Blowjob/Handjob Scale - where do you fall?

[jimmyturtleman]

Depends

The ratio of BJ to HJ depends on who is doing it for me.

My wife has a very high gag reflex if she takes in more that a couple of inches. When she is at the controls, I would have to say the 70 HJ - 30 BJ ratio is good. Finish with a strong hand as she slurps the cum from my cockhead. She does always swallow which I find pleasing.

My new found suck buddy, on the other hand, is a very enthusiastic cocksucker and has shown no gag reflex as he goes right to the root. With him at the controls, I find the 100% BJ is perfect. If he would just learn to swallow.

 

[rbone04]

I used to think handjobs were rude. Then I found my GF. I was wrong.

 

[Diana1488]

I like to give handjobs, with lots of spit for lubrication. Guys love it, because too many girls just expect their own pleasure, and don't know how to give it in return.

 

[JackVettriano]

Diana, you sound like my kind of girl ;-)

I have a high sex drive and sometimes work, kids, life just gets in the way of a good hard fuck, but my girl gives me a good hard tug when I need it and sometimes when se gets I to it I get a good blow, ratio of about 8 to 1 I think.

Just wish she fucked as much as she pulled ;-)

 

[OpenMouth]

I'm with op - 20% BJ, 80 hands.

Mouth is largely a visual thrill; those lovely, red-lipstick-caked lips sliding up and down my length as she looks in my eyes; but nothing beats her magic hands on me and her boobs pressed against me, as we French kiss, the taste of red wine and cigarettes on her breath as she talks filth to me...

 

[littlecordelera]

...because too many girls just expect their own pleasure, and don't know how to give it in return.

I've had to read that statement about ten times to make sure I was seeing it correctly.

 

[OpenMouth]

I've had to read that statement about ten times to make sure I was seeing it correctly.

Hahaha

Great comment.

 

[MrEd63]

Just now, I'd be happy with either / or.

 

[CollarAndFeather]

Ideally, 100% bj because my hands are bound, but then bonadge is like chocolate for me; there's very few things it doesn't make better.

If we're not assuming that, tits/mouth/hands entirely depends on what I find my partner/Dom(me) responds to best. For me, it's about giving pleasure, and that's what I enjoy about it, so focusing on how I like to give it is missing the point entirely. (though a tight grip on my hair is always a bonus)

 

[Kitschshaman]

I love giving both, but if I give a blowjob, it's 100% blowjob. If I give a handjob, it's 100% handjob. Each one is an art, a lovemaking in itself. I don't like to mix the two, nor have I ever had to.

A beautiful sentiment .... I feel that with either, it's critical to know that my partner is truly enjoying what she is doing, whether it's a hj or a bj. Knowledge of that is more exciting than I can describe ... thinking that she's doing something she really doesn't want to do just because she thinks I'd like it sorta lets the air out of the balloon...

thanks ...

 

[MatthewVett]

60% blowjob, with some handjob thrown in for teasing.

 

[nevergetenough]

edited

 

[DustOnDaBotl]

40% BJ, 60% handjobs. Love the facials, too!

 

[funluvinaj]

Damn. Now I'm desperately craving cock... Love giving both...

This vid is amazing...

Mmmm....