Blowjob/Handjob Scale - where do you fall?

I bet my neighbors think exactly that from the sounds coming from my house. I mean lately they have heard fu*k an awful lot I'm sure. But it's usually followed by YOU!

It's not your vibrators fault his batteries ran out :(

Anyway stop trying to get me in trouble, I made a serious post before.
 
It's not your vibrators fault his batteries ran out :(

Anyway stop trying to get me in trouble, I made a serious post before.

I am nice to my toys. They're my friends. Now you be nice or I'm gonna introduce you to the one with the fist on the end of an arm.
 
OK, if I get to choose I'd go for about 50/50 I suppose.

A BJ for me is a largely visual pleasure; I like to watch her apply thick, red lipstick first and really show off her mouth to me while she sucks.


After a while she'd apply more lipstick and light a cigarette; this is where the real intense pleasure begins, with my lady french kissing me as she smokes, with her other hand stroking me. If I'm very lucky and she's been drinking wine, there might be a bit of filthy four-letter talk from her at this point!



She has the most magic hands; it's hard to believe she didn't have a cock in an earlier life.


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Shame I can't post the pics! Rather nice ones of her sucking and wanking me...

With her expert hands, the heat from her soft body, the smell of her perfume and the taste of her lipstick, red wine and cigarette smoke as she kisses me, I'm guaranteed the most intense orgasm imaginable. It feels like waking up from an adolescent wet dream sometimes.
 
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60/ 30/ 10

60 percent head. I love a good blow job. My wife used to give good blow jobs and an occasional great one. Lately she seems to just want to get it over and goes at me like a jack hammer. more hand than mouth and no technique.

30 percent hand. Because a good hand job can be fun especially if it is in a strange place or risk of getting caught. I particularly like when I am standing and she is sitting. She massages my balls while stroking my cock and rubbing my head om her nipples.

10 percent intercourse. Sometimes it is what we both need. But we are predominately oral and 98 percent of the time I lick her regardless of how or where I have cum. I am particularly fond of blowing my load on her pussy and the cleaning her up.

Bottom line is what ever the percentage, good is always better than meh.
 
Although an enthusiastic blowjob is always appreciated, I would have to go 70-30 for a handjob. She tends to work on my balls with more vigor when she's not preoccupied with pleasuring me with her mouth.
 
First thing in the morning when I've got that raging morning hard-on with precum dripping, I prefer to start with a nice stimulating handjob until I'm almost there and then feel that nice set of loving sucking lips wrap around my swollen cock head to finish it off. So call that perhaps 80/20 handjob/blowjob.

Any other time I'd switch that around and go 20/80 handjob/blowjob. Mind you I still like the hand to help out during the blowjob part, but that's kind of a given. Occasionally I love to see her mouth come off and watch her lovingly stroke my hard wet shaft to give it extra stimulation before she finished it off with he mouth.
 
I like giving bjs more than hand jobs but depending on the guy I probably do a hand job more often maybe. I'd say something like 60-40 for hand jobs?
 
i would give him a blow.....men always like that and i could then swallow his load

Blow job to the end where she swallows....Love the sensation of her tongue on the bottom of my shaft while I'm exploding...

100% blow job.
 
For me I like enough of a blowjob to provide lube for the hand job, so, suck a little then handjob, suck a little more, handjob again, and so on until I cum, preferably in His/Her mouth but I'm happy just to cum.
 
Admission.....my husband seldom cums from my bj's. See......I suck. (Ok that was a little funny right?)
For him to cum he has to do more thrusting and really I just try and keep my teeth out of the way. Wow what a sex machine I am huh?
SG, at least you try to please your man. It's a two way street.
To me the end justifies the means - BJ-20% HJ-80% or BJ-80% HJ-20%.
As long as I cum in her mouth, it matters not what the percentage is.
Now rough (teeth) should be kept to a minimum. LOL
 
scale?

I think on the side of primarily hj, because I just find it tough to believe that a gal would actually enjoy a bj and it's very important to me that my gal enjoy what she's doing to me as well as enjoying the things I do to her.
 
75% Handjob. My wife has become quite accomplished over the years, with varying techniques. She excels at ball and taint stroking and tickling, and on extremely rare occasions will slide a finger up my ass. She has also stroked me off while wearing gloves (which I HIGHLY recommend).

She's also fairly accomplished at blowjobs but this is a rare treat. She will not take a shot in her mouth or face so it's usually combined with her hand for a very happy ending.
 
Depends a lot on who's giving it and under what circumstances. I have a thing for handjobs personally, but love getting blown also. With my wife, it's usually 85% hand, 15% mouth. I love them and enjoy getting them whenever possible.

That being said, she's never given me a BJ without using her hands at all. That would be nice to experience. Also, cumming in someone's mouth is an experience all in it's own IMO.

I guess if I had to say what my ideal would be, it would be 50-50 with the mouth (or throat) as the depository! ;)
 
I love giving both, but if I give a blowjob, it's 100% blowjob. If I give a handjob, it's 100% handjob. Each one is an art, a lovemaking in itself. I don't like to mix the two, nor have I ever had to.
 
Suppose you are not going to fuck. You are going to receive a handjob, blowjob, or some combination from your partner.

(Or, you are going to give one to your partner, if that's the way it works. Either way, you can answer the question.)

The question is: How much do you want of each? Do you want 100% Blowjob, 0% Handjob? Or at the other extreme, 0%BJ-100%HJ? Or somewhere in the middle?

Personally, I like mostly handjob, with a bit of blowjob for variety (and for moisture). Probably around 20%BJ-80%HJ.

How about the rest of you?

I like handjobs. I want to watch my cock being stroked. A little sucking is good too though.
 
For me its not a split. If I did I would say 80% bj 20%hj. But I prefer both at the same time. Hand on lower shaft mouth on upper shaft to be able to cum in her mouth

I'll go with this one too, but it's wishfull thinking.
 
50/50
I have had some amazing hj"s before. I get the sensation of being at their will as they have their hand gripped firmly on my cock.
 
For me it's 70-30 handjobs. Just something about reliving those frantic, taboo moments in the car at the lake, when I was in high school.
 
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