Butt Stuff

I’m sure asked and answered, but just taking a poll. My wife doesn’t mind my interest in using toys during my alone time, but does not want to participate in using plugs or pegging. I try not to push her, but just curious on the vibe with other wives or ladies.
My wife is the same way. Wants nothing to do with my prostrate, etc.
 
Yeah, but there's something of the "can't tickle yourself" phenomenon about it.

I can and do masturbate, but it feels SO much better when it's another's hand. Same deal.
But of course, nothing beats the presence of a helping hand and a willing hard penis! 🤪
 
I’m sure asked and answered, but just taking a poll. My wife doesn’t mind my interest in using toys during my alone time, but does not want to participate in using plugs or pegging. I try not to push her, but just curious on the vibe with other wives or ladies.
Like you, my wife is well aware of my extensive collection of ass toys and klismaphilia gear and knows what I do with it during my "alone time" or long showers. When I get up to take a shower, and she says, "Have a nice time," she and I both know what she sincerely means. She used to participate but as we've aged (67 me and 72 her) her appetite for kink has somewhat waned whereas mine has not. Still, she does not begrudge me my solo pleasure and will occasionally watch, and masturbate, while I "do myself".

In the past, my wife often fucked me in the ass with a strapon, or double ended dildo (ass to ass or ass to pussy), or a huge buttplug, or a fist (she has very small hands…LOL) and often while I was wearing lingerie.

Lately, occasionally, she will wander in to the guest bath while I'm engaged in self love (no ass play in the master bath) and crack the shower door to see what I'm up to. I'm often too far gone, lost in pleasurable sensations, to even consider concealing what I'm doing. On occasion, she'll plop herself on the toilet seat and rub herself to orgasm while watching my kinky scene.....or...after completing my play and evening ablutions I'll sometimes join her in the living room....often with a big butt plug up my ass or retire to bed for a bit of the ol' "in/out, in/out".
 
My husband loves anal play. We both do. Just this morning while I was sucking his cock he slipped a dildo and some lube into my hand and spread his legs. I started with my fingers and finished with him cumming all over my tits while I fucked him hard with the dildo…

Hopefully he will fill my ass later when he’s home from work 💦
 
My husband loves anal play. We both do. Just this morning while I was sucking his cock he slipped a dildo and some lube into my hand and spread his legs. I started with my fingers and finished with him cumming all over my tits while I fucked him hard with the dildo…

Hopefully he will fill my ass later when he’s home from work 💦
Oh my yes!
 
I do enjoy anal penetration. Did myself for many years with dildo's, when I met my now wife, I let her know what I liked and that she should be aware that I would want anal sex from her.
At first she agreed, then later, after marriage, changed her mind and stopped giving anal, and no more blow jobs either.
I let this go on for several years, hopeing she would relent and give me what I needed again. Finally I got fed up and complained. She did come around and agreed to pegging again. I bought a strap on harness for her to wear the dildo's with.
This we had not done before, wearing a strap on as opposed to manual manipulation of the dildo.
God that was so good, the feeling of being fucked, while her body was pushing against me, oh god, so good.
eventually she tired of it again, and said I should seek out another sex partner, we don't want divorce, to have on the side.
So I guess I have a hall pass so to speak.
Now I need to find FWB, willing to fuck me. I am not rulling out another man at this point.
 
I do enjoy anal penetration. Did myself for many years with dildo's, when I met my now wife, I let her know what I liked and that she should be aware that I would want anal sex from her.
At first she agreed, then later, after marriage, changed her mind and stopped giving anal, and no more blow jobs either.
I let this go on for several years, hopeing she would relent and give me what I needed again. Finally I got fed up and complained. She did come around and agreed to pegging again. I bought a strap on harness for her to wear the dildo's with.
This we had not done before, wearing a strap on as opposed to manual manipulation of the dildo.
God that was so good, the feeling of being fucked, while her body was pushing against me, oh god, so good.
eventually she tired of it again, and said I should seek out another sex partner, we don't want divorce, to have on the side.
So I guess I have a hall pass so to speak.
Now I need to find FWB, willing to fuck me. I am not rulling out another man at this point.
I would think another man would be preferred. I have never found a dildo that is the equal of a nice hard cock. Plus feeling that cock throbbing at the end and knowing what that means.
 
I don’t mind my husband fucking my ass or using toys on me, and I don’t mind doing self anal pleasure. That said I really don’t desire to have anything to do with my husbands ass. He also isn’t interested in it. For me it has nothing to do with feeling like it feminizes him or is gay in any way, it’s just not an interest of mine.
 
