Break it off with him

[Mazuri]

I've read this several times and still am unsure what the problem is. You don't have to convince him you're no longer together, only yourself.

Tell him it's over. You owe him no explanations, nothing other than that simple phrase.

If he continues to talk, ignore him or turn your back on him and walk away. He is the only one looking rather silly talking to a brick wall (that'd be you). Do not answer the phone when he calls. Do not reply to email.

If he bothers you on a more personal level while at work, discussing things not related to your jobs, notify your boss that he is sexually harassing you and let them handle it. If your employer has a policy against employee dating, then you're on your own.

 

[tbs230]

I've done the email thing...if he doesn't respond, what will you do? Plus, if it's this hard for you to get him to understand that it's over, maybe he's (and I don't know if someone has already said this) maybe he's just not getting the "we're over" vibe from you...is this something you really want?

 

[center_stage]

I really do want this to be over, I really do. It's just so hard because he was my first, and he was the first guy that I ever felt comfortable with. I never had a boyfriend before, and I think that I was so excited that I got too eager and made things worse.

I am definitely talking to him tomorrow (he wasn't at work today) because today my mom told me that he is "seeing" the girl (my mom works in the mall we work at) that we usually fight about, I was always very uncomfortable with their relationship, and expressed that.

Turns out I was right. Like I said in the letter (don't worry, I am not giving it to him), I have spent way too many nights crying over him.

 

[tbs230]

I really do want this to be over, I really do. It's just so hard because he was my first, and he was the first guy that I ever felt comfortable with. I never had a boyfriend before, and I think that I was so excited that I got too eager and made things worse.

I am definitely talking to him tomorrow (he wasn't at work today) because today my mom told me that he is "seeing" the girl (my mom works in the mall we work at) that we usually fight about, I was always very uncomfortable with their relationship, and expressed that.

Turns out I was right. Like I said in the letter (don't worry, I am not giving it to him), I have spent way too many nights crying over him.

Good for you, I had a friend in your shoes, she just couldn't shake this guy, so be strong...sometimes it takes being a little mean to get your point across. Especially if he's seeing someone else, that would seriously piss me off !