Blowjob question for the guys

I was wondering if cock sucking as part of foreplay counts as a BJ? Cause really, there isn't a lot of incentive for women to suck a guy to completion. I mean yes there are dildos which, for me, will do in a pinch. But real cocks feel so much better in my pussy - so if I get you off, well, I'm SOL.

And I mean, yes, I swallow, but it's because I believe in doing a job right, not because I love the taste of cum (sorry to burst anyone's bubble on that tidbit).
Cocksucking and pussy-licking and delightful ways of enjoying foreplay.
And if all that sucking and tonguing brings you off and makes you both cum orally, that's fine... just fondle each other for as long as it takes to resurrect that erection, then fuck each others brains out even more intensely....
 
When was the last time you got a blowjob. Detail it and let us know how it was.
No judgment will come from me for who you got it from.
about 4 weeks ago. She lay next to me and started to massage my balls, then rub my shaft a bit. Returning to my balls she would now start to squeeze them, sliding her head down my chest her mouth reached my cock head and she would do her magic with tongue and mouth while squeezing my balls harder and harder but not painful. I'm sure she took me in her throat once in a while. When she thought I was close she would stop sucking me and go to my nipple and suck it. Her sucking and tongue working my nipple drives me crazy while she jerks me off - not long I shoot my load.
 
I think a lot of guys would say you are a lucky fuck. Or lucky as fuck.

I continue to be amazed at the number of men I talk to who say their female partners will never go down on them, even if it is just foreplay. Personally, it's a very rare sexual encounter that doesn't include oral for and by both of us.
That is our sex life also. Very rare that there is no oral involved by both parties. Wife has gotten to the point where she will suck until I start to cum but immediately pulls off. It's progress. 😛
 
Make someone? Of course not. It's a bit beside the point for me, because swallowing isn't a make or break activity. I do think it's reasonable to choose partners that like to do the things you want to do, though. For me, a woman who doesn't enjoy giving head isn't the sex partner I want.

If your friend doesn't like bowling but you do, find another friend to go bowling with. 😊
Yes and no. Not giving head is a deal breaker for me. Being bad at head is also a deal breaker for me. My fiancé is open that she doesn’t like giving head but she is quite good at it and does it because she knows I love it and gets me hard.
 
When was the last time you got a blowjob. Detail it and let us know how it was.
No judgment will come from me for who you got it from.
Probably this summer. My wife used to be into giving head weekly and that changed about 4-5 years ago. So for first 20 years of marriage, it happened a lot (hardly to completion, but still).

I honestly don't remember the last time I came from her giving me a blowjob but boy I could use one right now!!
 
When was the last time you got a blowjob. Detail it and let us know how it was.
No judgment will come from me for who you got it from.
Blowjobs have regressed and are seldom. In the beginning it would once in a while cum to completion with a swallow, Then it was a completion with no swallow. Then once in a while she would let me cum in her mouth or she'd finish with a hand job. It was weekly, then every 2 weeks, then every 3 weeks, now it's been a month.
Now when it happens she'll lay her head on my gut so I can hump her mouth while she squeezes my balls (heaven). She'll suck me for a bit like this, then she'll stop sucking but continue stroking but she'll have her mouth on a nipple of mine and suck hard while pulling my cock to completion. I like this but it's getting to be too rare of an occasion.
I jerk off more than our BJ sessions monthly
 
That's got pros and cons to it. Cause if you do your job right, your partner is exhausted - who wants to move after a good O? Still, it is quite gentlemanly of you to make sure she's satisfied first.
This highlights the advantage of a long-term relationship.

My GF's fave is to be eaten until she's ready to come, then get fucked and forced to come, then get eaten again and made to come over and over until she has to push me off. After that she curls up into a fetal ball and is useless.

But that's okay. We cuddle. I'm satisfied, even though I'm still aroused. Because I know that in the near future I'll be getting one of my faves (blow job, cowgirl, blowjob, for example).

So we're both very happy, and very willing to make the other happy. Win-win.
 
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