like a cappuccino?

P.S. alcohol and peroxide damage tissue....soap and water and polysporin.

 

[Esclava]

frothing blood...kinda like a cappuccino?

P.S. alcohol and peroxide damage tissue....soap and water and polysporin.

That's all I've ever used on my wounds. Wash with soap and water, antibiotic salve and cover w/a bandaid or dressing for a few days - especially if I will be working with archive boxes or in other dirty areas. Now, I do use peroxide as a mouth rinse.

Esclava

 

[Kajira Callista]

That's all I've ever used on my wounds. Wash with soap and water, antibiotic salve and cover w/a bandaid or dressing for a few days - especially if I will be working with archive boxes or in other dirty areas. Now, I do use peroxide as a mouth rinse.

Esclava

hmmmm you can bite me anytime.....after the peroxide rinse

 

[Legendary Child]

I just came across this thread and I really like it. Not a lot of ppl want to discuss this area of play b'c of all the risks and stuff. But I love it. Biting is such a turn on, even if it doesnt come to the point of bleeding. (Have had some major bruises by someone that got a bit carried away though, ouch) For bloodplay I prefer razors to teeth. As some have said, you lose some of the erotica of it, but it's much safer, and personally, I dont wanna get a nasty infected wound cause my partners mouth isnt clean. I hope anyone looking for info can refer to this thread in the future.

 

[Guest]

I was surprised that this thread got so many responses.

Thanks to all

Anyone have any good/bad stories to share about experiences?

 

[xScarletx]

I used to engage in bloodplay with an ex of mine...We were both checked out and responsible about it...

Just the act of running the blade along skin made both of us shudder, the blade penetrating our skin, the blood flowing out, it was very erotic for both of us...
Then, actually tasting another person's blood, it was a rush of energy!
Feeling his mouth clamped onto my skin and suckling the wound, his tongue flicking along the edges of the cut, trying to draw more blood out...It was amazing.

We never had any bad experiances with bloodletting.

I miss that closeness sometimes.

~sigh~






you probably aren't a "vamp" but there is alot of educational information on this site that may help you if you choose to continue:

Sanguinarius

 

[bridgeburner]

Biting for me isn't really about the pain aspect of it. Lots of biting doesn't hurt at all and when it does I kind of consider the pain a necessary evil --- I'm not after the pain. I'm after the bite - mouth congress.

When I get turned on my mouth waters. I'm far more particular about what my mouth experiences than I am about what my cunt experiences. I'm not a hard biter, but to BE bitten connects in my mind to my own desire. Because I experience such intense mouth hunger, to be the object of someone else's bites makes me feel desirable.

A friend of mine that was briefly a lover gave me the best/worst bite of my life. Oddly we weren't particularly sexually adventurous with one another. It was a short lived and somewhat awkward relationship, but one night in the throes of orgasm he bit me hard in the muscle and flesh above my right brest but not quite into my armpit. He actually growled like a dog when he did it and I shrieked because it hurt like a motherfucker. I was sure he'd broken the skin but it was so numb immediately afterward and the rest of my arm had gone dead in the aftermath of it that I couldn't tell anything. It was dark in the bedroom so I couldn't see if I was bleeding but I was just sure I was because the bite was so hot and it throbbed.

I think the conversation at that point went something like

"Fuck."
"Jesus."

And then we both passed out.

The next morning my whole arm was sore and I had this big dark purple bruise with the black marks of his actual teeth making a kind of ring in the center of it. Amazingly he hadn't broken the skin. Looking at it in the mirror I ran my fingers over it and was immediately wet. All through the day and for the next three or four days I would put my hand inside my shirt collar to reach down and press on it or stroke it. I even showed it to a friend but she was horrified by it so I didn't show it to anyone else.

And nearly ten years later I'm still talking about the damn thing. THAT'S how awesome it was.


-B

 

[AngelicAssassin]

I'm after the bite - mouth congress.

i call it consumed with consummation of consumption. You can't get any deeper inside, nor hold them any closer. If you could meld at that point, you'd make that choice.

Then again, there's something to be said about clamping hard into a soft spot while shaking your head side to side just to hear the squeals and screams hit high C.

Blood-curdling? Never. The blood flows from that wound just as hot and salty.

 

[Mr Blonde]

My thoughts?

As for my body, I definitely don't want anyone scratching me and drawing blood. Ouch, no thanks.

I don't really care to intentionally draw blood, but I do some things that can potentially open up the skin. I have drawn blood in the past, and if/when it happens I just spontaneously deal with it based on however I feel at that moment.

As for safety, I only do risky things in the context of a relationship where we have both been screened.

My limits are that I don't want to feel like I am on the set of a horror movie. If a subbie is bleeding profusely, the scene is over and it is time for first aid or a trip to the emergency room.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Re: Re: Blood Play...

My thoughts?

Thanks.

Now back to the horror set in question ...

 

[shaymless]

I never really connected biting to blood play, which in hindsight is rather silly of me.

I love being bitten....there's just that moment of rawness about it that draws me.

As far as cutting goes...it once was a freakin-no-way-in-hell-are-you-outta-your-mind-hard-don'tyoudarepushit-limit.

