Casual Sex?

[Gabriel1664]

Casual

Yes there have been casual friends/sex relationships ---
either when repeatedly traveling to same place for work, and developed a friend/lover, or some onetimefucks.
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[HoneyUndone]

I'm a big fan of casual sex, no strings, just have fun. I find I get bored in relationships.

 

[MrEd63]

I'm a big fan of casual sex, no strings, just have fun. I find I get bored in relationships.

You sound like my sort of girl

 

[Nightfall72]

(No - not talking about the 80s Lea Thompson movie...)

Do you enjoy casual sex? Do you ever feel empty afterwards, or is it all in good fun and variety is the spice of life?

How satisfying are these encounters? Do you think men are more able to enjoy casual sex than women are? Can you even have sex with very little actual "intimacy"? Or would you call your encounters intimate, even if you don't stir up any feelings of love/romance/etc.?

This can cover one-night stands, but I'm also looking for input from people who have repeated casual sex with the same person over a period of time (no romantic feelings/FWB).

I do enjoy casual sex though it was has been a while. I would be tearing up a FWB now if I had one. There is making love and then there is fucking. Some say no kissing on the lips separates them. By the way, very nice avatar photo if that is of you.

 

[HBergeron]

Casual sex is the only kind I'm really interested in these days.

 

[WeeLassie]

Was fun while growing up

 

[newhere2learn]

Love it, especially if you're both in the same place i.e. need to get off.

Had it a few times, one she was a bit clingy but pure filth. Two more, fwb arrangement. We'd simply text when horny, tease each other a day or two..meet. fuck/play until sated.

Then part ways for a while.

No empty feelings, perhaps a text a few hours later along the lines of;

"I just coughed, and can taste your cum"

But the lack of feelings, made the whole thing easier to be open and blunt about what we wanted.

One text me simply saying;

"Tomorrow morning, your tongue in my ass. Nothing else"

Was great.

Older women who are divorced/split seem to like these arrangements best IME

 

[Erotic69er]

I enjoy it when I was growing up.

I still enjoy having sex with new people although I do,usually prefer it with regular friends.

 

[HampshireBoy]

I've had a few one night (or two night) stands, which I would classify as casual. We met and for whatever reason things clicked enough to end up in bed together, sex was good each time. In the morning I think we both realised that it wasn't going to work as a relationship and we parted each time on friendly terms.

FWB, to me, is different and not what I would call casual. For me it is better in that you have time to learn each other's likes and dislikes and the sex is much better for it. The key word for me is "friends" so sex is not the only thing that you enjoy together. I've had a couple of FWB arrangements and we might spend the entire weekend together, without sleeping together, or we might spend the entire weekend fucking each other until totally worn out - it depended on all sorts of factors. We had a relationship, just ot what either of us would call dating.

 

[Lisalit13]

I’ve had some great casual sex...no strings attached, no bullsh t...just amazing sex and done lol

 

[Idic]

I have no tattoos. A regular spinster tattoo virgin, I am.

Good. Skin is very sensual. Tattoos ruin the sensuality and from any distance just look like injured or diseased skin.

Back to the topic - no casual sex for me. The closest was a several month relationship woman that I liked, but just couldn't fall in love with. Even that was unsatisfying, I need the whole deal.

 

[30bandits]

I’ve had some great casual sex...no strings attached, no bullsh t...just amazing sex and done lol

shall we ?

 

[Duckers22]

Find casual sex highly erotic - Attracted to the person in question, explore their mind in the build up, then explore them sexually during the sex, then afterwards if they've hit my buttons I'll remember them forever and use them when playing solo - the key to it all is the sexual connection and understanding that it's fun, sex and most likely once only

 

[Crownvic]

I'm a big fan of casual sex, no strings, just have fun. I find I get bored in relationships.

I agree with you honey...it’s nice to have some choices.

 

[LikeableMe]

I once knew a guy who had a friend with benefits, and actively looked to build a list of women who he could have casual encounters with, but personally, it’s not for me. I get excitement from certain things only being for a special someone!

 

[notredame43]

here and there maybe

But for me i like it better if i have at least some level of feelings for them.even if its a good hard fuck it just seems better somehow. thats my 2 cents for what its worth

I disagree - I think you can sleep with people for a physical release and not have romantic feelings for them, even on an ongoing basis. I mean - why not?

 

[questioneveryone]

For immediate need, without strings, if you can enjoy being in the moment or even one you can slip back into, between relationships, like a good ole' shoe

 

[natflyer]

I've had "ships that pass in the night" sort of encounters before, as well as LTRs. In both, though, the worst sex I've had is when she's not interested in getting off as well for any reason. If she's not getting the max out of it, I lose interest quickly.

 

[BongoGal]

I adore casual sex.

 

[7inchglory]

Me and current sub/LG have lot's of casual sex. We talk on the phone a few times a week and spend Saturday mornings together with each other. It's nice that we can be in our own relationships but do things with each other still. Really liking the poly arrangement

 

[Blueeyesrenee]

I do enjoy casual sex though it was has been a while. I would be tearing up a FWB now if I had one. There is making love and then there is fucking. Some say no kissing on the lips separates them. By the way, very nice avatar photo if that is of you.

Love a man that knows the difference between making love and fucking!!

FWB are a lot of fun.

 

[BongoGal]

There is making love and then there is fucking. Some say no kissing on the lips separates them.

This is true. I can't say that I never kiss my FWBs, but on the relatively rare occasions when I do, it's never a gentle, romantic kiss. It's more of an animalist and passionate act of lust.