Catching men/anyone in an obvious cleavage stare

[Tigerlily3]

I'm also 6'4" and make the most of any opportunity!
Only once have I had a lady comment that I would be tall enough to look down girls tops but she said it in a way that meant I was lucky.

Seems like a perfect extra benefit to being tall! Congrats on using your advantages well

 

[91Ranger]

I find guys looking down my wife's tops a lot. She didn't have big tits but we'll worth looking at. The fun thing is she wants guys to look at them. She told me one time " these things are for looking at and sucking ". Can't argue with that. Could add a few more items to the list though.

 

[king04]

Seems like a perfect extra benefit to being tall! Congrats on using your advantages well

i wouldn't mind getting caught checking out your cleavage '

 

[Son1]

I have seen people checking my mom's cleavage out when we are out in public. I am flattered when I see them checking her out.

 

[melimelissa]

in the background

I am flattered when I see them checking her out.

And they were really
checking the Eiffel Tower
in the background - smiles

Méli

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[Kindude]

I have a couple of ladies at work whose eyes will often drift down to my chest when we are in conversation. If I wasn't an unremarkable male I'd definitely think they were leering at me.

It confuses the hell out of me. What are they looking at?

 

[Hitchiker69]

As a 68 y.o. boob lover, I've given up pretending. I will stare at big boobs blatantly. Some girls notice and fell awkward, some are flattered.
But I wonder...for those women who are obviously showing off their boobs, and proud of them, with low cut tops, nearly showing nipples, and tanned boobs, is it appropriate to voice a compliment?

 

[FGB]

If you get bored sometimetake some string and tape and make some cross hairs on your TV or computer monitor...or whatever.


Interesting how often Tits and Ass & Camel toes somehow seem to get center stage.

Plausible Deniability is all well and fine but when the cross hairs follow the target or stays slightly off target center until someone clearly makes it change is interesting.

Just what ARE some of those commercials trying to sale anyway?

 

[Corbie]

When I was a bit heavier, I actually could rock a little cleavage with the help of the right bra. But now that I'm back down to my skinny self, no chance without a padded, torture device bra. I did like guys checking out my cleavage when I had it.

When I was younger, I often wore very tight tops without a bra. I had a lot of guys look long and hard even though I was not showing much skin.

Well now you can just go without your bra and wear loose fitting shirts and find reasons to bend over or lean down.

 

[Trixxii]

But I wonder...for those women who are obviously showing off their boobs, and proud of them, with low cut tops, nearly showing nipples, and tanned boobs, is it appropriate to voice a compliment?

No. Unless you are very familiar or have some type of relationship with said busty female where sexual flirtation or banter exists....I would not take that chance. While I know a fair amount of women who would welcome and enjoy such flattery, I also know an equal amount who would rip you apart or find it creepy & extremely harassing.

Personally, ogling is a compliment in itself, equal to one that is voiced.

I have a couple of ladies at work whose eyes will often drift down to my chest when we are in conversation. If I wasn't an unremarkable male I'd definitely think they were leering at me.

It confuses the hell out of me. What are they looking at?

Unremarkable. Says who?

Sounds as though you have something going on and just aren't aware of it. Dad bodies. Furry chests. They're a thing. Maybe those two things don't apply to you --but my point is-- alot of us ladies adore the every day guy and find you extremely sexy. Just sayin'.

What attracts us varies and isn't always so easy to figure out.

There is a man I'm in regular contact with when I travel for work. He's not my type, not someone I'd be interested in romantically or sexually. He's also not muscular, doesn't have a strong chest, etc. But there have been times, during our talks and business dinners, when my eyes have strayed to his chest and remained glued there. All because of his breathing. The way it seemed to change ....from steady to heavy to evening back out....throughout the conversation. It was sexy and pretty sure I was leering so....

 

[Funnbrandy]

Cleavage

If I have cleavage hanging out its because I expect people to notice, lol
But I have caught lots of people staring, I usually just leave it alone though.

 

[Dreamer110]

My wife has caught quite a bit and if she likes to them she'll give them a smile.

 

[tmmmbrrr]

If I have cleavage hanging out its because I expect people to notice, lol
But I have caught lots of people staring, I usually just leave it alone though.

smiles...

It's hard to interpret that any other way. No woman doesn't know when her cleavage is on display. They may choose to act high-minded and demure, but c'mon. If you're going to show your tits off, I'm going to enjoy the show.

Been caught at it? Of course.

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[Andrea1970]

If a woman is displaying her cleavage, of course she knows she will attract attention, and if she complains about that she is lying. I am a big girl, I like to show them off, and I love the attention they get. Crude comments are less welcome but they go with the territory.

 

[Crownvic]

If a woman is displaying her cleavage, of course she knows she will attract attention, and if she complains about that she is lying. I am a big girl, I like to show them off, and I love the attention they get. Crude comments are less welcome but they go with the territory.