I don’t mind my husband fucking my ass or using toys on me, and I don’t mind doing self anal pleasure. That said I really don’t desire to have anything to do with my husbands ass. He also isn’t interested in it. For me it has nothing to do with feeling like it feminizes him or is gay in any way, it’s just not an interest of mine.
And that’s ok.

Knowing likes and dislikes is part of human connection and discovery.
 
One time my girlfriend got me off with pegging, then we cleaned the dildo off and put a new condom over it and I wore the strap-on and pegged her. I got hard again and one-man double penetrated her! Fun times.
That is a neat trick, strapon assisted DP. Sounds like a lot of naughty fun. 🤭
 
I’m sure asked and answered, but just taking a poll. My wife doesn’t mind my interest in using toys during my alone time, but does not want to participate in using plugs or pegging. I try not to push her, but just curious on the vibe with other wives or ladies.
My wife is same, She thinks it's cool that I explore my body, I've had some fun alone time with toys while she was at work.
She does not want me using my toys while she's around.
Once she put a finger in my ass during a blowjob - never happened again. She has no energy so pegging is not going to be a topic.
 
My wife doesn’t enjoy anal. I don’t push the issue anymore.

But she is happy to prostate massage me or peg me. I get a lot of enjoyment from it, and I have prostate orgasms pretty easily.
Prostate orgasms still elude me, you are lucky to have experienced them. 😉
 
From an early age I found all areas of my body to be hyper sensitive and I could become aroused with any touch to my body, self inflicted or with a partner. Anal play for me from day one had been just a part of sex to me, not gay, not anything other than a pleasure zone. I would have figured it to be like that for all so when k began to have relations with women I quickly found out it was not quite that simple. Some enjoyed, some endured and some said “Fuck No!” All those were fine with me. I continue to this day even as a married man just enjoying the anal exploration and enjoyment for myself. I tried just once to put the push on my wife because well, we’re married, this is a kink, I want us both to enjoy. After a long discussion and 1 single attempt for her to use a dildo on me in the shower it was over. I had just inserted the dildo into my ass as we were passionately kissing I began to get I to the groove of you will and as soon as I moaned in enjoyment, she pulled away and said “I can not do this” and ran outta the room. Saddened that this wouldn’t be a part of our sexual relationship I also realized it’s ok with me. I continue to enjoy it when time allows, it’s a process to make sure it’ll be a clean experience, but when I can I enjoy it to no end, alone.
 
From an early age I found all areas of my body to be hyper sensitive and I could become aroused with any touch to my body, self inflicted or with a partner. Anal play for me from day one had been just a part of sex to me, not gay, not anything other than a pleasure zone. I would have figured it to be like that for all so when k began to have relations with women I quickly found out it was not quite that simple. Some enjoyed, some endured and some said “Fuck No!” All those were fine with me. I continue to this day even as a married man just enjoying the anal exploration and enjoyment for myself. I tried just once to put the push on my wife because well, we’re married, this is a kink, I want us both to enjoy. After a long discussion and 1 single attempt for her to use a dildo on me in the shower it was over. I had just inserted the dildo into my ass as we were passionately kissing I began to get I to the groove of you will and as soon as I moaned in enjoyment, she pulled away and said “I can not do this” and ran outta the room. Saddened that this wouldn’t be a part of our sexual relationship I also realized it’s ok with me. I continue to enjoy it when time allows, it’s a process to make sure it’ll be a clean experience, but when I can I enjoy it to no end, alone.
As long as you enjoy it, even alone, it’s fine.
 
Prostate orgasms still elude me, you are lucky to have experienced them. 😉
So to qualify:

I can have prostate orgasms very easily. Just not the ejaculatory type where cum comes out. (Altho that has happened twice to me… both were amazing).

When I have prostate orgasms, they are really pleasant muscle and/or prostate contractions.
 
So to qualify:

I can have prostate orgasms very easily. Just not the ejaculatory type where cum comes out. (Altho that has happened twice to me… both were amazing).

When I have prostate orgasms, they are really pleasant muscle and/or prostate contractions.
I usually cum with anal stimulation, but they are different with anal. I think it's similar to what women describe as a vaginal vs. clitoral orgasm.
 
Reading this I'm gaining a whole new appreciation for my wife! She's never had any issues with it. Fingering my ass was one of the first kinky things we tried. I loved it and I haven't looked back since (no pun intended). There's been strapons, dildos, fisting, prostate massagers, and even a few items that were not strictly intended for such usage.

Maybe it was easier because she didn't have to worry about turning me bisexual since I already was. In fact given that when we first met she and her friends were convinced I was gay maybe she thought she was turning me straight 🤣
 
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