Then one day, we were doin' ordinary "couple" things - laundry, errands, housecleaning crap...and everywhere I turned there was this knife...just a small hunting knife. It just kept appearing and damned if it never once occurred to me until much later that the seed had been planted. Later on that evening, we were watching a movie, winding down and he starts playing with this knife...and bingo~ I get it. So now I'm freaking out - is he playing mindfuck or is he going to push this or both and sweetmarymother what the hell am I going to do?

So much later, when we were playing pretty heavily and I was seriously deep into it...there's the knife. I remember him telling me he was going to cut me, giving me a moment to safe out - telling me again....then asking me if I wanted it. At that point, I'd have done anything and yes, I wanted it. He cut me - not deep, enough to draw blood.


In retrospect, it wasn't exceptionally erotic for either one of us - the act itself. It was just ... his way of showing me that I could go past my limits if I chose. And it was his right to push them...and he could keep me safe.

We're not together anymore, but I've always been grateful to him for that lesson.

shay

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Black in a pool of Red

 

[Jades]

I missed this thread.

Thank you to whoever put my quote up in the BDSM library. I am honored

 

[SweetDomme_29]

Yummy!!!!

I searched...and found nothing... *sigh*

So I wanted to ask a few questions.... and this I figured was the right place.

Lately, I have this urge to sink my teeth or break skin and draw blood...this is not usually like me... but a while back, I scratched my then partner's back.... and drew blood.... not even hesitating for a minute...I licked his wounds. This ended up being a massive turn on....

Now...with conversations with someone going rampant in my head... I want to know more about this..

Have any of you experienced this kind of turn on?
What are the limits?
Any suggestions on safest and other things?
OOOHHH!!!!! You're making my mouth water. There is nothing sweeter than the first taste of that sweet warm liquid as it oozes into your mouth!!! Warnings:blood does not digest. Too much of it will make you very ill. HIV, and so forth. Human bites can get very badly infected. This can be fatal so good aftercare is a must. Pros: This is one of the best ways to push an experienced sub to new heights: the pain and intimacy of the bite, the breaking of skin, the feel of ones blood being sucked, the breakage of the taboo and mental bar towards the act, etc...
Bite Back

 

[ammre]

besides the general "OMG DISEASES!", You also want to be very careful with your choice of person to play with in this context. I believe the OP was the one who enjoyed the idea of being bled, but I guess this would go more for a Dom. You'd want to know things about whether they've had alcohol/aspirin/anti-coagulation drugs. You'd want to know about any physical health issues. etc. You'll want to know if they've eaten that day, or if they have blood sugar issues. You'll want to know if they've injured themself in the past as an emotional trauma kind of thing, just so you can be sure you're not going to re-rigger them or just be part of their new form of self-harm.

I know a girl who thankfully isn't in the scene but she likes Piercings. The unfortunate part is that she has to go to a specific piercer who is very used to her body. She can deal with the needle. She can watch it go in, she won't flinch or OW or anything, but as soon as it's over her body goes "Oh, a needle" *BAM* and she passes out. Her body just drops her. You'd want to know about their tolerance for blood/needles/etc (I know that seems like a DUH OBVIOUS thing but sometimes things outside the sexual context won't always be brought up as well as they should)
You either have to know your sub really well or know that your sub knows them self really well and will communicate their needs to you ahead of time.

 

[hardcorexmaster]

I searched...and found nothing... *sigh*

So I wanted to ask a few questions.... and this I figured was the right place.

Lately, I have this urge to sink my teeth or break skin and draw blood...this is not usually like me... but a while back, I scratched my then partner's back.... and drew blood.... not even hesitating for a minute...I licked his wounds. This ended up being a massive turn on....

Now...with conversations with someone going rampant in my head... I want to know more about this..

Have any of you experienced this kind of turn on?
What are the limits?
Any suggestions on safety and other things?

Anyone here enjoy this... ??(please...I feel like such a freak lol)

Yes. I have a blood fetish. Started when I drank my own blood from my cuts. I also have cut myself for a girl to drink... but really I want to drink someone else's blood. Haven't had the chance to try it yet, but when I do I know I'll be hard the second the knife is in my hand and probably will get off on drinking blood even without sex involved. So powerful for me...

 

[Sub_Space]

I actually just recently had an experience with knifeplay/bloodplay...

My sub has this wonderful razor-sharp knife that we like to play with. He sharpens it so that it will cut without a doubt if you press down just right. Originally, we were using it for just regular knifeplay without breaking the skin but the last time I saw him we decided to 'mark' one another as a kind of way of saying good-bye (we don't live as close as we'd like).

Neither of us cut very deep, or very many times, but it was a very intimate and intense experience. It was also magnified by the fact that the both of us used to self-harm in a negative context, so to put cutting in the hands of another person made the act itself...different. It was very liberating to take something that used to be done in rage and have the rush of pain and euphoria not be followed by shame, but instead, intimacy.

I would recommend it only if you know the person's past history inside-and-out, and if you'd trust the other person with a sharp blade to your jugular (at the most extreme). This boy has had a knife to my throat many times; I trust him implicitly.