Holy cleavage...great look!!

 

[Chuck Darwin]

This scenario has always left me wondering if women want/expect men to look. I know this is a touchy subject at times (because it borders on 'well what did she expect'), but in all seriousness, if a woman has great boobs, proud of them, likes to show some cleavage etc. as a bit of fun, I just cannot NOT look. I'm not a creep, but imagine there are some men out there that look a bit too long and don't give a shit if they get caught looking. There's an art to it IMO. And outside, sunglasses are the key!

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I'm also a breast lover and can't help but look - whether there is cleavage or pokies on display or not. I do remember once getting caught looking at a married woman's cleavage at the grocery store and she smile at me. As I walked by her I got ballsy and thanked her for her boldness which I think caught her off guard as I just continued on my way. That was it - no sex in the parking lot, just an appreciation of what she was doing. I don't think she actually expected a guy to speak back to her unless perhaps to try and pick her up.

 

[hulmule]

Got caught today at the store. Funny thing she turned around and came towards me again. Thank you sweetheart...

 

[Paradox]

I recently had a medical test that required me to lay on my side facing the technician for about 45 minutes. My eyes were right at the level of her breasts about 18" away. I'm afraid I stared.

 

[georgerb]

I get a lot of cleavage stares. Which is funny - I don't have any cleavage.

Appreciative folks who liked the size of your chest?

 

[davion2308]

My neighbor

My wife has very small breasts, AA cups, and she's super athletic so her body fat is nothing. I encourage her to go braless and wear loose shirts and dresses but she is very reserved. It's shame because it'd be an easy way to show down her shirt so men and women could enjoy her nipples.

My neighbor, on the other hand, is a flirt. She's late 30s, same age as me, and she likes wearing plunging tops that show skin. She has a few kids, just like my family, we share a fence, and I'll talk with her over the chainlink while our kids play together.

I know she knows I can see her goods and I think she really likes the attention. She finds ways to be outside and come chat with me whenever I'm in the back yard or out front with my kids. I'll enjoy a quick glance and appreciate it but I'm not a staring kind of guy. It's very much subtle glances and thank you smiles for her.

She likes my thank you smiles.

 

[Vman55]

I agree with the poster above, usually when someone is staring at my cleavage it’s becausd I’ve worn clothing that draws attention to it. And I don’t mind the attention at all.

A few years ago I had a green dress with spaghetti shoulder straps. It was low cut and tight in the bodice with a slightly flared skirt. I bought it from the VS catalog back when they still sold non lingerie clothing there. It had a push up bra made into the dress and it really um... did the trick, made the girls look amazing. So much so that it hung in my closet, never worn, for a few years. I was afraid of wearing it where I might see people that know me, afraid they would judge me for being too revealing or inappropriate.

I wore that green dress for the first time on a girl’s trip with other married ladies from my neighborhood. I was instructed to bring/wear sexy dresses by my girl friends, so I packed that green dress. When I came out of the bathroom from putting it on, one of my girl friends said ‘wow!’ Then she leaned forward and motor boated me. I had already had some champagne that afternoon (she had too) so I laughed but my face flushed. I asked my friends if the dress was just too much and they said no it’s perfect.

We went to a casino that night and I played blackjack for hours. I alternated between two tables where the dealers were lovely Latin men. I practiced my Spanish and enjoyed watching their gaze all over my bosom each time I leaned forward to place a bet. I also enjoyed watching as the gaze of other players—men and women—lingered on my breasts. It seemed inevitable that every person who saw me would take some time to look at my cleavage. Honestly loved it. I won more money than I ever had before that night. I usually leave the casino once I win $1,000 but I stayed til 1am and took home $3,500 that night. Being oogled was just intoxicating to me that night.

A month or so later, back in my city of residence, my husband and I went to dinner with a few other couples. I decided to wear the dress a second time. We went to the Bavarian Grill, a somewhat cheesy but very lively place with live music and the servers wear drndls or liederhosen. Our waiter was a cute guy 10 years my junior and he just could not stop staring at my cleavage. So much so that it became a running joke at our table, my friends would say ‘Elena could your breasts please order another round of beer?’ It was fun and I (and my husband) enjoyed all the attention my green dress brought me that night.

I don’t enjoy being oogled at work and I wear conservative professional clothes. But when I dress up to draw attention to my body I enjoy being appraised by stragers’ eyes.

Love it^^^^^

 

[ShaneoD]

With the weather at the moment, I feel like this thread might have more than a few ladies who could post, whether they intended to make others stare or not

 

[Crownvic]

With the weather at the moment, I feel like this thread might have more than a few ladies who could post, whether they intended to make others stare or not

I love to stare sometimes...she enjoys it too...:

 

[Cate_Archer]

I have pretty conspicuous breasts, and I get glances a bit when I am out and about. It's a bit flattering as long as I am not getting overly leered at, i.e. glancing is fine, staring is creepy.